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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] Is anyone else tired of all the posts on reddit of men whining about how hard dating is and how lonely they are?

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The lack of empathy in this post is disturbing. You're seeing a lot of these posts because you're on Reddit. The majority of people on Reddit are men in their 30s. The internet also attracts introverts. A demographic that is more likely to struggle with dating. This is also a real issue that is affecting many men. Just because you don't understand it or don't like hearing about it doesn't mean it isn't real or an issue that other people struggle with and want to talk about. If you hate men, just say that. It's trendy. No one is going to bat an eye if you just come out and say it. (75)

And moaning achieves what exactly?ย Nobody is knocking on door to make you more sociable and outgoing. Do the work.ย  (-14)

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The lack of empathy in this post is disturbing. You're seeing a lot of these posts because you're on Reddit. The majority of people on Reddit are men in their 30s. The internet also attracts introverts. A demographic that is more likely to struggle with dating. This is also a real issue that is affecting many men. Just because you don't understand it or don't like hearing about it doesn't mean it isn't real or an issue that other people struggle with and want to talk about. If you hate men, just say that. It's trendy. No one is going to bat an eye if you just come out and say it. (75)

I do have empathy for men, but like I said, do you not have anything else going on in your life?And ok, let's say you don't. Let's say you have no friends, no meaningful career etc, wouldn't it be a good idea to work on getting those first before you worry about getting a gf? (-27)

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Look up the meaning of the word cathartic. "Do the work" spoken like someone who hasn't done any work and just blindly believes in the just world fallacy. (36)

You sound bitter.ย  (-19)

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You don't, and it shows. You're right. It would. But this is where empathy comes in. You clearly have no understanding of the male experience or the issues that men are facing. Not being able to find a long-term partner IS downstream of all of the problems with all of the things you listed. All adults have trouble making friends. But it's even more of an issue for men. Many careers have been watered down and are basically jobs that don't pay well. Many jobs are also passing on men in favor of other applicants. Men are falling behind in education and employment. The data is there. You don't have to like men; I wouldn't judge you for not; I don't like them either. But it's not hard to find the information you need to understand. Men are struggling right now. And it's not just due to an inability or unwillingness to adapt. (35)

men have literally created this problem for themselves though and don't understand that. the vast majority of men who are suffering right now don't understand they're suffering because of patriarchy and not because of women. men get so mad when women are doing better than them because they've set themselves up to be expected to be "providers" but when a woman expects them to provide she's a gold digger. so many men genuinely hate women then get mad when they try to talk to a girl and she can tell he obviously has a huge disdain for women, then he gets mad she doesn't want to date him and then he hates women more. it's a nasty cycle. but men suffer under the patriarchy just like women do, you guys don't have relationships and friendships as close as women do and thus end up feeling really lonely without a romantic relationship. it sucks but it's not the fault of women like incels want it to be and it's actually terrifying for us out here (-11)

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I'm tired of it happening in so many subs that don't revolve around dating, but I'm mainly disturbed by the demented comments in reply to these threads. "80% of women date 20% of men" (lolwhut), "Women don't date men under 6 feet" (just get out on the street and you'll see plenty short guys with wives), and so on. A lot of defeatist, self-pitying and often misogynistic incel shit.There's whole generations growing up getting their minds poisoned by this bullshit. I'm very glad the incel movement wasn't as widespread when I was fourteen, because being a bullied, lonely kid, I 100% would've fallen for it. (2)

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'the epidemic of male loneliness' ie where is the woman to solve all my problems, like the one my grandfather had??Turns out gender equality freed women and now the men who actively resisted it are not outright fighting it and moaning, they want women to surrender the freedoms that generations of women fought to get.of course they are whinging about how tough men have it but ignore that the most dangerous thing to a woman - is a man !!Sure men take all the resources, burden women with pain and labour, rob us of our freedoms, dodge child care, r*pe / murder us - Why don't Women want MEN? its a mystery!!! (1)

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meanwhile, as a gay man in a red state, i feel it's pretty hard to find people who are looking for relationships instead of just hookups. at least with most men in their 20s, but it feels like the gay bar and grindr are the only options, i could get laid in an hour but i've no interest at this point

Same, as a middle aged woman in a red state. They all want free s*x work.

I'm a big girl (5'4", 240lbs) so I got the biggest size both times, think it was the XXL.

Maybe if /u/But_like_whytho wasn't so fat and disgusting men would want to marry her? God forbid she tries losing a little weight. Her BMI is literally double what it should be :#marseylaugh:

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the amount of fat chicks on Tinder in any city is crazy. They spend all day liking mens profiles, I used to get 2 notifications a day for months and didnt even bother looking, same generic looking 30yr old fatties usually with a dog. Most of the attractive girls expect you to msg them first

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Women owning a dog is such a massive turnoff for me, dogpill meme notwithstanding, and I'm not sure why. It's worse than a philtrum piercing and tattoos.

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A couple or a man having a dog makes me feel nothing. I even like dogs. But a single woman? The frick is she doing with a dog? Keeping it to guard the livestock? lol

Incomprehensible and off-putting.

