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The YWNBAW post on /r/copypasta (3 years old) is an entertaining yet typical tennis match between "s*x is biological reality" and "psychologists say that you're whatever you think you are."

https://old.reddit.com/r/copypasta/comments/lyktos/ywnbaw/

								

								

This was posted on rDrama a year ago but without annotation or marseys.

The reddit OP is [[[deleted]]] but his legacy lives on.


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You can read the full context behind the 'You will never be a real woman' YWNBAW copypasta here

https://copypastatext.com/you-will-never-be-a-real-woman/

The link does not offer full context. It references its origin on a 4chan thread but doesn't even give the get.


:!marseyfreedomofspeech: You can say whatever you want but it is true. Just because you "feel" you are a woman, doesnt mean you are one. Period. Its all in the post

:marseyakshually: Psychiatrists disagree with you.

:marsey: Psychiatrists can say what they want, you will still, never be, a woman.

:marseywitch2: Why not?

:marsey: Because You have no womb, you have no ovaries, you have no eggs... [the full copypasta]

:marseywitch2: So what gives you more authority to make that judgement than psychiatrists?

:marsey: So essentially, this is my reasoning:

You have no womb, you have no ovaries, you have no eggs. [full copypasta]

:marseywitchtriggered: That's not reasoning. You just reposted the copypasta.

(Yeah no shit, that's what it's there for :marseyxd:)

:marseyslab: Because for some reason you aren't getting the message.

His observation doesn't come from an appeal to authority, like yours and "psychiatrists" do. His observation is based off of reality.

I can say I feel like an Asian woman. I can say I feel like a foxen kin, and psychiatrists can agree that I AM one, all they want, but the fact remains I was born a white male. Nothing changes this. Surgery doesn't. Altering my hormones doesn't. Changing my posture and clothes doesn't.

Would you like me to pasta that copy for you, again? Or is 4 times good enough?

:marseywitch2: [gay shit about appeals to authority and meta discussion]

Heres the climax!

:marsey: I'll ask you point blank then: You think a man is a woman the moment he believes himself to be one?

:marseywitch2: Yes, she is.

:#pronouncorrection: INTENSIFIES

:marsey: [[[ Removed by Reddit ]]]

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17384280344cQj_TBx2wT2Uw.webp

:marseywitch2: Except that the overwhelming scientific consensus on the subject is that gender identity exists separately from biological s*x, and that altering the latter to match the former is better, more healthy, and more feasible than the inverse.

:#marseysurejan:

:marsey: As per my last two paragraphs [[[removed above]]], your comment qualifies as this conversation being ended.

:marseywitch2: If you're not willing to converse without me rejecting science in favor of supporting your bigotry, then yeah, we can't really continue from there.

Our brave little biological reality warrior then goes on to frick everything up by resorting to 2015 insults.

:marsey: You're a bootlicker, incapable of thinking for yourself. Probably a cuck. Thanks for removing yourself from the gene pool

The battle continues, a year past the original post date. I won't copy it here, it's off in the weeds past the original point but here's the link many layers deep:

https://old.reddit.com/r/copypasta/comments/lyktos/ywnbaw/jco4w2w/?context=8

A couple of teasers if you want to delve into the ancient battlefield:

  • Imagine calling someone a "bootlicker" because they're more pro-freedom than you

  • Freedom to sin is terrible for the soul. Should be stopped immediately. Inshallah.

  • If I want to commit a sin that hurts me and me alone, then I see no reason why laws should exist to restrict that. It's my afterlife to afterlive.

  • There is no such sin that only affects the sinner.

