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I plan on driving to a city in canada (i dont live far from the border) and just practicing my conversations there so i dont get a reputation for being weird back home. I also will be in quebec and i dont speak french

My main problem is that i dont know what the frick to talk about. How do i begin a conversation with a foid and what do i talk to them about should they give me their contact info

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I plan on driving to a city in canada (i dont live far from the border) and just practicing my conversations there so i dont get a reputation for being weird back home. I also will be in quebec and i dont speak french

What.

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What if i act neurodivergent to someone and then they spread that info around my city that im an neurodivergent and creepy. People talk its more common than you think

If i had the money id go to australia or europe to do this

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>worry about being seen as neurodivergent

>solution is to do something even more neurodivergent

You have anxiety neighbor. Just talk to the people in your hometown. You said you're just trying to make friends right? Then you shouldn't worry too much, there's not much at stake to begin with.

Here's the redpill: People do indeed talk. They talk tons of shit about other people. And they love talking shit about people for social missteps. But that's the nature of being social, even attractive and socially adept people get a ton of shit talked about them. They just have enough good experiences to make themselves happy and brush off the negative talk. Coming to terms with people thinking negatively of you will unironically make you more personable.

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>act like an r-slur once

>people spread rumors

>you are forever the town r-slur, nobody wants to be around you

>remain r-slurred in a feedback loop of asocialization

Watch diary of a wimpy kid to see what i mean

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You just don't know how many embarrassing, socially humiliating moments people go through while still managing to be social afterwards.

You have to push through the bad times neighbors You're undersocialized now and the only way out of that is to socialize more, make mistakes, and push through. So what if you end up being seen as a social r-slur in your town? You're already probably considered that, if they think about you at all. You have nothing to lose and much to gain.

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So what if you end up being seen as a social r-slur in your town? You're already probably considered that, if they think about you at all.

If this is the case for someone then it was over before it even began. If you have a shit reputation youre not gonna be able to do anything

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Jewish Lives Matter Less Than Palestinian Lives

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ill sleep on this and tell you what i think tomorrow

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"what brand is your microwave"

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Frick off

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Go to every bookstore (or library) there until you see a QT. Comment on whatever section she's looking at or whatever books are in her hand, then if she seems like she doesn't mind your small talk ask for her name and go from there :marseythumbsup:

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Comment on whatever section she's looking at

Like what

And i dont want to just get a girlfriend, i just want friends

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If you don't have friends from highschool you're not going to make real friends. Even my college friends I still keep up with aren't real friends. You can kinda become friends with dudes you work with but it's not the same at all as the second one of you gets a new job you'll barely talk.

You should start cruising for kitty and you'll meet other men doing the same. Then later on you can hang with your GF's dad and her friends' boyfriends.

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Also this is fricking r-slurred. I really dont think most people keep up with high school friends unless theyre going to the same college or they knew each other all their lives

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No, most people keep up with their high school friends. My clique ended up living all over the country and we still keep up with each other. I talk to them either on the phone or while playing vidya with them every couple of months, and we visit each other maybe once a year or so. And when I visit my hometown I see the exact same cliques from high school hanging out together at the bars.

Even in college most of the parties I went to had tons of people there that didn't go to our school but were friends of the hosts from high school. Best I get from my college friends is trading texts every few months.

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Best I get from my college friends is trading texts every few months.

Versus the connoisseur's high school-forged friendship that continues with the fulfilling "playing vidya with them every couple of months, and we visit each other maybe once a year or so."

Neither of these is particularly serious.

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How old are you?

The extent of all of my dad's friendships by 30 was Christmas cards.

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by 30

I'm well past that. I made most of my current friends after moving a long distance in my late 20s. I joined local interest groups and found most through those.

My friends from before the move were generally from college. I can't think of anyone from high school I keep up with these days, and I'm really only sad about that for one person.

I'm realizing that I'm putting my :autism: credibility on this site at risk by revealing my ability to make friends.

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I graduated 25 years ago and still see highschool friends regularly. We even have a group chat together.

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I do have friends from high school, always felt left out though. And im in college where i have a good group of friends but im not popular or anything

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"In Warhammer 40K, women like those in the book you're holding are enslaved and used for breeding."

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In a dark fiber cable, cool memes in the air

Warm smell of mtn dew , rising up from my hair

Up ahead in the distance, I saw a couple chuds

My eyes grew heavy and my DC grew light

I had to stop for the night


There krayon (sister toucher) stood in my DMs

I saw the little red bell

And I was thinking to myself

"This could be marsey or this could be heck"

Then they lit up that soyboy and they showed me the gays

They were flaming up and down the board

I thought I heard them say


Welcome to the homosexual :marseytrain: cat site

Such a lovely place (Such a lovely place)

Such a lovely face

Plenty of room at the gay :marseytrain: dating cat site

Any time of year (Any time of year)

You'll find festive our cheer


Her mind is stuck on the dogpill, she got the marsey41 loaded up

She got a lot of big butt neckbeards she calls simps

How they screech in her comments, begging for a tap

Some beg for attention, some beg to forget


So I called up Aevann

"Please bring me my awards."

He said, "We haven't had that discount here since October 24th"

And still those chuds are flaming from far away

Wake you up in the middle of the day

Just to hear them say


Welcome to the homosexual :marseytrain: cat site

Such a lovely place (Such a lovely place)

Such a lovely face

Plenty of room at the gay :marseytrain: dating cat site

What a nice surprise

I only saw goatse twice


UwUs on my haters

The Olde english on ice

And he said "We are all just visitors here, on your own device"

And in the Jannie groomercord

They gathered for the beast

They stab it with their ban awards

But they just can't kill the OGs


Last thing I remember

I was doxxing chtorr

I had to find the passage back to the clique I was in before

"based," as the moon man says

"We are programmed to hate,

You can log out any time you like

But you can never delete!"

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