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You're basically taking care of a kid at that point

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@collectijism love how everypony is upmarseying you believing you didn't dive in those DMs and pound some nasty slop a few times. Just slam pig that rancher half drunk in a sad lonely moment maybe a holiday you used too enjoy with you're ex.

Trans lives matter

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The humble bragging strag and b-word saying they get all the free s*x.

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>Give foids freedom

>Foids would rather be part of Chad's harem than date the average man

>The Patriarchy did this.

:#marseyfoidretard:

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I learned the hard way that you can't trust foids with freedom.

I released the restraints on my gf after months of her begging and assurances that she wouldn't try anything stupid. What does the stupid b-word do right away? Tries to run away!

Luckily her muscles were so atrophied from being chained to the bed that I easily ran her down, but still ughh. Foids amirite? :ishyg#ddt:

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Cringe

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/uj I thought this was a safe space for a loving poly CNC furry full time no limits wholesome ddlg scat bdsm blog post

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I hope when you die it's slow and painful

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I hope when you die it's peacefully and surrounded by friends and family after a long prosperous life

Btw you think anyone's ever used an urn as a c*m jar? Kinda cool thought experiment.

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lol only losers die and I don't have time for losers

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this line of logic actually makes a lot of sense. the patriarchy does ensure chad is the only valuable offering :marseyshrug:

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Yeah, if there's one thing I've learned over the course of being a little "loverboy" or whatever in High School, it's that obsessing over women makes it virtually impossible to connect with them.

She's just a person yo, she takes the same monster shits you do everyday.

If you ever start/write a positive-masculinity dating advice podcast/book, please call it 'she takes the same monster shits you do everyday'

I'm a woman and I genuinely think that's a good idea that sounds like it would address some of the common core issues lonely men have.

It always perplexes me that obvious virgins and women assume they have the solution to male loneliness. It always boils down to virgins telling women what women want to hear. Dr. Nerdlove remains the ultimate example, with his entire "healthy masculinity" schtick built around flattering the attitudes of his almost-exclusively-female audience.

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Isn't he the guy who had that inescapable video a few years back telling women they had to actually make themselves approachable

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I don't have a girlfriend either

Who wants to bet the problem is that all these posts remind him that he's lonely?

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Can they stop whining though? I'm trying to rizz this straight guy and he keeps being like "I'm so lonely..." and it makes me think he's about to make a move on me but he clearly has no intention. It's really confusing for us predatory gays so can you tone it down a little plz and thx youz.

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Keep at it brother. You can turn him!

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Is anyone else tired of all the posts on reddit of men whining about how hard dating is and how lonely they are?

:#marseyagree: :marseyf#eminist:

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And moaning achieves what exactly?ย Nobody is knocking on door to make you more sociable and outgoing. Do the work.ย :

I do have empathy for men, but like I said, do you not have anything else going on in your life?And ok, let's say you don't. Let's say you have no friends, no meaningful career etc, wouldn't it be a good idea to work on getting those first before you worry about getting a gf?:

You sound bitter.ย :

men have literally created this problem for themselves though and don't understand that. the vast majority of men who are suffering right now don't understand they're suffering because of patriarchy and not because of women. men get so mad when women are doing better than them because they've set themselves up to be expected to be "providers" but when a woman expects them to provide she's a gold digger. so many men genuinely hate women then get mad when they try to talk to a girl and she can tell he obviously has a huge disdain for women, then he gets mad she doesn't want to date him and then he hates women more. it's a nasty cycle. but men suffer under the patriarchy just like women do, you guys don't have relationships and friendships as close as women do and thus end up feeling really lonely without a romantic relationship. it sucks but it's not the fault of women like incels want it to be and it's actually terrifying for us out here:

I'm tired of it happening in so many subs that don't revolve around dating, but I'm mainly disturbed by the demented comments in reply to these threads. "80% of women date 20% of men" (lolwhut), "Women don't date men under 6 feet" (just get out on the street and you'll see plenty short guys with wives), and so on. A lot of defeatist, self-pitying and often misogynistic incel shit.There's whole generations growing up getting their minds poisoned by this bullshit. I'm very glad the incel movement wasn't as widespread when I was fourteen, because being a bullied, lonely kid, I 100% would've fallen for it.:

'the epidemic of male loneliness' ie where is the woman to solve all my problems, like the one my grandfather had??Turns out gender equality freed women and now the men who actively resisted it are not outright fighting it and moaning, they want women to surrender the freedoms that generations of women fought to get.of course they are whinging about how tough men have it but ignore that the most dangerous thing to a woman - is a man !!Sure men take all the resources, burden women with pain and labour, rob us of our freedoms, dodge child care, r*pe / murder us - Why don't Women want MEN? its a mystery!!!:

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:quote: is anyone else tired of all the posts on reddit of trans people whining about how hard dating is and how lonely they are? :quote:

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Stop reading creative writing subreddits full of made up shit maybe? /u/thunderstroke90

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Oh my god yes there's nothing more pathetic than a moid


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