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Husband makes the mistake of complaining about wife :marseyboomer: , Reddit's Wife Defence Force storms in :marseyfeminist: :snipsnip:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1hymz90/i_was_walking_on_sunshine_after_an_event_got_home/

								

								

I just ran an event. It was so meaningful to me.

Bla bla bla this :marseypedo: libertarian coach cute twink did some gay sporting event involving children

I called someone on my ride home and talked for 30 minutes, all smiles.

I get home late and I'm glad to finally relax. I bellyflop onto the bed and do a dramatic sigh.

:marseysquint: this reads like a woman wrote it but ok

My wife says, "did you come in from the garage? Is the laundry done?" I say I don't know. "Get off the bed, I just washed the sheets."

:marseymanysuchcases: scrotes disrespecting household labour :marseydisagree:

I said okay and left the room. She followed me and said she didn't know what she did wrong. Asked me if we could start over. I said sure. She told me about her day, said she wants to hear about mine but she's tired and hopes she will fall asleep soon. "Do you still want to tell me about it?" No thanks. The end.

That's it. Idk how to explain it. She knew how important it was. She knew the effort. She knew I was genuinely excited to talk about it. She knew. She knows.

Basically this uncaring harlot doesn't give a solitary frick about her husband or anything he does :marseypikachu2: Let's see if Reddit gave this moid a safe space to vent


So…when you were at your highest, you didn't call your wife; you called a friend. That says a lot about the lack of support you expect from her.

✅ It was actually your fault :marseyagree:

Think hard about this one kiddo, she should have been with you. Why wasn't she?

If it's important to them; yes.

That's largely silly, just because he had time to coach doesn't mean she wasn't working, or watching 3 kids, or had laundry,

Expecting support from your life partner is 'largely silly' because of :marseynotes: laundry

Seriously, I feel like we need to hear her side in this particular situation. The fact that he came in, and while I'm just going off of what OP told us, I imagine he didn't say anything until he "slumped" on the bed and sighed??!! Who's so happy and excited and then lays exhaustingly on the bed and lets out a dramatic sigh??!! She's probably sick of shit honestly.

https://media.tenor.com/USMKa-KRtlMAAAAx/spongebob-riot.webp YEAH FRICK THIS CUTE TWINK AND HIS HAPPINESS

I feel like there's more to this. Why talk to someone else for 1/2 an hour? Why does she not respond to you? I am hearing a lot of negativity towards her but maybe you don't give her that attention.

My ex husband used to put so much time and effort into everyone else.

>be miserable c*nt

>husband prefers other people

:marseyshook: :marseyfoidretard:

You should have told the truth. Yes, you DID want to talk about it. Burying the feelings doesn't help anyone. Communication is key.

:marseyindignant: clueless scrote. You have to treat your wife like an r-slured toddler and tell her explicitly what to do all the time. :marseyclueless: She'll love that!

I also would feel very hurt if I spent hours cleaning and my husband just came and slept on sport clothes in the fresh bed

Plus he gets directly to bed.. Like what did the kid eat? Was that mom's responsibility?

https://media.tenor.com/BG9HYx3F7mQAAAAx/side-eye.webp uh, yes? :marseyconfused:

I think this one is on you for deciding not to tell her about your day after the whole exchange was said and done.

Reading this, I thought props to her for asking to start over at all. If I was home doing chores and my husband came in, didn't say anything to me and immediately went and laid on clean sheets without changing - a big pet peeve of mine - I'd be pissed.

You mean to tell me Redditors are unlovable psychopaths :marseyshook:

How much of the household management was left to your wife?

Every single r-slur in this thread is explicitly concerned with the fact that :marseyfoidretard: had to lift a solitary finger and not be waited on hand and foot 24/7

As a woman who often carries the mental load despite many many attempts to create systems that divvy it up more equally with my partner,

https://media.tenor.com/W3VDyi6qpHsAAAAx/eyeroll-the-rock.webp sounds like a fun relationship!

Exactly. All while he was out enjoying his hobby to the fullest extent expecting her to be jubilant after her full day of chores. It doesn't sound good.

Maybe it's because I'm a :marseydudesrock: moid but I'm actually fully capable of both performing menial household tasks AND not being a miserable c*nt about it! My DMs are open ladies :marseyxoxo:

I'm still on team foid though because he sounds like more of a woman than she does. :marseytrain2:


Whose side are you on for this extremely tepid drama?

