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Many men are happy to pick the whore. The same as women going for the "bad boy"
— Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men (@Pat_Stedman) February 22, 2025
Guys on here can go on about body counts but I watch actions. Women who struggle to show sexuality don't get picked
Trad girls would do well to show they really want sex, just saving it for husband https://t.co/MNDfj9IgBA
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it's not wrong tbh, 'watch what they do, not what they say' also applies to moids. And also demanding a trad wife is only really a thing with men who are insecure about their own attractiveness, where every other man is a potentially more attractive threat which you counter by restricting the ability of women to choose. It's a bit like how gay men tend to not give a frick because s*x is easy and so why get so obsessively possessive about it.
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men don't want a woman who is like, "publicly" sexual.
I think foids want a dude who is. who like, broadcasts masculinity or whatever. foids care about how that man is percieved by other foids
and the idea that he "resists temptation" and be's exclusive to her. she has the high value moid. and everyone must know.
what pat confuses is that public and private thing. because women offer temptation and men either succumb to or resist it, men see a woman publicly tempting other men as an inherent admission that they aren't willing to be exclusive. the purest extract, the full extreme of how moids would prefer foids to act, is how they are forced to in Islam.
the idea that a woman gives up her beauty in public and hides it from everyone, saving it for him alone
the idea that she's ravenous, only when alone with him; offers nothing but modesty to the public eye. that's the fantasy.
of course in the west moids do still want to a greater degree to 'show off' they foid but again in a "you'd only have to see her face to know" kind of way
you can pass all the judgment you want about insecurity or whatever
but the reality is that we are in competition and this is just how the actors act
because foids get the exact opposite feelings when they man gets attention from random foids. it makes him more attractive, and her more secure in the sense that he chose her. the jealousy is a different flavor
doesn't make it some kind of character flaw that moids dont feel the same
is not the same as prefering women who exercise utmost discretion in their own ability to choose. that's what moids are after.
of course foids dont' see it the same because a man who is even in the position to choose is alreaty high value
so he can exercise it as he pleases
anyway this is about all I've gathered from hoe_math's teachings and I've never really interacted with a woman irl bye
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