  • Ivan Karamazov ... Grand Inquisitor ... Long gay quote from some dead russian with a stupid name :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost: :marseylongpost:

  • Yeah I'm not reading that great wall of china long text wall

  • Your lack of classical education does not render Dostoevsky obscure, kid. (my favorite cringe out of all of this)

  • Those who believe in omniscient, omnipotent and omnibenevolent gods must know that such hypotheticals bla bla

  • [the battle ends 2 years after the original thread]


Honourable Mention (!bardfinn spelling)

/u/EmojifierBot

You ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ‘‰ will never โŒ be a real ๐Ÿ˜ woman ๐Ÿ‘ฉ. You ๐Ÿ‘‰ have no ๐Ÿ™…๐ŸŒˆ womb ๐Ÿ‘ถ, you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ have no ๐Ÿ™…๐ŸปโŒ ovaries ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿพ, you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ have no โŒ๐Ÿšซ eggs ๐Ÿฅš. You ๐Ÿ‘ˆ are a homosexual ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ man ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšซ twisted ๐Ÿฅจ by drugs ๐Ÿ’Š and surgery ๐Ÿฅ into a crude ๐Ÿ‘บ mockery ๐Ÿ˜ค of nature's perfection ๐Ÿ‘Œ.

All ๐Ÿ’ฏ the "validation" you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ get ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น is two-faced and half-hearted ๐Ÿ’”. Behind โ†ฉ your ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿพ back โฌ… people ๐Ÿ‘จ mock ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ•›. Your ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿš€ parents ๐Ÿ‘ช๐Ÿ›ฌ are disgusted ๐Ÿคข and ashamed ๐Ÿ˜ฉ of you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ, your ๐Ÿ‘‰ "friends" laugh ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ at your โ›“๐Ÿ‘‰ ghoulish appearance ๐Ÿ”Ž behind ๐Ÿ‘Ÿ๐Ÿ’ฅ closed ๐Ÿšซ doors ๐Ÿšช.

Men ๐Ÿ‘จ are utterly ๐Ÿ„ repulsed by you ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ˜. Thousands ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐ŸŒผ๐Ÿ’ฏ of years ๐Ÿ—“ of evolution ๐Ÿ’ have allowed ๐Ÿ˜– men ๐Ÿ‘จ to sniff ๐Ÿ‘ƒ out frauds ๐Ÿšซ with incredible ๐Ÿ˜ฏโ€ผโ— efficiency ๐Ÿ“Š. Even ๐ŸŒƒ :!marseytrain:s ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‘  who "pass" look ๐Ÿ‘€ uncanny and unnatural ๐Ÿ‘ฝ to a man ๐Ÿ‘จ๐ŸŒŠ. Your ๐Ÿ‘‰ bone ๐Ÿ– structure ๐Ÿ  is a dead โ˜  giveaway ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿฅณ๐ŸŽŠ. And even ๐ŸŒƒ if you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ manage ๐Ÿง” to get ๐Ÿ‰ a drunk ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿป guy ๐Ÿ‘จ home ๐Ÿ  with you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ, he'll turn ๐Ÿ”„ tail ๐Ÿ‘ and bolt ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ the second โฑ he ๐Ÿ‘ฅ gets ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ“ด a whiff ๐Ÿค‘ of your ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ„๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ“ diseased ๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿฑ, infected ๐Ÿ˜– axe ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜  wound ๐Ÿ’จ.

You ๐Ÿ‘ˆ will never ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ’ฉ be happy ๐Ÿ˜Š. You ๐Ÿ‘ˆ wrench ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿฟโ€๐Ÿ”ง out a fake ๐Ÿ‘ป smile ๐Ÿ˜Š every โ˜ single โ˜ morning ๐ŸŒ„ and tell ๐Ÿ’ฌ yourself it's going ๐Ÿƒ to be ok ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ’ฏ, but ๐Ÿ‘ deep ๐Ÿ˜ฑ inside ๐Ÿ’  you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ feel ๐Ÿ˜œ the depression ๐Ÿ˜ญ creeping ๐Ÿ’ฅ up โฌ† like ๐Ÿ’– a weed ๐Ÿ, ready ๐Ÿ˜ to crush ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ“ you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ under โŒโฌ‡๐Ÿ‘‡ the unbearable ๐Ÿ˜ค weight ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ’ค.

