Redditors contemplate why they'll never be married

My question is very simple if a woman wants a guy with financial security is she responsible for house chores completely or the husband should help out?

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Majority of these "chores" are personal chores. Cleaning your surroundings, washing your dirty clothes, dirty plates, ironing, cleaning your potty. These are minimum expected things from a human being who has both arms and legs, and is what that separates us from animals. Cooking is also a personal chore. You are making food that goes into your stomach and then comes out the next day through your own butthole. There is nothing more personal than food, and cooking it should also be seen as a personal goal. Imo even cooking should be split according to personal goals, depending on time and availability.

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Literally what chore isn't personal under that definition bipoc? I have to walk the streets, guess sweeping them is also my personal chore.

hot take but arranged marriage itself is a social evil and I expect nothing better to come out of it than what you described, and more. the transactional nature of marriage which is prevalent in India means that families are more interested in the security (financial, social) they get out of the union than the couple actually celebrating their love by getting married. no wonder high salary/govt job/caste and other superficial criteria rule supreme. when marriage starts being seen as a culmination of years of mutual love, respect and partnership, only then will this scenario change.

Then we might finally have divorce rates like enlightened goras

Dude what the frick are you talking about. Dating is not going to clubs, wooing girls with fancy cars and bikes, giving her expensive gifts. You can always find people in your own league to date. The only barrier is your own personality (not physical attractiveness).

I don't agree with system of dowry at all and that is extremely problematic.However at the same time looking for financial stability is not gold digging. At the cost of sounding rude ...good heart is not going to provide life comforts or shelter over your head....financial stability does that. Again let me make my point clear I don't agree with dowry or marrying a douchbag for money....but I don't even agree to marry just for a so.called good heart

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People who ask for higher salary , home and govt job should be asked about girls weight , waist size and bust size . Seedhi baat no bakwaas .

My friend was asked her bust size by the prospective grooms mother. I know several guys who rejected based on figure… it’s all fair play in AM. It’s brutal.

Based mother.

Sadly arranged marraiges are toxic af. As a woman, I hate that I need to be fair, beautiful and have both parents alive, a married elder sibling, an independent house, tall, know how to cook and have a job to be a desirable mate in arranged marraiges too (this is what ive seen in karnataka. Might not be true elsewhere). Its toxic for all parties, men and women.

Kek why a married elder sibling? And how does the eldest child get married?

Weirdest shit I swear. You are less desirable if you don't have one parent. It's like why did they die? Is it bad luck? Did they have health issues?

Average marriage planner making Punnett squares to judge your potential offspring's health.

Coz brides are not allowed to study, work or inherit property.

This guy came here from an alternate universe send me there please god please please please