I would heavily encourage any non-black people reading this to seek out and silently read conversations that black people are having, specifically black women and even more specifically disabled black women.
Yes, there are things we can reflect on, and things that Chris Rock's insulting and violent 'joke' and Will Smith's violent physical and verbal reaction to it can teach us about masculinity. But intersectionality is important- what are black men discussing about their masculinity? What are black women discussing about how they are affected by the two types of violence displayed last night?
This has nothing to do with a joke about Jada's hair. This has everything to do with toxic masculinity and the very real and public cheating and humiliation that Jada put Will through. Jada cheated with their son's friend and what that has very publicly done to the psyche of Will Smith specifically has not been fun to watch. This is basically just a dude in a toxic relationship who decided to act out violently towards others instead of taking things in stride and ending his relationship. This bluster comes from him overreacting and being triggered already. LET ME REPEAT THIS IN THE BACK FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED IN THIS THREAD: VIOLENCE IS NEVER THE ANSWER IF IT CAN BE AVOIDED. Certainly not on national television during the freaking Oscars. And am I supposed to pretend that Smith would have hit anyone that was his size or bigger? You think he would have struck Terri Cruz had he made an offhand joke? The hair comment was literally the LEAST he could have joked about when it came to this famous couple.
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I didnt forget i just don't care
Any journ*list who writes about something that's had no new developments after 24 hours should be fired cmv
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chud alert
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Frick off
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Why do you hate black people?
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The new development is that wh*te people aren’t reacting the right way.
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OJ's verdict on the crime was a new development
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NOOOOO if you're against r-slurs slapping other r-slurs on stage then you have to be against hurting murderers and terrorists too!!!
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I'm against war and police, but that won't stop me from calling the police on someone who is slightly annoying. I might as well get something for my tax dollars.
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He's r-slurred but a lot of leftoids are in fact anti military and anti police
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Fellow redditors, please understand that violence is inherent in black culture, but if a black person tells you that it's somehow not racist anymore
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I can't wrap my head around why they think a guy slapping another guy for insulting his wife is a black thing lmao.
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Imagine being black and having a bunch of mayos frantically calling you up today and asking for direction on how they should feel about two celebrities getting in a slapfight. The "emotional labor" bullshit actually is starting to make sense. Maybe the other cuck saying that you should "seek out and silently read conversations that black people are having" is on the right track. I doubt menslibbers are capable of talking to blacks without being really fricking annoying.
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Of course! It all makes sense now
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Cucks defend cuck
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https://old.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/fz4bet/remember_that_fat_pregnant_poly_with_the_4/
Cuck rage many such cases.
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Ah, the good old days
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newstrag
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Opinion discarded
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Has this marsey been added to the official list?
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it was at one point, iirc it stopped working or something lol
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I don't think so
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This is the most r-slurred reason to lock a thread
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Menslubbers are almost as pathetic as srdines.
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Menslib started a feminist sub to lure in soys that were MRA curious.
You can't even talk about men's issues there unless it's about how said issue impacts women.
Once a guy posted there that he was angry at women as he was sexually assaulted and they removed it for blaming women.
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Isnt menslib now mostly trains?
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Not back in the day idk about now. Not been there for years.
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https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/menslib
FTM is number 6 with a score of 12.55
TrollX has 25.01 lmao
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im here to remind you that women invading male species is a thing that literally never happens
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Mordhau? That game's community would make menslib shit their pants. You spawn in with a KKK guy and you'll have half the server joining you as a slave or Hitler cosplays
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I should use that as an excuse when I'm moderating Hacker News
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No. Get fricked. Stop trying to control people's completely normal reactions to what they saw with their own eyes.
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Lmao that line made me seethe, like i need to walk around with a black guy to tell me how to react and think? Nah
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Justice is not telling other people that they aren't allowed to have opinions about what happened between two human beings onstage because of the color of their skin. A bunch of people online talking about how we don't understand black culture. You are telling me that black culture is violence, you dumbasses. Telling me that the people who essentially came up with and tell the best yo mama jokes can't stand a mild poke at a rich man's rich celebrity wife without resorting to violence. Really with this? Then you start jawing about how white people have no culture and your next tweet is about how you loved the new season of Bridgerton and Shonda Rimes is a kween.
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No, I must go read 🏀 Twitter to be told what to think, a place where I’m not allowed to post because of my disgusting pasty skin, or else I might develop a wrongthink idea!
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If being bald is now a disability then the welfare stats are about to experience a massive correction and imma shave my head
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No, women being bald is a disability. That's why they have a special word for it instead of just calling women bald.
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The best thing to come out of this is me learning that alopecia is literally just a female cope word for being bald.
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That's not technically true, it was just really funny to say.
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Is there any case law on gendered disabilities? I'm kinda curious now but not enough to look it up. The modern trans dynamic probably complicates things too. I'm sure there are disabilities/conditions specific to each s*x but I imagine most/all of them have biomarkers other than "hair gone", and "hair gone" is the "disabling" symptom in this case.
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Idk what the deal is with Jada but an ex of mine had alopecia and there's a test they do to see if your immune system attacks your hair follicles, bc that's what causes real alopecia. Since it's medically provable in most cases (ie not simply being an uggo), you can get legally fricked over for treating them differently.
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Malding?
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lmao some FTMs are manlier than those "men"
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Most MTFs too.
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Can’t imagine why.
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IT'S MA'AM
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Black women suffer higher rates of domestic violence than any other women, save for Native Americans. Maybe black men need to reexamine their toxic masculinity. Might do wonders for their jail numbers.
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true, can you imagine being worse at something than native americans? Absolutely shameful, blacks need to really examine their toxic masc and figure out why theyre such weak willed dweebs compared to chief slapping-wife
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Or maybe black women have more hearing problems?
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That would explain the yelling
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They have such an insufferably kitty way of posting otherwise normal ideas like "don't slap people in the face like a troglodyte" and "maybe don't joke about the couple everyone knows is on the outs"
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The words trans and trump are used on average like every 5 seconds I just checked using that reddit searcher thing. It's crazy how much this is mentioend.
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Do you think that number is lower here?
People in glass houses etc
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All the users on men's lib should transition. Having a bunch of programmer socks running around would give the place more masculinity than it currently has.
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Someone in here pointed it out before but if you actually watch the video, Will Smith’s initial reaction is to laugh. Then:
So either,
Why is nobody talking about this???
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Cute twink all of them
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Any take other than CUCKCUCKCUCKCUCKCUCKCUCK is objectively wrong
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i remember when we used to watch reality tv and just laugh at r-slurs fighting rather than writing
about the sociological implications of it
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I can just imagine someone writing an essay on medium about Countess LuAnn from RHONY using her noble privilege.
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/tqc5p6/chris_rock_and_will_smith_expose_all_thats_wrong/i2gf4a6/:
https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/tqc5p6/chris_rock_and_will_smith_expose_all_thats_wrong/i2goubk/:
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menslib is a foid psyop https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/menslib
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Trans lives matter but munslibs don’t.
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Only a redditor would think think a 50 year old black actor on a cocktail of horomones is peak masculinity
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Can't even say b-word slapping is based without asking 100 black people for their opinion anymore, we live in a soyciety
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Since when can we not make fun of someone for being a baldy. Time for foids to step up and take their medicine
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Ummmm sweetie you should really ask permission before invading sacred BLACK spaces and audio-appropriating BLACK voices and bodies
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karen's lib strikes again
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when someone uses the term toxic I immediately want to piss on the top of their head with my large unwashed peepee
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