Eventually ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ† it'll be too much ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™€ to bear ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿป - you'll buy ๐Ÿ’ฐ a rope โžฐ, tie ๐Ÿ‘” a noose ๐Ÿ˜”, put ๐Ÿ”› it around ๐Ÿ”ƒ your ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ˜˜ neck ๐Ÿช, and plunge ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฉ into the cold โ„ abyss ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜. Your ๐Ÿ‘‰ parents ๐Ÿ‘ช will find ๐Ÿ”Ž you ๐Ÿ‘‰, heartbroken ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ข but ๐Ÿ‘ relieved ๐Ÿคค that they no ๐Ÿ˜ฃ longer ๐Ÿ† have to live ๐Ÿ˜ฉ with the unbearable ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ‘ƒ๐Ÿ‘Ž shame ๐Ÿ˜ณ and disappointment ๐Ÿ™ƒ. They'll bury โšฐ you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ with a headstone marked ๐Ÿ– with your ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿ‘ˆ birth ๐Ÿ‘‘ name ๐Ÿ“›, and every โ˜ passerby for the rest ๐Ÿ’ค of eternity ๐ŸŒ‹๐Ÿ†Ž๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿฟ will know ๐Ÿค” a man ๐Ÿ‘จ is buried ๐Ÿ•ณ there. Your ๐Ÿ‘‰ body ๐Ÿ’ƒ will decay โ˜  and go ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ back ๐Ÿ”™ to the dust ๐Ÿ’จ, and all ๐Ÿ’ฏ that will remain ๐Ÿ˜ฅ of your ๐Ÿ‘‰ legacy ๐Ÿ’๐ŸŒ„ is a skeleton ๐Ÿ’€ that is unmistakably male ๐Ÿ‘ฆ.

This is your ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ• fate ๐Ÿ’€โ˜ . This is what you ๐Ÿ‘ˆ chose ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ‘ˆ. There is no ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿšง turning ๐Ÿ’ซโ†ฉ back ๐Ÿ”™.


!chuds !transphobes !historychads

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Or you studied meiosis and biochemistry and genetics and understand sexual reproduction.

But you can also add "biological reality doesn't mean that you can't let people live their lives how it suits them without being mean to them or disenfranchising them."

"You will never be a real woman but that doesn't matter because you're still a person with needs and feelings and rights."

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We can seperate s*x from gender :marseysipping: Everyone knows chromosomes are real, but if calling someone a woman makes them less depressed there's no real reason not to. I won't say everyone who refuses to do so is malicious (even if a lot of them seem to be), but they are extremely pedantic at least.

What does recognizing biological s*x over gender benefit you?

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>if calling someone a woman helps

But it never ends at just calling someone a woman, thats the problem. It becomes bathroom access, s*x segregation cant exist anymore, privileges for women cant be for them anymore, and lets not even get started on their insane obsession with going after children. If it were just about being nice, you could have maybe gotten there, but they werent happy with anythint besides full pretense of zero difference.

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You seem to just hate :!marseytrain:s if I'm going to be honest. You portray them as some subversive evil force destroying everything. That is insanely out of touch with reality.

They don't "go after children", they recognize gender dysphoria can be diagnosed before the age of 18. Now of course we shouldn't let children decide this spontaniously but it's pretty clear when a teenager has dysphoria and tells you for years.

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^^ :#normielarp:

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I have never lied about my beliefs on this site.

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Go back to your groomercord server

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Everyone who doesn't agree with you is a subversive groomercord :marseytrain:, sure :marseyxd:

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I didn't imply you were a :marseytrain: :#scott:

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>its pretty clear when a teen has dysphoria

Actually its very unclear, it resolves automatically in about 80, 85% of cases. What's clear is that most return to reality and how much damage the shit like underage hormones and blockers does.

>you seem to hate them

No, if you want to be a freak in a dress you do you. The constant push of "treat me exactly the same as a real woman" is where almost everyone has a problem with them.

>they dont go after children

https://media.tenor.com/lk-_jrDKiQcAAAAx/kamala-harris-come-on.webp

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Actually its very unclear, it resolves automatically in about 80, 85% of cases.

:#smugsnoo: Source?

What's clear is that most return to reality and how much damage the shit like underage hormones and blockers does.

Does failing to apply hormones with someone who is dysphoric not cause damage? Puperty is irreversible.

