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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] AITA for canceling Christmas dinner because my husband's "secret Santa" gift was for his gaming buddy and not me?

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Info- So is that all he got you for Christmas or was that just a side secret Santa thing? (43)

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INFO: Was the candle the only gift he got you? (27)

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Good on you! NOT an over reaction at all. I'm a pretty low key kinda girl. I know I'm a bit hard to buy for. But my husband does try and today I got some very nice things from him. But if he'd done that? I'd be incredibly hurt. Really upset. Just shows no concern or love for you at all. He did not even try a little bit. That's just awful.So sorry you are having a shit day now. And nope. I wouldn't want to be hosting any darn dinner for anyone. Block the whole lot of them after sending them all a text telling them to frick off and leave you alone. And after only 3 years of marriage? Your husband is like this? That's very bad sign, Frankly? I'd review my marriage to that man. YOu are too young to already be stuck in a marriage where your husband treats you like shit. I've been married 30 years and we have had our ups and downs. But he has never treated me that disrespectfully and with such lack of kindness or decency. Think hard whether you stay with that man. Truly. (1)

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NTA for being upset about getting a thoughtless present from your husband. Been there. It hurts.ย But ABSOLUTELY YTA for cancelling dinner for EVERYONE??!! Wtf? Grow up! You ruined Christmas and you need to get out there and apologize to an entire family. If you're gonna be petty, you should've opened that candle in front of his family and started tearing up and excuse yourself until someone came to check on you.ย  You should've waited for someone to b-word at your husband FOR you. That wouldve made him the petty selfish one, not you.ย  (2)

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Why would the box with 'The Warlords' gift be under the tree?ETA: For everyone who keeps explaining why they keep non-family presents under the tree, none of you are explaining why a present for an online friend would be kept under the tree instead of posted to them directly. (7962)

That's not the only thing too. A blown up phone with everyone in his entire family telling her she's selfish and just being completely obsessed with her as if they don't have anything better to spend their time on. At Christmas Eve at all times. Secret Santa with names on the tags so it's not anonymous. Plus a $100 requirement "Hosting Christmas dinner every year for his family" even though they've only been married for 3 years.Last but not least is glazing a ham all day. What in the goddarn frick, nobody does that to a ham all day long. OP needs writing lessons. And someone to tell them to never, ever do any kind of elaborate crime. They will be caught within minutes with all the holes and arrogant stupidity throughout their obvious fake story. (545)

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This but unironically.

The vaginal jew lacks any mental capacity to understand platonic relationships. Only fiscal ones :#marseymerchantfoid:

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Dammit! This appeals to my sexism but I can't endorse it!

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How is it antisemitic? I'm not talking about jews

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Has nobody stopped to ask even a few logistic leaps of logic in this fanfic?

Like, was this gaming buddy going to go to this Christmas party? Why is the gift on the tree if it was for someone he plays online with? Wouldn't you send that via package? And if he was actually coming to the party, surely this means he's an old friend of his and probably has more history with him? Why would you even admit to ruin the whole point of a secret Santa by stating you knew who was assigned to who? And then ruin it even more by opening the present before the party even started?

I need to read more of these to sharpen up on writing coherently and without plot inconsistencies

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You fell for a bot post.

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All great :marseyfingergoodjob: points


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It probably is a fake story, but if she's the kind of greedy dumb b-word who would open other people's presents, she's already an butthole never mind if the story is true or not.

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Least fake AITA post

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Good on you! NOT an over reaction at all. I'm a pretty low key kinda girl.

:xd:

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Heh, a bot post created drama picked up by a bot.

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For context, my husband has a gaming buddy he plays with almost every night who goes by "The Warlord."

Is any of this a euphemism?

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Redditors have to talk themselves through why it's ragebait lmao

Lets pretend it is real for a second, why would you let some stupid personal relationship affect your mood anyway? Why do people put so much weight on random shit they read

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Lets pretend YOU are real for a second, how about that

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God I hope he's blasting his online friends bussy behind his wife's back.

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Wife is J-pilled, parents are open and never opposing to my distain for jews and my love of history and the NatSoc movement. Sister in law is bleeding heart liberal, but not extreme leftist still shuts down and won't talk when cornered in an argument against her beliefs.

Anyways, today somehow jews came up and WWII which got the comment "Hitler was the most evil man" my wife overhears, rolls her eyes, gets ready for the speech. I casually explain to my sister in law what the jews did to German people before WWII and why Hitler gained power, what he did for Germany, and how the Holocaust doesn't make sense and numbers don't add up.

I talked for an hour straight as she butted in with questions but sat quietly listening as you could see her face deeply question everything she's been told. After an hour she didn't freak out or shut down, just politely said "that's all I can handle on Christmas" and when we hugged goodbye she whispered "nazi" as I whispered "sieg heil" at the same time to each other and everyone burst out laughing.

That would have NEVER happened before. The fact it did means she is becoming much more comfortable with my views which I consider huge win.

Merry Christmas!

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Info- So is that all he got you for Christmas or was that just a side secret Santa thing?:

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INFO: Was the candle the only gift he got you?:

Good on you! NOT an over reaction at all. I'm a pretty low key kinda girl. I know I'm a bit hard to buy for. But my husband does try and today I got some very nice things from him. But if he'd done that? I'd be incredibly hurt. Really upset. Just shows no concern or love for you at all. He did not even try a little bit. That's just awful.So sorry you are having a shit day now. And nope. I wouldn't want to be hosting any darn dinner for anyone. Block the whole lot of them after sending them all a text telling them to frick off and leave you alone. And after only 3 years of marriage? Your husband is like this? That's very bad sign, Frankly? I'd review my marriage to that man. YOu are too young to already be stuck in a marriage where your husband treats you like shit. I've been married 30 years and we have had our ups and downs. But he has never treated me that disrespectfully and with such lack of kindness or decency. Think hard whether you stay with that man. Truly.:

NTA for being upset about getting a thoughtless present from your husband. Been there. It hurts.ย But ABSOLUTELY YTA for cancelling dinner for EVERYONE??!! Wtf? Grow up! You ruined Christmas and you need to get out there and apologize to an entire family. If you're gonna be petty, you should've opened that candle in front of his family and started tearing up and excuse yourself until someone came to check on you.ย  You should've waited for someone to b-word at your husband FOR you. That wouldve made him the petty selfish one, not you.ย :

That's not the only thing too. A blown up phone with everyone in his entire family telling her she's selfish and just being completely obsessed with her as if they don't have anything better to spend their time on. At Christmas Eve at all times. Secret Santa with names on the tags so it's not anonymous. Plus a $100 requirement "Hosting Christmas dinner every year for his family" even though they've only been married for 3 years.Last but not least is glazing a ham all day. What in the goddarn frick, nobody does that to a ham all day long. OP needs writing lessons. And someone to tell them to never, ever do any kind of elaborate crime. They will be caught within minutes with all the holes and arrogant stupidity throughout their obvious fake story.:

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Don't need to read any of the comment. Yes, you are.

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