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Husband makes the mistake of complaining about wife :marseyboomer: , Reddit's Wife Defence Force storms in :marseyfeminist: :snipsnip:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1hymz90/i_was_walking_on_sunshine_after_an_event_got_home/

								

								

I just ran an event. It was so meaningful to me.

Bla bla bla this :marseypedo: libertarian coach cute twink did some gay sporting event involving children

I called someone on my ride home and talked for 30 minutes, all smiles.

I get home late and I'm glad to finally relax. I bellyflop onto the bed and do a dramatic sigh.

:marseysquint: this reads like a woman wrote it but ok

My wife says, "did you come in from the garage? Is the laundry done?" I say I don't know. "Get off the bed, I just washed the sheets."

:marseymanysuchcases: scrotes disrespecting household labour :marseydisagree:

I said okay and left the room. She followed me and said she didn't know what she did wrong. Asked me if we could start over. I said sure. She told me about her day, said she wants to hear about mine but she's tired and hopes she will fall asleep soon. "Do you still want to tell me about it?" No thanks. The end.

That's it. Idk how to explain it. She knew how important it was. She knew the effort. She knew I was genuinely excited to talk about it. She knew. She knows.

Basically this uncaring harlot doesn't give a solitary frick about her husband or anything he does :marseypikachu2: Let's see if Reddit gave this moid a safe space to vent


So…when you were at your highest, you didn't call your wife; you called a friend. That says a lot about the lack of support you expect from her.

βœ… It was actually your fault :marseyagree:

Think hard about this one kiddo, she should have been with you. Why wasn't she?

If it's important to them; yes.

That's largely silly, just because he had time to coach doesn't mean she wasn't working, or watching 3 kids, or had laundry,

Expecting support from your life partner is 'largely silly' because of :marseynotes: laundry

Seriously, I feel like we need to hear her side in this particular situation. The fact that he came in, and while I'm just going off of what OP told us, I imagine he didn't say anything until he "slumped" on the bed and sighed??!! Who's so happy and excited and then lays exhaustingly on the bed and lets out a dramatic sigh??!! She's probably sick of shit honestly.

https://media.tenor.com/USMKa-KRtlMAAAAx/spongebob-riot.webp YEAH FRICK THIS CUTE TWINK AND HIS HAPPINESS

I feel like there's more to this. Why talk to someone else for 1/2 an hour? Why does she not respond to you? I am hearing a lot of negativity towards her but maybe you don't give her that attention.

My ex husband used to put so much time and effort into everyone else.

>be miserable c*nt

>husband prefers other people

:marseyshook: :marseyfoidretard:

You should have told the truth. Yes, you DID want to talk about it. Burying the feelings doesn't help anyone. Communication is key.

:marseyindignant: clueless scrote. You have to treat your wife like an r-slured toddler and tell her explicitly what to do all the time. :marseyclueless: She'll love that!

I also would feel very hurt if I spent hours cleaning and my husband just came and slept on sport clothes in the fresh bed

Plus he gets directly to bed.. Like what did the kid eat? Was that mom's responsibility?

https://media.tenor.com/BG9HYx3F7mQAAAAx/side-eye.webp uh, yes? :marseyconfused:

I think this one is on you for deciding not to tell her about your day after the whole exchange was said and done.

Reading this, I thought props to her for asking to start over at all. If I was home doing chores and my husband came in, didn't say anything to me and immediately went and laid on clean sheets without changing - a big pet peeve of mine - I'd be pissed.

You mean to tell me Redditors are unlovable psychopaths :marseyshook:

How much of the household management was left to your wife?

Every single r-slur in this thread is explicitly concerned with the fact that :marseyfoidretard: had to lift a solitary finger and not be waited on hand and foot 24/7

As a woman who often carries the mental load despite many many attempts to create systems that divvy it up more equally with my partner,

https://media.tenor.com/W3VDyi6qpHsAAAAx/eyeroll-the-rock.webp sounds like a fun relationship!

Exactly. All while he was out enjoying his hobby to the fullest extent expecting her to be jubilant after her full day of chores. It doesn't sound good.

