So I have really bad adhd and have taken Adderall since I was 6. I'm 21 now. I've also been asexual my whole life.
some ladygarden decided he was too much hassle at six, stuck him on
stimulants
So I put it to the test and tried going without it for a little while. After about a week, I got horny for the first time in my life and i don't know how to feel about it.
Whoops, missed my entire adolescence falling for something invented in 2015
My biggest problem is now I'm in my 20s and I don't know how to flirt with girls, how to have crushes on people, how to manage myself,
what the frick is it then???
s are genuinely making this up as they go
im so sorry for making you educate me omg please dont hate me omg omg im just so fricking confused by the made up sexuality you're beating me over the head with
ok well I am REPULSED by you
incel enters the chat
"waaaaah waaah im a fricking pathic
" kill all males
I've just started my Ritalin titration, and I'm having the opposite problem.
wait, are all s whacked out on amphetamines?
if your girl so much as touches carbs that's a pig, and fricking pigs is HARAM
Whole thing is a mess. Incels, meth, made up sexualities - WHAT is going on with the zooms, is this why they're all sexless? where do SSRIs fit into all this?
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9 out of 10 asexuals are lying about not wanting s*x
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A lot of them are basically antisocial fetishists. Other people are just warm bodies meant to vehicles for their fetishes.
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This is 100% it. Whenever I see an adult calling themselves asexual (and not the fake "aromantic" kind), I know for a fact what they're telling me is they have some incredibly obscure or socially disgraceful paraphilia that even Tumblr and Bluesky won't tolerate.
I'm talking the people who aren't just into like "piss play", but the ones who can only get off on spying on trans women doing shits or forcing twinks to publicly disgrace themselves by fingering a pig or some shit
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I think this is it
I know a lot of furs that claim to be ace which to them just means they don't want s*x but jack it to kinky porn like everyone else
There was a sfw fvn that got super popular with an ace dev, and everyone who asked if there will be any s*x or lewds in the game got attacked because how dare you ask that! The dev is ace after all! We later found out the dev has a kink account where he comissions fricking weight gain porn every week
Of course, there's nobody really calling it out because questioning someone's sexuality is a quick pathway to a permaban from most groomercord servers, which are basically the only way to talk about the game
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Which one?
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RTF
Irc it had some newds initially but they were removed, idk it was so long since i last read it
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This has sweaty gay porn written all over it
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Yeah there's a few cute characters in there people go crazy for, but it's namely cooper and axel
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Doesnt exist, except maybe nazisexual
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I think a lot of them aren't, but they're on SSRIs that deplete their libido and the rest is just deciding to make that their personality. So when their libido peeks through they deny to themselves and others that's what it is, because they've already defined themselves as one of those special people not obsessed with s*x unlike all those icky other people (usually straight men).
So asexuality becomes a spectrum because they're not giving up on being special that easily. It's a Tumblr mindset developed as a consequence of the mass adoption of brain meds, especially in children. This guy was on Adderall since he was six. That's insane.
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SSRIs dry shorties up. like it cannot be understated that most wammen on SSRIs just dont even feel reactive s*x drive. it makes a lot of sense that the extremely online who are more depressed anyways ended up creating this weird gender divide.
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If lexapro don't do it, then birth control hormones will finish the job
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Meme 'illnesses' like ADHD becoming mainstream was a disaster for the human race.
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ADHD is like all the other victimhood points issues, a real thing that is vastly over-diagnosed, especially self-diagnosed. That it gets you a decent drug is an added benefit.
You're right, it's been a disaster. Then they all go online and become worse disasters, in public, where the small mercy is we get to laugh at them.
Or, I suspect, be them in some cases here.
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Im not even convinced its real tbh, its just weird that it wasnt really a thing before very recently. Idk, maybe it just fell under general neurodivergent/sped/r-slur adjacent. But imo ADHD is just the manifestation of modern parents being unable (and unwilling) to properly raise and discipline their children. Most of the time I met parents (mostly single moms
) who had ADHD kids it was painfully obvious that they were not capable of raising a child. Oh, little timmy is trampling through the flower bed for the tenth time even though you told him to stop several times already? Yeah he just has ADHD, theres no helping it tehe
. No b-word, give him a good slap and he will stop real quick.
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asexual is having a closet full of s*x toys
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There was an absolute degen pornstar who in a podcast said that she was asexual, while working as a fricking pornstar who has s*x all the time for a living
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once wammen start having sx for money it really seems like they cant enjoy sx anymore. hookers are notorious for not wanting s*x only exception is strippers idk why.
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Probably for the same reason I used to love coding and tinkering with computer shit and now I clock out of my codecel job and barely want to touch the fricking things.
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What pornstar
Trans lives matter
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Notice how they say "oh you can be horny but still asexual"
So coomers but they have porn and no incentive to date/have real s*x.
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And no oppurtunity
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