The constant push of "treat me exactly the same as a real woman" is where almost everyone has a problem with them.

Why is it wrong for them to want that?

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Dysphoria in teenagers is a hard one for me to reckon with. I think if you want to do some thing that makes you happy but makes 0 sense to me personally after you're 18, go for it - we don't criminalize alcoholics who never operate a motor vehicle or get belligerent in public.

But kids get caught up in fads - it's so difficult to say that their dysphoria is genuine (setting aside the legitimacy of dysphoria for the sake of argument) and they won't cause more psychological damage later. That said, if you're genuinely trans and will be forever, transitioning while young lets you configure puberty like you want and makes you pass better and less dysphoric.

Idk it seems impossible to allow this without the collateral damage of kids chasing trends. Crackpot theory I guess is we need to allow some (operative word here being SOME) trans people to be disgusting, ugly, and worthy of ridicule, not just because they're trans but just for how they genuinely are (like that 50 year old guy in Canada who needed everyone to call him a little girl). Basically, we just need to allow trans people to exist but absolutely normally without the coddling.

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No, don't reply like this, please do another wall of unhinged rant please.

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This requires no one to know about 'egg-cracking', to deny that ROGD is a thing, and also that anyone who disagrees with your opinion, not facts but your opinion, actually just is an evil person.

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I don't think everyone who disagrees with me is evil. But a ton of people are just malicious. Like half of the anti-trans movement just outright claims trans people are male feminists and libertarians. How are you supposed to negotiate anything with people like that?

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but if calling someone a woman makes them less depressed there's no real reason not to.

I'd say that's a very good reason to not do that

!transphobes

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Lardass

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The benefit is its utility in every other facet other than social interaction.

For example: say you want to demonstrate kin altruism through genetic relatedness in hymenoptera (wasps, bees, ants, etc).

You need to exclusively use the biological reality of two sexes which produce sperm and eggs. You need to understand the binary genetics of binary sexes. You need to understand haplodiploidy.

A different example: say you want to map out prehistoric human migrations. You use mitochondria from women (they are only passed on through eggs) and the Y chromosome from men (they are only passed on through sperm).

Gender studies people harass and protest and bring lawsuits to biology textbook publishers to include a token line at the beginning of the book that says "sometimes people don't feel that their body doesn't match how they feel" and then claim that biological scientists agree with them.

This is why archaeologists and anthropologists get harassed for saying they found an ancient female and then have to edit the report to include that they don't know the person's gender.

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Why are you earnestly arguing with a reddit brained cute twink?

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I quite like pointing out to crazy liars that they're crazy liars, and when I get bored I just do something else.

Can't speak for anyone else, but I also like watching their arguments mutate in real time as they try to justify their insanity in all the ways they can.

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I also think gender shouldn't be inserted in topics that clearly require biological s*x :marseythinkorino: But we aren't studying mitochondria most of the time are we?

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Mitochondria have their own DNA separate from the rest of your cells, and it doesn't change as quickly as human DNA, so it's more useful for super duper long ago periods of time.

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But how is this relevant to social interaction?

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Biological reality is useful.

Gender identity is not useful. It's just being nice in society, which is okay to do.

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Is treating clinical dysphoria of people not useful?

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No, its more useful to institutionalize the crazy. Would literally end like 90% of the homeless crisis overnight.

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The DSM suggests having them socially transition to maximize well being. They should listen to their doctor because that is useful for them.

It doesn't change biological reality, and biologists and anthropologists should be left out to their diagnosis.

I say this because they are already under attack from Evangelicals trying to shut down the Department of Education and cut their grants, and they don't need the Gender Studies department attacking them with eliminate biological reality on top of that.

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Other dysphorias are treated by trying to get the patient to break out of the dysphoria. I get depressed when you think I'm at a healthy weight, why shouldn't other people let me keep starving myself so I can meet my thin goals? I'm not hurting anyone, so can't everyone just be polite and let me be anorexic in peace? Anorexics are known to be less depressed if they continue to lose weight, it's just kind to let them do that.

