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She needs to dump you & move out. You're treating her like a roommate/tenant & not someone you're romantically involved in. Hope you don't expect s*x from her while she's subsidizing your income. You're her roommate now. (-42)

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YTA. The mortgage and bills should be split 50/50. Not you profiting off your girlfriend! It doesn't matter what the going rate is. Just look at the monthly bills for your condo and split that down the middle. (-38)

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If you can pay the bills by yourself when you lived alone, why would you expect her to begin paying bills simply because she lives with you? (-38)

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I bet this is this GF plan,move in have an oops pregnancy and quit job become Stay at home mooch be set for life. (1)

I love how y'all literally think that A) men have ZERO percent responsibility in all pregnancies that they cause but don't want. And B) that you think being a stay at home Mom is easy Af. Insane. Literally insane. I lived alone, worked a full time career as a cop - owned my home, had a take home patrol car, my own suv and my motorcycle.... It was a good life. It was also a fricking piece of CAKE next to being a stay at home Mom and not working.You think cooking, cleaning, managing schedules and RAISING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING is literally "being lazy"? It's fricking laughable that anyone could be dumb enough to think that GROWING AND BIRTHING A BABY, THEN RAISING IT is so fricking easy that every woman is just fiending to "trap" men..Id rather tear my eyeballs out than go weeks without human contact except conversations with my toddler, and I genuinely LOVE my kid. But holy shit... To think that anyone thinks my life is so lazy and easy just because I no longer punch a time clock. Again...... (-3)

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Lol you're telling me having a kid is harder than being a cop? You're either a mall cop or a liar (1)

I was a Deputy in Florida for 11 years, and yes. My theee year old is a FRICK TON harder. I ALWAYS eventually got to GO HOME and SLEEP when I was a cop - been shifts. I've yet to have a day off. My son is three. Last time I took my eyes off him, putting up Halloween decorations while he was inside napping... He woke up- and climbed out a SECOND STORY WINDOW to come join his brother and i outside. (Thankfully his brother saw him and rescued him quickly so he didn't fall!) When lecturing him on how dangerous it was, i included the caveat "you NEVER EVER climb out a window unless the house is on fire!" He looked me dead in the face and asked "what if i started the fire?" This second kid has been a VERY new experience. Raising my first to ten was the easiest thing I've ever done... Then #2 shows up and we've called 911 twice- plus he also fell at my studio and got stitches in his face despite being within arms reach of two grown adults- he's just ENDLESSLY into EVERYTHING. He had my brot... (1)

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NTA but since she's been there 4 months, check the laws in your state. You may have to legally evict her if she refuses to move out. Lock up anything you don't want to go missing (I assure you I am not assuming she would do anything bad, just basing that on so many other similar stories that have been posted here about this kind of thing), and lock the room you keep your clothes in as at least one crazy ex who was being dumped cut up their partners clothes before leaving. (1)

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horsefuneral it/that @ ultimateredditor 's best friend 8hr ago #7787128

OOP is an r-slur (although the story is fake). Realistically, if they're moving in together as a relationship progression and not simply for his or her financial convenience, he should be treating it as a shared asset that they both own and fund (ie her name gets put on the deed). Alternatively she's right and she should really only be paying towards costs her presence incurs (utilities and bills). You can't pick and choose from your favourite aspects of bf/gf relationship and landlord/tenant relationship to create the ultimate benefit to yourself

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robotron2084 kan/ye I hope you die-aria! horsefuneral 1hr ago #7788048

No, because they're not married. At any point she can renege and leave him with nothing.

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horsefuneral it/that @ ultimateredditor 's best friend robotron2084 1hr ago #7788094

That's my point, it's a stupid arrangement for everyone. Bringing a casual partner to live with you in a house whose mortgage you're still paying off means you either need to make the a co-owner and share equity (r-slurred), or only charge them for actual costs (utilities etc). You can't make them pay rent like a boarder and still frick them and treat them like an equal

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horsefuneral 6hr ago #7787493

he should be treating it as a shared asset that they both own and fund (ie her name gets put on the deed).

This is monumentally r-slurred idea to do with someone you're dating

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horsefuneral it/that @ ultimateredditor 's best friend Unholykongbringer 6hr ago #7787534

Exactly - so then he can't charge her rent. You don't get to have a tenant who you also frick

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