https://old.reddit.com/r/malelivingspace/comments/1iks4y3/26yo_trans_guy/
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/r/malelivingspace not a fan of transgenders invading their space
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Hi guys. I'm OP
If you wanna badmouth me, you're gonna have to say it to me directly.
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The fairy lights on the wall, stuffed animals, and floral bedsheets scream female to me. To really pass, we must see what state your vehicle interior is in !fellas
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She's also got a dedicated door hanger to hold all her yarn for crochet
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Remove posters with women if they have no breasts or butt visible.
Remove that female manequin head, there is 0 non-creepy reasons for a man to have that in his room.
Remove Monster cans, they make it look like a teenager's room.
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You know you can just be a straight woman and have short hair. House Tomboy welcomes you.
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So where do you display your guns and swords, bro?
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!friendsofcrosstalkpm
!superfriendsofcrosstalkpm
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!commenters !transphobes
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Do you feel a dissonance when you compare your room to other rooms in /r/malelivingspace? What do you make of the differences?
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I do. I definitely admire a lot of the rooms in the sub. I love interior design in general. I know I'm not like typical guys and of course, one of the places that's gonna show up is my bedroom. I was raised as a girl so of course Im gonna be more comfortable expressing femininity than most other men. But I dont see anything wrong with it. What do you think?
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thats such a feminine thing bro
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I think someone's private space is an effortless reflection of themself and the lack of femininity in men's room doesn't stem from being uncomfortable expressing it or the way they were raised but from something innate.
Given that you have feminine sensibilities and hobbies and behaviour, how did you come to the conclusion that you're a man?
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Its hard to describe. I remember always being confused. My parents raised me just like any other kid. I mean, they didnt even know what being trans was. So there wasnt any outside influence really. But I remember being little and being confused as to whether I was a boy or a girl. When I voiced these concerns, people would tell me I was a girl. But I secretly never believed them. I wonder myself sometimes... "How do I really know?"
I think ultimately, its just something innate. Something I know to be true without needing evidence of it.
I have nothing against being a girl. Its just never felt like me. And Ive always dreamt of having a male body... not in a sexual way. Just, something about the body I have now doesnt feel right.
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Have you considered that it's a common feeling among neurodivergents and you would be better served by working towards accepting yourself as a woman rather than pursuing those feelings?
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Yes, this is called "being a woman."
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Dw for all the people pooping on you we're just joshing and happy to have someone who can handle the bantz. Hopefully u stick around and contribute some drama of ur own u may find
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I only have one comment and it's that im horrified by all the shoes everywhere. You're American i presume because everyone else would catch fists for tracking outside dirt and grime into the house.
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I think you need to clean up some of the clutter in your room, get new bedsheets, a new mirror, and switch out some of the floral decorations for something more masculine. Is this just your room in your parents' house or something?
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Hey OP I just wanted to let you know your room is cute and valid.
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Ok! You're an attention seeking woman
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That's why you were contacted bb so we could do that.
YWNBAM btw
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We could but we're a trans friendly space and if we make you cry that'll trigger your dysphoria.
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Welcome bb
Hope you like the marseys
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Heck yea dude
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You'll never shit like a real man.
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its true π (I have IBS)
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IBS is female-coded
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Same bestie
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Do you play BG3
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/u/Striking_Ad5175 is not only
but also 
? What are the odds of two such uncommon conditions occurring in one person?
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https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/transgender-and-gender-diverse-individuals-are-more-likely-to-be-neurodivergent-and-report-higher-neurodivergent
There's actually a correlation between the two
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Darn, bro is even posting hate-facts. You might fit in here.
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She turned to /r/queerlivingspaces when she didn't get the hug box response she wanted
https://old.reddit.com/r/queerlivingspaces/comments/1ikwkb8/i_posted_these_in_rmalelivingspace_and_everyone/
(Imagine thinking a comment that says "maybe make your gross bed and throw away empty cans before you post your bedroom for discussion" is any form of hate)
These people are so unbelievably precious I hate them so much
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haha I didnt think it was real hate. I was moreso making a joke.
