So my wife (29f) and i (28m) have been together with the exception of a long break when we were 18 and 19 for 10 years. (She left me for another guy) and every year or two since we've been back together i keep finding things on her phone. The first was a fetlife account where she was chatting with multiple men. The second was a coworker she was speaking explicitly with. Third she asked a random neighbor out for coffee in our apartment complex in a flirting manner. And finally this. I found nudes of her that I'd never seen before, and looked in the deleted pictures on her phone and found pictures of another man's nudes.
We've had some rough patched with my finances and depression as well as hers. I must admit I was feeling sexually frustrated last year and went to a "massage parlor" but didn't go through with the end part. And she found out. She's insists that nothing has become physical any of these times and would leave if she were going to go through with it, because she did when thats what she wanted.
Our relationship is great except for this horrible bi annual ritual of her seeking attention. She makes the money In the relationship and I'm very limited in my capacity to support myself for any sort of trial separation. I don't want to leave. I love her. But I feel I need to advocate for myself despite my own wrongdoings. I feel so trapped and hopeless.
Came across this amazing post. But what's even funnier is if you visit his profile and see the only other post he's made:
This might be the dumbest man on Earth.
Oh, he's from Portland? She's not cheating on him; he's just unknowingly in a poly relationship.
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why do people need tattoos
ive never understood
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Sometimes I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. I fricking hate tattoos on everyone, but even the most plain jane upper middle class chick has like 5 of them these days. If you like a picture, make it your phone background or some shit. I do no understand why anyone wants some ugly drawing on their body for life that only gets uglier and uglier every year.
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fr, the worst is the bird on the chest thing. So many decent looking women for some reason decide to get a big fricking hawk or ragle tatted on their chest jist above their tits. Wtf?!
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Its because they've been browbeat by other women into knowing that men looking at your cleavage is wrong but they like men looking at their cleavage so they add a tattoo so it wont be a faux pas for men to look at their cleavage.
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I feel the same way, I hate tattoos.
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My mother has more than me lol
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My family members have started getting tattoos, which is the worst. I may have genuine brainworms but I cannot stop thinking about how bad they look. It causes me physical revulsion
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I don't understand how the tattoo is a year old but his skin still looks irritated by it in places. Is that how tattoos work???
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Yes.
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he probablt suffers from dermititis
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Also why is there black stuff and scabs and shit on (AND IN) his ear? Is it part of the tattoo? Did the needle slip?
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untreated dermatitis
It's usually completely manageable as long as you aren't a nasty butt and remember to wash, use anti-dandruff shampoo and moisturize your shit
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it's spiritual and means something, !chuds. it's definitely not an addiction to the dopamine reaction to getting the scribbles.
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To signal to others they are idiots with no taste
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So the police can catalogue and identify them
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With the exception of cosmetic ones like fake nipples for breast cancer survivors to help them blend in and appear normal looking,
all the other voluntary tattoos though are to get attention, that's it
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Tattoos can be good, it's just permanent decoration for your body. Many tattoos are trash
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How the frick is this dude 28?
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Based on this mans appearance and prior actions, he deserves it
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By Reddit standards, he's actually a chud. He admitted he would rather get r*ped (the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone) than mauled to death by a grizzly bear.
Edit: But maybe he got shamed into submission a month later? The comment chain is gone though.
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Yeah, I was thinking "Well she sounds like a b-word, why not dump her?" and then I saw the tattoo. She's completely justified if this is what is waiting at home for her.
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supreme cuckoldry
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It's never been so over
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He's got a neck beard too
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He's got necks beards
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/u/chiefsittingbowls send them to me too
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/u/chiefsittingbowls we'll judge whether you should leave her by how hot she is in the pics
also you are a moron if you think this won't continue, so only stay if you like this sort of thing. Do you want a BIPOClet or redhead baby? Because that's coming too.
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Also how much does your wife weigh?
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A cuck with a huge head tattoo. That's new.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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You clearly never seen a swinger (Good for you). They all have weird tattoos.
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I knew a really clean-cut couple into swinging. They asked me to play, if'n ya know what I mean. lol The husband was hot but his wife wanted to take home girls when she was drunk.
Only swingers I ever knew and on the outside you'd think they were your average suburban family, kids and careers with a nice house.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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Moids deserve everything they get ππ
Goddarn I've been in an monogamous relationship for 12 years and would never put up with anything even remotely close to that.
And I'm a degenerate cute twink.
Idk what that makes these moids other than sad and pathetic.
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Neighbor
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I wonder how many suitors she rode through before this became her next best option
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Lol. Lmao, even.
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Divorce her and use the photos as proof of infidelity in court when she inevitably tries to screw you out of custody and your house or whatever. Why must these tards constantly post their Ls online like this? It's not even good cuck fiction
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Kitty shit.
Kill her then yourself.
It's the only way to reclaim your manhood.
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Lol living in Portland is completely why he doesn't want to leave her. She probably owns their house or is at least paying the rent. He probably went looking for an apartment and found out it's going to be $1500 a month for a one bedroom in the part of town where everyone speaks Spanish.
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Another day another cuck fiction from reddit.
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Holy heck, that tattoo. If she is making the money in this relationship, and he looks like that, why the heck is she sticking around? I'm starting to suspect there is no wife, this is all a fantasy relationship he built up in his own mind about that woman he's been stalking since high school.
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I think that decade long "break" in the relationship was her cheating on every better option until she was left with this
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1igr45x/i_28m_found_nudes_on_my_wifes_29f_phone_of/:
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leave, idiot.
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Oh God his ear is rotting.
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Don't worry king, I'm sure this is the last time for real
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If she's going to cheat but you need the money and support you might as well also, just get better at hiding it. How'd she find out about the "massage"? Also that tattoo is so insanely ugly and the spot he chose only makes it 10x uglier
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At least it's covered by his hair right
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exactly
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