A guy I was with at a party told a girl he “liked her boobs” and got her number??
I was at a party… Not a particularly trashy or dingy one either. Just a bunch of smart professional seeming gpeople from a relatively upscale and prestigious university mingling and dancing casually.
I meet this guy who was definitely handsome but not particularly. Tall as shit though like 6”2 or 6”3 and pretty fit with long hair. I was talking to him for a while and he was pretty cool and seemed pretty normal and all the sudden this cute normal put together girl with noticeably large boobs under her shirt walks by and he just goes “Hey.” pointing at her “you, yeah, you. I like your boobs.” It wasn't delivered very douche-ily; but obviously it's an inherently douche-y thing to say
She stood there for a second as I stood in shock and asked “Do you want my number?” and he just answered “Sure” and she gave it to him.
She could easily have walked away without any consequence he wasn't following or harassing her or anything she CHOSE and OFFERED to give him her number.
Afterward I was fricking dumbfounded and asked the guy WTF just happened and he was like “What? I complimented her and she gave me her number” and took a sip of his drink like it was nothing.
This goes against everything I know about dating and flirting and relationships and women and everything about humanity in general.
I know that some women are just into trashy guys or attracted to boldness or confidence but this is like a very attractive very sophisticated 22 year old woman who is presumably quite refined and intelligent considering the university she goes to.
What happened here? How did this work? If you are handsome and tall can you really get away with shit like this? He seemed genuinely unsurprised and casual throughout the whole thing even after the girl left so apparently it was normal for him.
WTF??!?!?!
Edit: To all the people saying “he's handsome and tall, that explains it.” He was not much more handsome or fit than average and about the same height as me which is for whatever reason typical in our age group and school (not many men under 6”0).
And he was SO BOLD AND CASUAL. Like unbelievably. Clearly this line or similar is working for him A LOT.
And he did not know the girl and she looked like the absolute last type of person it would work on.
This situation is a lot more confounding then I think many of you are giving it credit for.
Edit 2: I am a straight male
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that same line worked several times for me...chicks love compliments...
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I bet he worked on himself for a really long time
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Bruh
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OP is this neighbor, mentalcel that's NGMI
https://www.nplusonemag.com/issue-35/fiction-drama/the-feminist/
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He writes like a woman. Probably talks like one too
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this guy failed the feminist shit test. you hate to see it
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I met a guy that did this irl but he was the bottom picture of the HR comic. He was asked to leave the party and he came crying to me about it.
I just looked at him like the r-slur he is.
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It's that simple. Just be nice.
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he witnessed chad in action
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I feel sorry for guys like this so when they hit on me and fail miserably at it i give them straightforward advice, but that makes them think they haven't already blown it with me and keep trying even though like, im only going to break the 4th wall and give you advice if you said something so wimpy that it's already a 100% no.
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Have you posted photos yet?
Follower of Christ Tech lover, IT Admin, heckin pupper lover and occasionally troll. I hold back feelings or opinions, right or wrong because I dislike conflict.
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Literally regardless of what i look like the comments will be
e-relationships are for shut-ins so i will never post pics here
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Follower of Christ Tech lover, IT Admin, heckin pupper lover and occasionally troll. I hold back feelings or opinions, right or wrong because I dislike conflict.
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Why is it that so often people say "cope" when they themselves are coping? You have to be a massive loser to post selfies here, download a dating app or something and meet people in real life bro you cant see me
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Hello whore, nice HRT jugs.
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Hey nice tits
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lol!
DASHA U FRICKING WISH!!!!!!!!
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Me on the left
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Darn if only Dasha had huge sloppy naturals...
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Me in the middle (of alexes boobs hubba hubba)
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She will come to you once she has chads children. redditor is just playing the long game
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@Downie, look! The straggot nerds keep trying to respect women instead of just fricking them!
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I used to think this way until I realized that bussy is superior to women in every way
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This is just autism really. I mean literally, this is just the result of not being able to read between the lines and understand nuance in social interactions. They're unable to parse the entirety of these interactions and can only understand the words being said, which is why they only really like having conversations with other autists who just beep-boop factoids at each other like robots.
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Jesus Christ, maybe if they spent more time talking to girls and less time writing essays on Reddit they would get somewhere.
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yup acting like a woman makes you repulsive you them
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The Elliot Rodger strat
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Only if you're unattractive. Women will make the first move if you're hot enough.
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Yep, I used to be a pretty solid 9/10 (getting older now and not quite as hot).
I never had to do shit. Girls would buy me drinks and invite me to "watch a movie" at their place all the time.
When I had a girlfriend in college this ramped up to an extreme. If a dude waited, fully naked, in the bedroom of a girl he barely knew, he'd end up in jail. When a girl does it, it's "cheeky".
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Sure, but it doesn't change the fact that most moids get kitty by actively seeking it. Even in your case you were in social situations where you were meeting foids. The inkwell autists don't even hang around girls or normie moids even.
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Should have gutted the whore and sold her organs to Arabian royalty just saying
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Why
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The grind neighbor rise and shine
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Getting jacked
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this guy goes to True Story University
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I noticed the same thing at uni, white guys are really tall there.
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I'd assume that's pretty common considering IQ and height are positively correlated. 6 feet is just top 20% in America, seems pretty likely that'd be floor in a place taking in say top 1%(which I sure hope it is for the redditor to go on about how nice of a uni he goes to for so long).
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Always shoot first when you see a manlet
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I guess mathematics manlet wasn't invited
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Poor guy, sounds like she groomed/manipulated him with what she was wearing and how she walked by him
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Rule 1: be Chad
Rule 2: Don't be not Chad.
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I wink at foids and blow kisses at foids within 2 standard deviations of my looks and it usually works as a good icebreaker.
They do get more interested in me when I talk about jiujitsu and show them what a triangle choke looks like.
It really activates their almonds.
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Rule 3: foid advice from reddit does not reflect the real world
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Rule 3: foid (dating) advice *
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Charm confuses the redditor
In the grizzly darkness of the far future, there is only moid seethe.
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fake and straight. but if its real kill him
!incels !wincels
lol sure pal. She may have been attractive but this dude fell for the Halo Effect. no 22 yr old is "refined and sophisticated" no matter WHAT uni she goes to. The hoity toity ones probably is a sign of less sophistication tbh.
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In my young days, in middle/high school, I was prone to overestimating the personality and intellect of women. It was certainly in part due to my desire for them, but I think the main reason was that I was applying the wrong heuristics, I was judging them like I was judging my male colleagues.
Men are either completely r-slurred or smart, so any small glimmer of intelligence was pretty much a proof of being the latter group. With women this doesn't work, they have a higher baseline, but a lower deviation. Also better communication skills. And I was confusing agreeableness with maturity.
I was shocked to learn that the girls I had (what a 13-year-old me at the time perceived as) intelligent, thoughtful conversations with, were failing middle school math. I never experienced this with boys.
But that was in middle school, not at the university lol
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I actually totally understand what you're saying but you're better off giving people the benefit of the doubt and assuming the best but at the same time expecting the worst behavior. If you adopt this mindset everything falls into place, and you are both prepared for the worst and also extremely gracious while encouraging people live up to their full potential
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why are you writing like sneedman lmao
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Holy we found a good one
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RIGHT thats what i thought too lol
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Unnecessary and uncalled for ping two more strikes and you're getting blocked + megadownvoted buddy, don't test your luck
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