Maybe it's because I'm a :marseydudesrock: moid but I'm actually fully capable of both performing menial household tasks AND not being a miserable c*nt about it! My DMs are open ladies :marseyxoxo:

I'm still on team foid though because he sounds like more of a woman than she does. :marseytrain2:


Whose side are you on for this extremely tepid drama?

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Nothing infuriates me more than western discource's overcorrection to "domestic chores are EQUAL in EVERY WAY to traditional paid labor and ARE ACTUALLY WORSE because no money?!?!?"

Like sure if someone is a stay at home parent of ~3 kids they certainly have aren't not doing work, but like...it's easier than most jobs. "Jokingly" comparing it to (for example) nursing because your kid sometimes has diarrhea is wild because you're ostensibly nursing people you love, not horrible strangers. Some people cook for their family out of pure love and because its a hobby, but suddenly when it's your only obligation for the day it becomes slave labor? It's 2025 and 90% of the work a housewife did in the 50s has been automated. No one has ever explained to me what precisely is happening between 9am and 3pm for a stay at home parent that makes it so taxing (and it's because everyone secretly knows nothing particularly tiresome occurs).

The idea that someone who presumably did a typical 9-5 followed by a physically exterting coaching job then has to kowtow to someone when they get home because they did laundry and fed their own kids is truly unhinged

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They have to put up with a kid all day? 90% of people would rather import a thirdie to take care of their kid and work a real job in order to afford it.

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But they dont have to put up with the kid all day, thats the point :marseynoyoufellowpedo: (and even if they did, daycare workers are paid like 50c an hour to watch :marseypopcorntime: like 16 kids they don't even like let alone :marseymoidmoment: love, so the argument :marseystrawman: that having to watch :marseysalitssomewhere: your own two nonbinary :marseymicrosoftpride: kids for 4 hours in the evening is worth a salary is ridic)

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You were complaining about the "western discourse". People in the west want to be able to hand off their kids to someone else to look after, not get paid to look after them themselves.

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Yes this is a conversation??? Have you had one b4?

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You sure sound like a foid.

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!metashit, horsefuneral is a dumb Aussie c*nt.

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I would've given you an upmarsey, but you didn't give me one, so there.

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Conversations are about winning, which I have soundly done here. I'll see you in the next one.

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literally, Nein neggro, most wouldnt if it wasnt vastly more lucrative, and Most people like their kids, redditors excluded

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except that wasnt the case when one salary was enough to feed a family. instead of getting a 2nd salary and paying for help one parent stayed at home.

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I've been a stay at home parent for 13 years at this point. Id say what makes it taxing more than anything, particularly with little ones, is the unrelentingness of it all. It's never particularly hard but it's constant. You basically never get to focus on or just do one task and work untill it's done without interruption. You live in like 10-20 minute increments. 2-4 year olds do this shitty thing where they need you to be near but don't really want or need you to do anything, but still come but still demand interaction every 5 minutes making it so you can't really do anything meaningful. Plus whatever stupid shit your wife and older kids want. Ive been interrupted like 10 times just writing this out, so what should have been like 5 minutes just took like 45. It gives you this ADD-like constant vigilance shit that makes it hard to maintain a train of thought that really wears a person down. Almost everything you do is going to have to be done again within the next day or two so it feels like you don't ever accomplish shit which is kind of defeating.

All that being said, I'd say almost all of that set in with multiple kids and years in. The people with only one or two kids are just whiny b-words, that shit was cake. Even with 5 it's still pretty cake, other than the endlessness.

Also it's generally your spouses stupid shit that you add in that will push you over the edge.

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/17295407689104028.webp

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What set in? :marseyconfused:

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The feelings described

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don't care

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Then don't prompt people to explain.

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no i think :marseyladybugnoooticer: ill keep doing it

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Every single does the same shit a stay at home parent is doing.

Some things (like cooking & washing dishes) scales quite well with more people and barely takes more time. Other things (laundry) don't scale as well.

Yes, babies and very young kids can be stressful. But the "staying at home is a full time job" myth lasts way longer.

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Never seen @horsefuneral chud out this much :marseyreading:

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