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Not telling someone that something is wrong when they ask is foid nonsense. Terrible relationship in a terrible work of fiction :marseynorm:


:chad!black2: :marseybear::marseyrefrigerator:

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The moid is menstruating in this story

You didn't immediately ask me about my day, so I won't talk about it now

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It's really :marseyconcerned: worrying that so many dramastrags clicked 'team moid' :marseycringe:

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Hate women, simple as

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Why? :marseysad:

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This is probably a remix of some foid post from months ago by a clever dramatard.

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>clever dramatard

Let me know when you find one

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:marseyme#:

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>has to post on alts to get people to read it

:#marseyemojilaugh:

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:marseywave3:

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I don't have an option to vote neither if want to see the results :marseysad:

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@Katedra on further consideration I have taken your words to heart and voted for Team Foid :marseyletsgo:

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You don't get to fence sit :marseyindignant:

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Ok :marseysad:

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Ok :marseysad:

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Ok :marseysad:

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The 2019 survey results which show that over ¾ of the sub is under 34 and just under half are under 24 years old. They also show 63% of the sub is women and 80% of the sub is white. Just over ¾ have completed at least some amount of college or post high school education and over half lean at least left wing in terms of politics. This would align very well with what the average TBP person would be.

god darn 63%. I mean sure there's some :!marseytrain:s in there but at those rates I still bet the sub is majority biofoid.

That explains a lot about AITA lmao.

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80% white. Jesus. Reddit legitimately is the whitest place on the internet.

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It's also the most Canadian place on the internet. The most used social media in Canada is Reddit. Canada is literally a nation of redditors.

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Foids should never be allowed on a jury

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That gender swap with the $5 chips at the Mexican restaurant.... holy shit it's so blatant

:#marseywomanmoment2: :marseycoffee:

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:#marseygivecrown:

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Kill redditors

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Nothing infuriates me more than western discource's overcorrection to "domestic chores are EQUAL in EVERY WAY to traditional paid labor and ARE ACTUALLY WORSE because no money?!?!?"

Like sure if someone is a stay at home parent of ~3 kids they certainly have aren't not doing work, but like...it's easier than most jobs. "Jokingly" comparing it to (for example) nursing because your kid sometimes has diarrhea is wild because you're ostensibly nursing people you love, not horrible strangers. Some people cook for their family out of pure love and because its a hobby, but suddenly when it's your only obligation for the day it becomes slave labor? It's 2025 and 90% of the work a housewife did in the 50s has been automated. No one has ever explained to me what precisely is happening between 9am and 3pm for a stay at home parent that makes it so taxing (and it's because everyone secretly knows nothing particularly tiresome occurs).

The idea that someone who presumably did a typical 9-5 followed by a physically exterting coaching job then has to kowtow to someone when they get home because they did laundry and fed their own kids is truly unhinged

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They have to put up with a kid all day? 90% of people would rather import a thirdie to take care of their kid and work a real job in order to afford it.

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literally, Nein neggro, most wouldnt if it wasnt vastly more lucrative, and Most people like their kids, redditors excluded

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But they dont have to put up with the kid all day, thats the point :marseynoyoufellowpedo: (and even if they did, daycare workers are paid like 50c an hour to watch :marseypopcorntime: like 16 kids they don't even like let alone :marseymoidmoment: love, so the argument :marseystrawman: that having to watch :marseysalitssomewhere: your own two nonbinary :marseymicrosoftpride: kids for 4 hours in the evening is worth a salary is ridic)

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You were complaining about the "western discourse". People in the west want to be able to hand off their kids to someone else to look after, not get paid to look after them themselves.

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Yes this is a conversation??? Have you had one b4?

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You sure sound like a foid.

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!metashit, horsefuneral is a dumb Aussie c*nt.

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:marseyslowpoke:

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I would've given you an upmarsey, but you didn't give me one, so there.

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Conversations are about winning, which I have soundly done here. I'll see you in the next one.

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except that wasnt the case when one salary was enough to feed a family. instead of getting a 2nd salary and paying for help one parent stayed at home.

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I've been a stay at home parent for 13 years at this point. Id say what makes it taxing more than anything, particularly with little ones, is the unrelentingness of it all. It's never particularly hard but it's constant. You basically never get to focus on or just do one task and work untill it's done without interruption. You live in like 10-20 minute increments. 2-4 year olds do this shitty thing where they need you to be near but don't really want or need you to do anything, but still come but still demand interaction every 5 minutes making it so you can't really do anything meaningful. Plus whatever stupid shit your wife and older kids want. Ive been interrupted like 10 times just writing this out, so what should have been like 5 minutes just took like 45. It gives you this ADD-like constant vigilance shit that makes it hard to maintain a train of thought that really wears a person down. Almost everything you do is going to have to be done again within the next day or two so it feels like you don't ever accomplish shit which is kind of defeating.

