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My partner keeps deadnaming and misgendering me, we've been dating for 2 months. - FTM

https://old.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/wdf5w5/problems?sort=controversial

Every time we hang out he misgenders me, I keep explaining to him, that I don't like it and I don't like my name and he keeps doing it. He refuses to call me by my chosen name, he sends me "cute" stuff he found with my deadname on it.... And I just can't.. I mean I love the guy but holy shit how many times I need to explain... I'm 30 and he is 36 btw...

:#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl::#marseyemojirofl:

I thought they were kids or something

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based, just completely ignores the foid shit :gigachad2:

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This man will live his cute tomboy gf fantasy, no matter what.

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Good for him tbh

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frick you

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why

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frick you

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frick you

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Quad explain how whacking off and busting a nut to getting banged in your metaphorical vagina is feminine. Really dude, what are you even doing?

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Common there's 0 chance this b-word suddenly got dysphoria at 30

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I once tried coming out to a then-partner by telling him I use they pronouns. He responded, β€œoh, I just use whatever comes to mind when I see the person” and I tried explaining what I meant but he changed the subject. I later did successfully come out to him but I noticed he would use β€œthey/them” to refer to all our female friends. I tried calling him out on it and he said he hadn’t noticed, shrugged it off.

"You what? I wasn't listening. You use pronouns? Oh, me too, I use them all the time."

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Masculinity is about pronouns. The more you use he/him pronouns, the more masculine you are.

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I later did successfully come out to him but I noticed he would use β€œthey/them” to refer to all our female friends. I tried calling him out on it and he said he hadn’t noticed, shrugged it off.

Getting what you asked for isn't enough if he's unconsciously using gender neutral pronouns to refer to other people too

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Using "they" inappropriately rocks, enjoy it while you can!

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Back when me and my partner were still lesbians,

Oh sweaty you are still lesbians!

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Theyre clearly two gay men who love massaging their prostates their very manly g-spots and clits...

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He’s doing this on purpose. Back when me and my partner were still lesbians, he changed his name and pronouns and it took me about a month of actively using them to just use them as default. There is no excuse for this except that he does not see you as a man, and you need to dump him yesterday

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Oi top o the morn luv :marseybong:

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Interesting, last time I saw someone with face piercings like that it was someone locked up in a mental institution :marseythinkorino:

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Those teeth :marseywtf2:

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Most masculine ftm

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All of these people are just different shades of Chris Chan.

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Why does these bros all write like insufferable foids.

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:#marseywrongthonk:

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boywife (female)

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does that anger you johnny?

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Noone likes being referred to as Steven when wearing a wig

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He does not sound like a good partner to you

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