It's funny bc I'm the one who's neurodivergent yet, I'm having to explain a joke to you π«₯
Anyways, I mainly thought other queer ppl would appreciate my room more. I was scrolling through the sub and realized my room is not too unlike the rest there.
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It's over for @horsefuneralcels
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Assuming anyone you replied to here isn't r-slurred is a poor bet
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If it was a joke (it wasn't), it was a terrible one. You were transparently fishing for a hug box. I thought neurodivergents didn't lie?
You made an account here because you did the calculus in your head and realised directly confronting the trolls would gather you even more attention, the clear motivating factor in all your choices
Using autism to excuse not wanting or knowing you bed should be made is bad form btw
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You should hang around here, we all like to shit on
@horsefuneral and his dumb logic too.
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my sides
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So you're just a fricking straight woman
/u/Striking_Ad5175, b-word?
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Well, my bf rides on my peepee... so what would you call that?
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Pegging.
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darn... it wont even let me say peepee
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There's a slur filter in settings.
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Gay
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What is your fricking
peepee
made out of, b-word?
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What's her name?
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!!crosstalk newfriend thepersonyouhate
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Most masculine
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oh right, I forgot most men are only allowed to have interests in things that society deems appropriate. I should probably change my entire identity in order to fit in with the rest of the flock...
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You even talk like a b-word
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a real man conforms to society!!!
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Uhhhh yeah why do you think women (derogatory) lust after misogynists in private, despite their claims in public?
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The masculine urge to double reply with snarkasm
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The masculine urge to never capitalise.
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Unironically yes, men care very deeply about their own internal rules for what men can and can't do. It's less formal than social rules for women but it's 100% a thing and you will never pass if you don't conform.
This song should help.
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Maybe your room is a mess because you're a strong independent rebel who doesn't follow the rules. Or maybe it's because you're neurodivergent as frick.
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You are a strag hag. We do not grant you the rank of strag.
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/u/Striking_Ad5175
YWNBACute twink
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All I want is a world with a "No darkies, no queers, no women" sign outside the gay bar. Is that too much to ask?
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Quite funny to see the difference between
and 
colonization attempts, especially since most male redditors are so soy 
vs.
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Are trans men welcome here!?!
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Has rdrama ever had a trans man poster? I feel like they lack the self awareness to survive here.
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Yet, here I am. Say it to my face, frickwad
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bruh... why did it autocorrect
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Its a default setting just poke around in there and youll find it
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Hello! Do you work at Starbucks? What's your favourite Marsey? Mine is
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https://rdrama.net/post/341074/met-another-neurodivergent-at-the-adult
This blogposting WPD ebony cupcake
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Surprised every comment isn't [deleted]
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why would the comments be delwted?
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Reddit mods tend to remove comments that could be interpreted as anti trans or bullying trans people. The comments on reddit weren't very nice to you.
As you no doubt see, rdrama doesn't really moderate that.
I'd take note that most anti trans people don't hate you personally. They may be taking out a broader hatred of trans stuff out on you because you announced yourself as trans.
And here's something you won't see allowed on reddit: Many others don't really "hate" trans people. They just don't want people to have surgeries like ripping off their arm's skin to make a fake peepee, or removing a peepee and creating a wound that needs upkeep to not close itself. They both sound gross, but that's what the surgeries really do. And huge amounts of people have complications after the surgeries.
A lot of trans people have autism or are otherwise neurodivergent, and greedy surgeons and big pharma take advantage of this. They want you reliant on them for life, so they want this stuff pushed as much as possible. Trans people still feel uncomfortable with themselves after the surgeries. It's possible to be happy without those interventions. Therapy can help you accept yourself, as long as you go in with the mindset that surgery is not the answer to all of your problems.
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk
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I'm sorry your uncle molested you, but this is no way to process your trauma!
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That's dirty. And I'm not talking about the room.
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/malelivingspace/comments/1iks4y3/26yo_trans_guy/:
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