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I (28m) found nudes on my wife's (29f) phone of another man and herself. This is not the first time what can I do?

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So my wife (29f) and i (28m) have been together with the exception of a long break when we were 18 and 19 for 10 years. (She left me for another guy) and every year or two since we've been back together i keep finding things on her phone. The first was a fetlife account where she was chatting with multiple men. The second was a coworker she was speaking explicitly with. Third she asked a random neighbor out for coffee in our apartment complex in a flirting manner. And finally this. I found nudes of her that I'd never seen before, and looked in the deleted pictures on her phone and found pictures of another man's nudes.

We've had some rough patched with my finances and depression as well as hers. I must admit I was feeling sexually frustrated last year and went to a "massage parlor" but didn't go through with the end part. And she found out. She's insists that nothing has become physical any of these times and would leave if she were going to go through with it, because she did when thats what she wanted.

Our relationship is great except for this horrible bi annual ritual of her seeking attention. She makes the money In the relationship and I'm very limited in my capacity to support myself for any sort of trial separation. I don't want to leave. I love her. But I feel I need to advocate for myself despite my own wrongdoings. I feel so trapped and hopeless.

Came across this amazing post. But what's even funnier is if you visit his profile and see the only other post he's made:

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This might be the dumbest man on Earth.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1738617115I7j4PQgL5AyJcw.webp

Oh, he's from Portland? She's not cheating on him; he's just unknowingly in a poly relationship.

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why do people need tattoos

ive never understood

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Sometimes I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. I fricking hate tattoos on everyone, but even the most plain jane upper middle class chick has like 5 of them these days. If you like a picture, make it your phone background or some shit. I do no understand why anyone wants some ugly drawing on their body for life that only gets uglier and uglier every year.

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My mother has more than me lol

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fr, the worst is the bird on the chest thing. So many decent looking women for some reason decide to get a big fricking hawk or ragle tatted on their chest jist above their tits. Wtf?!

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Its because they've been browbeat by other women into knowing that men looking at your cleavage is wrong but they like men looking at their cleavage so they add a tattoo so it wont be a faux pas for men to look at their cleavage.

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I feel the same way, I hate tattoos.

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My family members have started getting tattoos, which is the worst. I may have genuine brainworms but I cannot stop thinking about how bad they look. It causes me physical revulsion

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I don't understand how the tattoo is a year old but his skin still looks irritated by it in places. Is that how tattoos work??? :marseyconfused2:

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Yes.

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he probablt suffers from dermititis :marseyemojirofl:

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Also why is there black stuff and scabs and shit on (AND IN) his ear? Is it part of the tattoo? Did the needle slip?

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untreated dermatitis

It's usually completely manageable as long as you aren't a nasty butt and remember to wash, use anti-dandruff shampoo and moisturize your shit

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it's spiritual and means something, !chuds. it's definitely not an addiction to the dopamine reaction to getting the scribbles.

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>Tattoo getters when someone penetrates their hot ink into them

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To signal to others they are idiots with no taste

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@Meghan probably has a bunch of tattoos

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So the police can catalogue and identify them

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With the exception of cosmetic ones like fake nipples for breast cancer survivors to help them blend in and appear normal looking,

all the other voluntary tattoos though are to get attention, that's it

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Tattoos can be good, it's just permanent decoration for your body. Many tattoos are trash

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How the frick is this dude 28?

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