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If trans woman are brought up and your first thought is "I'd never date a woman with a peepee", it's probably coming from a transphobic place. Because;
Simply put, "It's not inherently transphobic to have a genital preference" doesn't mean "that type of transphobia is allowed", it's saying it's not inherently transphobic to feel that way, as long as it's not coming from a transphobic place, and you don't act on that feeling in a transphobic way.
But honestly, it's still shallow. It's not "perfectly fine" to refuse to date a trans person, it's just not inherently transphobic. If you aren't transphobic, you are still being really shallow and judgmental, treating people like meat to be discarded for their imperfections.
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This, my dear, is utterly nonsensical heteronormative crap. First, trans women are women. We are not "men who want to be women". If that person doesn't even know/acknoledge that, everything that comes afterwards is instantly disqualified. Also, trans women can be straight (i.e. only interested in men), lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual or whatever have you. Gender and sexuality are seperate things. The idea that trans women had to be straight is an age old trope in psychiatry, that's rooted in heteronormativity and homophobia. Furthermore, the usual story goes that we gotta be "straight" before coming out, as in we gotta be "men who date women", but upon realizing we are women, we still gotta be straight, but now as women who date men. If we've been into men before coming out, we're told we'd only try to escape being gay by identifying as trans (utterly nonsense, in most parts of the world trans people face either the same or worse discrimination as gay cis people). And if we're gay after coming out, we're questioned as why we would "want to change gender" if we could lead a cis straight life. See, the fundamental ideas behind this is that being cis and straight is normal, natural, better, superior ... compared to being trans and/or queer. Which should tell you all you need to know about people saying such things: They are homo- & transphobes. Nothing more. No reason to listen to them any further.
To answer your question directly: Yes! You can be trans and a lesbian. Of course! (Source: I'm a lesbian trans woman. I exist. q.e.d.)
On a personal note: You may refer to yourself however you seem fit. I personally really despise the word "transbian", as it others trans lesbians from all other lesbians, acting like we'd be somehow so fundamentally different from other lesbians that we need to be refered to with a seperate noun. Which is pretty transphobic imo. So much for my two cents... you do you, but I just wanted to share. Because you're not less of a woman or less of a lesbian for being trans.
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All them words won't bring your pa back.
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You can type 10,000 characters and you decided that these were the one's that you wanted.
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That's fine, I'd never date a black woman either
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More chocolate milk for me
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