uses groomercord, posts cartoon child

I almost want to pin-award this to see how many downvotes you can farm with this. Almost.

For the record - he really believes this, lol

Reasons not to use the Groomercord communications system

• The Groomercord communications system requires running a nonfree client program. That alone is reason to refuse to use it.

• The program reportedly collects lots of data about users.

  • The developer denies the claim that Groomercord reports which processes are running on the user's machine. I have no way of determining the facts about this specific point. Whether it collects those particular data is a minor detail; I mention it only to avoid appearing to assert a criticism that might not be true.

  *For the same reason, I mention that selling personal data is not the sole way that the company makes money. I don't think that question how it makes money really matters. What matters, ethically, is what the software does to users. The developers' motives for making it do those things are pertinent to understanding the situation but should not affect our moral judgment of mistreatment of users.

• One user quit using Groomercord because it demanded she fill out a Google reCAPTCHA, apparently because she was connecting through Tor.

  • Google CAPTCHAs didn't work for me, because they required running nonfree Javascript code.

• Groomercord insists on tracking users. If a user connects through a VPN, Groomercord demands that user provide a phone number.

• Groomercord locks accounts that don't have associated phone numbers. When an account is locked, also called "deactivated", the user is not allowed to make real use of it until person adds a phone number.

• Groomercord may demand to talk with you by phone if it decides you are suspicious — for instance, if you contact it via Tor.

  • If I understand right, if you use Groomercord regularly via Tor you would need to carry that phone with you all the time. A burner phone, one what you possess only for a short time, would not be allowed to do the job.

  • Thus, whoever uses Groomercord gets tracked either by the Groomercord server (and anyone looking at where the packets are coming from) or by the phone.

• Users report that Groomercord shut off their accounts and won't tell them why.

• I would appreciate suggestions of other pages to use as factual references for specific wrongs committed by Groomercord, or to correct on a trustworthy basis any false accusations in the page linked to above.

The Groomercord web site also offers nonfree application programs. You shouldn't use them, naturally, but they are a separate issue from using the communications system itself.

Reportedly the Groomercord web app sends tracking data to /science instead of the usual /track, so as to thwart extensions to limit tracking. Reportedly there is a switch that disables (some) data collection, but it doesn't affect the sending of tracking data to the server.

I hope this clears things out

None of the users who are nice to me are on Groomercord but all the mean people are

I’m here to laugh at r-slurs online not build parasocial relationships with nineteen year olds.

Ok groomer.

The purpose of this site is to check when I'm bored, not maintain a constant communication hub. It's asynchronous in codecels speak.

I'm not really interested in getting that level of invested. I've done the whole "inner group" chats-within-chats thing before and it's not something I'm really looking to do right now.

Good question

I'm here because there's only a few people left irl who would be okay with all the kinds of jokes and hot takes I've made here since I have responsibilities or whatever now. There is excess neurodivergence that needs to be released, but not enough that I will neglect my obligations to spend all day and night talking to weird incels

because groomercord is terrible for discussions