All that being said, I'd say almost all of that set in with multiple kids and years in. The people with only one or two kids are just whiny b-words, that shit was cake. Even with 5 it's still pretty cake, other than the endlessness.

Also it's generally your spouses stupid shit that you add in that will push you over the edge.

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/17295407689104028.webp

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What set in? :marseyconfused:

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The feelings described

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don't care

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Then don't prompt people to explain.

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no i think :marseyladybugnoooticer: ill keep doing it

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:marseybadass:

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Every single does the same shit a stay at home parent is doing.

Some things (like cooking & washing dishes) scales quite well with more people and barely takes more time. Other things (laundry) don't scale as well.

Yes, babies and very young kids can be stressful. But the "staying at home is a full time job" myth lasts way longer.

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Never seen @horsefuneral chud out this much :marseyreading:

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He's acting like a foid and as a society we should have ZERO tolerance for that shit.

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You look like a foid you fricking strag

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Hope she sees this bro

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feels like a genderswap post, he's being a total cute twink

  • Wife MVST detect what he's feeling even if he doesn't say anything

  • Needs to chat with his foid to be happy

  • Triggered by his wife being a nagging b-word (tautology)

mate it's a day ending in Y

  • lets a minor incident ruin his day

  • Passive-aggressive behavior

  • posting relationshit on reddit

All the hallmarks of foidery, YTA /u/tellmeyoudontknowme

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/u/TellMeYouDontKnowMe is yet another sad example of a man expecting maleness from a female. Read Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus and your life will improve dramatically, comrade.

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reading the wiki summary I don't exactly buy something. Apparently it argues women value the number of tasks done for their partner without weighting effort, and men weight effort and care nothing about the count. But since womyn typically do household chores which are numerous and easy, they're incentivized to say "I did the laundry, I vacuumed the floor" etc for more reciprocity bucks. And men doing long hours would naturally want to say "I worked eight-hours, shut up foid" and get reciprocity bucks from the difficulty. So it's simply their roles not evopsych stuff

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the book is 2cm thick, there's more to it

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:marseyhesrigh#t:

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What's a gender swapping post? :marseyconfused:

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Once you understand that half of Reddit are fat ugly women, and the other half are fat ugly men that the first group refuses to have s*x with, this all makes sense.

Women can't be wrong. Ever. That's why they are terrible leaders. Admitting you're wrong as a woman also means your bad and stokes your inferiority complex to men.

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Let me translate all of the comments in every single moid vs foid post:

im a miserable c*nt in a miserable relationship with a miserable c*nt of a husband. As a foid I am incapable of objectivity and immediately proejct myself as the foid in every story posted (its called being the empathetic gender, sweaty), and thus will immediately side with the foid and blame the scrote for everything no matter how many logical hoops I have to go through, because as a foid I'm also a terminal narcissist and just like I never feel in the wrong for any ill in my relationships (and there are many ills), so can the foid in that story never possibly be in the wrong, since as I explained I project myself onto her so her doing anything wrong would mean I could have done something wrong, but as a girrlboss that is simply impossible since scrotes are the source of all ills and women are perfect and wonderful and responsible for all good in the world, and thus I am perfect and wonderful and responsible for all good in my world".

Sometimes I hate women so much it actually hurts.

!thotpatrollers

!repealthe19th

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Wow you seem well-adjusted :derpthumbsup:

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:#chudrage:

I cant breeeeeed

Although being insulted like that by a pollack kinda stings, ngl :marseymad:

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Was a very gay post tbf

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he seems like a raging bottom so it makes sense his wife hates him :marseyxd: :snipsnip:

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Expecting support from your life partner is 'largely silly' because of :marseynotes: laundry

No you r-slur, her support was doing all the other shit so he was free to spend five hours out on his hobby. God rDrama users try to be so smart but you can only be so insightful if you see the open sky less than once a week.

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God rDrama users try to be so smart but you can only be so insightful if you see the open sky less than once a week.

This would've been a good dunk if I didn't see you seriousposting on here almost 24/7. Sad! :marseyemojirofl:

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:marseywink: that lets me be pretty insightful on the r-slurred online whiner question tho

:marseyjudge#: DEATH

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I'm growing to hate contemn pity them, Aevann.

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Good post

I don't think women actually care that much about cleaning more than the moid (unless he's a slob). they are just unpredictable and moody, and chores are just an easy thing they can latch onto and hold over your head. Even if you cleaned everything perfectly they'd still have random foid moments

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Women are genuinely happy to do chores if they love their man because seeing all the stress and tension of his day physically evaporate the moment he steps through the door is such a good feeling.

