Many men are happy to pick the whore. The same as women going for the "bad boy"
— Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men (@Pat_Stedman) February 22, 2025
Guys on here can go on about body counts but I watch actions. Women who struggle to show sexuality don't get picked
Trad girls would do well to show they really want sex, just saving it for husband https://t.co/MNDfj9IgBA
Many men are happy to pick the whore. The same as women going for the "bad boy"
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Athletes dating porn start is nothing new. Actually marrying one would be.
There's one porn star who got knocked up by an NBA player who told her to go frick herself. She posted a rant which had one of the funniest lines ever.
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what an outfit
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Imagine it being your first mammary... I mean, memory.
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And get enough child support to never work again
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I think there's a little difference between a guy who has tattoos and rides a motorcycle and a lady who's idea of a fun Tuesday night is fellating the entire fire department.
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Hey, our emergency responders are heroes.
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They gotta slide down all those fire poles to stop fires, god forbid someone slides on theirs.
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Do you think sexual relief fund would attract more people to first responder jobs?
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There are no people under 60 that ride a HD. The modern bad boy is someone that slings dope and has a gun in their waistband and honestly there isn't much difference in that case
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the modern bad boy is Jordan Barrett
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No holster boys
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A gets blown by B
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The difference is one is doing a selfless public service and the other is a tattooed cookie cutter wimp
Trans lives matter
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This is 100% true. Thotmaxxing is literally foolproof, even moids who loudly claim to hate sluts will perform internal mental gymnastics if she's hot enough and he thinks he has a chance.
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It works if you want to get pumped & dumped, doesn't work for long term.
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Thotmaxxing isn't just being a slut, it's maximizing sexual visibility to as many men as possible, some of which are bound to try to seriously date you for sexual access. You underestimate moid simpery.
Many women married to rich guys got to where they are through thotmaxxing. Visibility is king.
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not many compared to how many thotmaxxers there are.
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Works for long term too. tbh that's a typical foid strategy of show enthusiastic sexuality until lives are too intertwined to easily split up
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Yes it does. Riley Reid landed a good looking husband.
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thotmaxxing is foolproof if all you want want is have s*x and become a single mom.
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Plenty of single moms who got pregnant from the first guy they dated seriously (or even married).
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yes and?
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Being a single mom has little to do with thotmaxxing.
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rain causes people to carry umbrellas, but people carrying umbrellas doesn't cause rain.
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Neighbor these are two zoomzooms publically performing the only two things zoomzooms have been told to aspire to: professional athlete or content creator (whore).
The insta follower bump was likely a large factor in this decision.
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Yes
Boomers, Gen Xers, and Millennials never had a tradition of wealthy and famous men wifing up notorious sluts.
Daily reminder that the Emperor Justinian married the Byzantine equivalent of a stripper in Theodora and made her one of the most powerful women in history. In the current era, Prince Harry could have chosen from a wide variety of beautiful tradwives as his consort yet he married a divorced stripper in Meghan Markle. Being a famous thot >>> Being a demure tradwife. I'm not saying this ought to be how things are, I'm just pointing out what is.
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Straight men's lack of standards is terrible for society
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Most correct take his year
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No foid in modern memory ever had any problem being "picked"
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is that women stay winning. They can have their hoe phase, and they can settle down later on.
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Actual !truthnuke just look at who Kanye West keeps giving alimony to
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Women start with an advantage of being immediately desirable but a lot of them frick that up with a terrible personality.
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Soccer players don't necessarily get laid if they're Gremlins. Wayne Rooney (who was nicknamed 'Shrek') regularly went to the hookers, some older than his mother.
Of course he was from Liverpool and scousers are the most degenerate flavor of Bong so maybe it's just in his nature.
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what if she was secretly a g*mer gater and hes simply attracted to her caring about ethics in games journ*lism???
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foids want a "bad boy" who is good to her
moids want a "good girl" who is bad for hem
moids will take whatever tho, in the short term. foids routinely confuse this for commitment
pat here is mentally a woman, perhaps he should transistion?
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it's not wrong tbh, 'watch what they do, not what they say' also applies to moids. And also demanding a trad wife is only really a thing with men who are insecure about their own attractiveness, where every other man is a potentially more attractive threat which you counter by restricting the ability of women to choose. It's a bit like how gay men tend to not give a frick because s*x is easy and so why get so obsessively possessive about it.
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men don't want a woman who is like, "publicly" sexual.
I think foids want a dude who is. who like, broadcasts masculinity or whatever. foids care about how that man is percieved by other foids
and the idea that he "resists temptation" and be's exclusive to her. she has the high value moid. and everyone must know.
what pat confuses is that public and private thing. because women offer temptation and men either succumb to or resist it, men see a woman publicly tempting other men as an inherent admission that they aren't willing to be exclusive. the purest extract, the full extreme of how moids would prefer foids to act, is how they are forced to in Islam.
the idea that a woman gives up her beauty in public and hides it from everyone, saving it for him alone
the idea that she's ravenous, only when alone with him; offers nothing but modesty to the public eye. that's the fantasy.
of course in the west moids do still want to a greater degree to 'show off' they foid but again in a "you'd only have to see her face to know" kind of way
you can pass all the judgment you want about insecurity or whatever
but the reality is that we are in competition and this is just how the actors act
because foids get the exact opposite feelings when they man gets attention from random foids. it makes him more attractive, and her more secure in the sense that he chose her. the jealousy is a different flavor
doesn't make it some kind of character flaw that moids dont feel the same
is not the same as prefering women who exercise utmost discretion in their own ability to choose. that's what moids are after.
of course foids dont' see it the same because a man who is even in the position to choose is alreaty high value
so he can exercise it as he pleases
anyway this is about all I've gathered from hoe_math's teachings and I've never really interacted with a woman irl bye
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The screenshot he's replying to isn't even real, it's just a joke about Tottenham
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Your peepee is boring
Snapshots:
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She set nothing of the sort. Not even close.
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Most average Britbong
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Nuclear
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Men gravitate towards hot slutty women (who eventually whore themselves out).
The girls "saving it for marriage" aren't usually hot lol
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Course it's a BIPOC
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lol, that's just rich dudes they cheat on the chicks too btw.
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Women will always keep getting away with it. There was this clip i posted of some random podcast chick (not even pornstar/OF whore) who admitted to just hooking up with some random famous basketball player and doing nothing but eating his butt to the point he gave her pinkeye and she will 100% find some dude willing to spend ton of money on her.
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