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Because it's unhealthy for people to base their happiness on the willingness of other people to maintain their delusions

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So what? When you maintain them they become happy. :marseyhmm:

Calling them "delusions" is very misleading. It makes you think of shit like schizophrenic delusions :marseyschizotwitch: which you shouldn't reinforce, but that is because those always change and can cause victims to harm others and themselves :marseybackstab: Gender dysphoria is different. It is consistent and stops when someone sees themselves as the gender they wish they were.

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Gender dysphoria is different. It is consistent and stops when someone sees themselves as the gender they wish they were.

If it requires the world at large to lie about what they see, it's pretty fricked up behavior and shouldn't be tolerated. Believe if you are a man, woman, or whatever, but don't ask people to lie for you.

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It's not a lie if people see s*x and gender as seperate :marseythumbsup:

You're asking people to straight up lie because of your feelings. Agreeing to that is awarding narcissistic behavior. Not good for society. :!marseytrain:s should have just agreed they are a third category which is far fairer compromise than demanding to be treated exactly like biological men/women. It's like they have no nuance or ability to negotiate their positions, and if they don't want to even grant an inch of understanding for society at large, there is no reason for society to need to entertain their fantasies.

:!marseytrain:s not being seen as their desired gender verifiably makes them clinically depressed. The rest of society doesn't get clinically depressed by having to overlook their biosex.

Is it narcissistic for slaves forced into gladiator battles to not want to fight? Even if millions of people watching get frustrated if they don't see it? Sometimes the needs of the few can outweigh those of the many. And yes this was an extreme example but there is still a difference between clinical depression and being a bit pissed over having to change your language.

I don't think they should be a third category because that neither respects biosex nor sociopsychological gender. It also sort of alienates them.

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>It's not a lie if people see s*x and gender as seperate

The vast majority of people see them as connected or the same. So yes, forcing people to lie is an underhanded psyop.

:!marseytrain:s not being seen as their desired gender verifiably makes them clinically depressed.

Not the fetishists who seem to have taken over the :marseytrain: population. Depression over self-centered demands not being met should be addressed by learning to accept reality: you can't control what other people think, not this reactive idea that everyone should think differently just because you get depressed if they don't. A sign of stalled maturity is believing the world needs to revolve around you.

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The vast majority of people see them as connected or the same. So yes, forcing people to lie is an underhanded psyop.

Does a lot of people saying something make it right?

Not the fetishists who seem to have taken over the :marseytrain: population. Depression over self-centered demands not being met should be addressed by learning to accept reality: you can't control what other people think, not this reactive idea that everyone should think differently just because you get depressed if they don't. A sign of stalled maturity is believing the world needs to revolve around you.

All :!marseytrain:s are asking is that you treat them as their desired gender. Society is not "revolving" around them when they do that. It's not self-centered to want other to think differently when the reasons they think they way they do are grounded on pedantic biology, religion, or straight up just hate.

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Does a lot of people saying something make it right

No, but neither does a minority of people saying something makes it right either. It's funny when :!marseytrain:s say "gender" is a social construct, and society says gender is biological s*x, they suddenly don't agree with what this "social construct" is anymore.

>All :!marseytrain:s are asking is that you treat them as their desired gender. Society is not "revolving" around them when they do that. It's not self-centered to want other to think differently when the reasons they think they way they do are grounded on pedantic biology, religion, or straight up just hate.

"Pedantic biology"

Lol this is just straight up delusional. How about they just accept that they're not the s*x they want to be but it's ok to look the way they want. They are absolutely narcissistic to think otherwise, and yes, narcissism is also a mental illness but no, it should not be tolerated for the same reasons.

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Gender dysphoria is different. It is consistent and stops when someone sees themselves as the gender they wish they were.

HA! Bullshit.

:#marseyxdoubt: :#marseyitsallsotiresome:

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But it's true.

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Wrong = bad. You're being bad right now.

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>but if calling someone a woman makes them less depressed there's no real reason not to

You're assuming that everybody cares about the feelings of :!marseytrain:s. Quite honestly you're better off trying to teach a downie quantum physics than appealing to empathy on rdrama.

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