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Everyone involved should die. Including redditors

Classic reddit. Maybe he isnine amusing her

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have fun coaching kids and wife is a b-word

EVERYONE DESERVE DEATH!!!

:#marseybrainlet:

God you edgy cute twinks ruin this site.

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https://media.giphy.com/media/3o6Zt9NVy9mo2QCPqo/giphy.webp

Guys, let's not be dramatic on the drama website. Make sure you're as serious and sober as possible, that way you won't trigger my severe autism

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WAHHHHHH WAHHHHHHHHHHH WAAAAAYUGHHHHHHHHH

^ you rn

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1736611492Z4_wVtbp_rdwhA.webp

https://media.tenor.com/7bz_G-XIYmkAAAAx/yikes-awk.webp

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And they're all bangers :marseyboomer:

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You must be neurodivergent if you think spouting edgy shit like you're 15 is drama.

:#marseyshrug:

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noooo you're RUINING MY WEBSITE :soycry: :soyjaktantrum: :marseysoycrytremble: lmao

:marseyky#s2:

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Or just stop unironically being a cute twink.

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They really do. They're just spiteful little insects laying eggs under our skin.

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1736608846wzgMREGb5YGDAA.webp

https://media.tenor.com/BTpcmq3bweIAAAAx/i-dont-care-dont-even-care.webp

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stop circumventing the hieroglyph award cute twink

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Shout-out to @Coom for using my civil disobedience tactic of taking screenshots of the post preview.

I feel like I'm Rosa Parks out here.

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I'm snitching :marseyindignant:

@Astraea_Fairnose consider disabling picture uploads for hieroglyphed users as they can circumvent it as above.

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@Astraea_Fairnose saw me use several screenshots during my permachud phase and was fine with it lol. It's funny and adds character to the posts tbh.

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1736654414vl_GInAWhqQSvA.webp

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We've been doing this for years poser

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I've been it doing for years too neighbor. Get your butt to the back of the bus.

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BIPOC rides the bus so much he knows the seating tier list

:#marseyemojilaugh:

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Das rite neighbor. Now git to the back of the bus.

:#pointgun:

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I'm driving BIPOC sit down

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Remember to always flip the genders if you want reddit's actual opinion on something. :marseyhesright:

They get upmarseys for white-knighting hypothetical women, so you have to work around it.

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wouldn't work here, no (straight) man would care about sheets

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>I feel like we need to hear the other side of this story

things that redditors only say when OP is a man

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Holy shit, these people are unironically r-slurred. @Fresh_Start have an unstable relationship with @Fresh_Start's parents and even @Fresh_Start give support when they have something important happen in their life.

Jewish lives matter.

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no-one asked about your stinky brown life or your stinky brown parents :vomit:

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Rude. Where did you collect you're BIPOC genes from.

Jewish lives matter.

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Team foid because letting a foid ruin your day is soy

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:#marseytroll:

Snapshots:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1hymz90/i_was_walking_on_sunshine_after_an_event_got_home/:

So…when you were at your highest, you didn't call your wife; you called a friend. That says a lot about the lack of support you expect from her.:

Think hard about this one kiddo, she should have been with you. Why wasn't she?:

If it's important to them; yes.:

That's largely silly, just because he had time to coach doesn't mean she wasn't working, or watching 3 kids, or had laundry,:

Seriously, I feel like we need to hear her side in this particular situation. The fact that he came in, and while I'm just going off of what OP told us, I imagine he didn't say anything until he "slumped" on the bed and sighed??!! Who's so happy and excited and then lays exhaustingly on the bed and lets out a dramatic sigh??!! She's probably sick of shit honestly.:

https://media.tenor.com/USMKa-KRtlMAAAAx/spongebob-riot.webp:

I feel like there's more to this. Why talk to someone else for 1/2 an hour? Why does she not respond to you? I am hearing a lot of negativity towards her but maybe you don't give her that attention.:

My ex husband used to put so much time and effort into everyone else.:

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libertarian coach cute twink did some gay sporting event involving children

He has a son, he is a dad involved with his children. It's a win in my book considering the amount of millennial and Gen x dads I know that just want to sit and play vidya all day ignoring their own kids.

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redditors procreating is never a win in any way

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This guy seems like he has a lot to live for and is a pillar of his community so I think the only solution is to :marseytoasterbath: and blame her for it. Everyone will hate her when there's no three-legged-race 2026 and it'll show her not to be such a stuck up b-word :marseyagreewarpspeed:.

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Him talking about it gave me the ick


Putting the :e: in spookie turkey merry new year donkey

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@Ninjjer really? :marseyshook:

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@Ninjjer why? :marseysad:

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@Ninjjer what? :marseyconfused:

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