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Remember that you can channel your autism on different things like work, rpg games or wordswordswords-posting on rdrama.
The most important thing is to not turn into a weird trans coomer ,don't let that stuff take hold of you
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Unironically correct. It's just narcissistic chronic masturbation for failed men.
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What caused the men to fail? Did the even have a chance as a baby scrote or did it
at the hands of their mothers?
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We all know this affliction comes from porn consumption, which is a symptom of low motivation/personal agency.
Yeah, you could potentially blame the parents for letting screens raise their kids, but, like...
I don't get how people can just continuously lie to themselves. It's so obvious when people are trying to circumvent or skirt around (ba-dum-tss) the difficulties and challenges of...just normal life without going so far into fantasy to fulfill aberrant desires that they wouldn't even HAVE if they'd not fried their own brains on masturbation dopamine hits.
I don't know if I was a coomer, but I was a furry. I put in the work to break the habits and be a normal person and my life is unquestionably better for it.
I feel like I hate people that don't improve themselves and live in fantasy.
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These fine folks must have been addicted to their Victorian OnlyFannies novels:
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Looks more like a caricature than
s. Bias is showing here but the most famous pre-modern 
we know of, Elagabalus, is literally the epitome of coom-stricken failson.
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I don't know. I met a lot of millennial men who didn't grow up with phones and the internet and had a lot of issues due to poor parenting, particularly strict religious parenting. I think some people are on such a hair trigger from Tumbler/Chud posts about their parents that they immediately become contrarian about it.
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That sounds realistic and I understand your point.
I didn't have the right kind of fatherly guidance (he left when I was 11. and I suffered in my 20s and 30s for it. I'll never be as successful as I COULD have been. I pushed HARD, eliminated and am STILL eliminating shit influences from my life. My life is substantially better now because of the mindfulness and effort I put in.
I own the shit choices I made and the red flags I ignored (the furry fandom is a cesspool of sexual abuse and grooming). That's why I'm so aggressive about about it: I hate who I was, the choices i made, and who I looked up to. So you could say I'm sensitive about it, but I own my mistakes.
I'm probably harder on myself than necessary and DEFINITELY harder on others for the same reasons.
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Appreciate it
Frick that's hard and complex. She sounds awful. I'm sure you've gotten lots of advice and have coping habits.
You have your agency and I bet you're making decisions to be better than her, so, chin up.
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Yeah. It's just very
when the larger behavioral issues are only getting recognized and addressed in my 30's and only because I moved back with my parents due to medical issues and got to experience it all over again. Two long term relationships got ruined by those behaviors I picked up. Your age matters so if you lose your 20s then you're far behind and lose a lot of opportunities. I'm pretty sure I'll die childless now and never get the financial stability I worked so hard for.
I hope you keep getting better. I was told it can take over a decade to work on childhood issues.
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Stop calling them failed men. They get off to that
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