It is about time we gathered to decide what requirements and restrictions we should put on !incels membership (given the new influx of aspiring members)
Here are my thoughts:
Men only.
Virgin only, KHHV is too strict imo (I am KV btw, so full transparency).
No ping group farmers
Those in the !truecels ping group should be rejected
No gays allowed
No anti-incels
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Dude it is 2024 at this point. If I tried to do that I would get hit with the "apply on line" and I live in a suburban area with wealthy people. It isn't that easy here.
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This happened in 2019
and I live in the exact same sort of area
You're stopping yourself from trying. Just go volunteer somewhere, they won't turn you down for that. And you can put it on your resume
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I have tried the normal path over and over with nothing but failure to show for it. Even 2019 and now are a big difference. For example the hiring process is going to be 100 percent online at this point, covid ensured that. If I apply online I am instantly filtered. If I go in person I'm the r-slur who couldn't figure out to apply online. And even if, even if I make it over this massive hurdle, that doesn't guarantee I end up where I want. I could just end up a cog in the machine with nothing to show for it because even if I become employed is all that worth it just to get a chance at a life that still ultimately sucks?
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Which is why it makes sense to work at a charity where you can volunteer first and build a rapport before you actually try applying. If it's a small place (and it should be, so you don't get lost in the crowd) you definitely won't end up as a cog, because there will be too many different things that need doing.
If it sucks that much, you can just quit. I thought I would hate working but I love my job and I loved my previous job because I knew I was helping people. If I won the lottery I would go back to working there.
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I just hate being around people so much. The only exception is if it's an attractive woman. I unironically hate it so much otherwise, I don't see how you could be happy.
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Do you hate people, or do you hate strangers? Did you have friends in middle or high school or online? I hate being around strangers but quickly got to know the other volunteers (and now my coworkers) and I don't mind being around them. I consider most of them to be friends.
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It's not really hate. It's just that I don't get anything from it. I like being alone, and I can easily discuss things and get information online. It feels like other people basically make me r-slurred because I can't focus on things when other people around. I can know something very well but if others are around they wouldn't be able to tell because I would be unable to explain it. The only kind of companionship I need is the kind women provide.
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This is just being socially awkward. Online you can rewrite your comments until they don't sound r-slurred so you feel more comfortable posting. You get better at it irl if you practice.
And what about having friends? Did you never have any or what?
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I have had friends, the effort it takes to maintain a friendship is too much for me. Even online friendships are hard. A simple groomercord call sucks my energy dry.
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yeah. even working a job I hate and having money doesn't really make a difference for losers like us. I guess the only moments we will remember is this internet circlejerking because the truth is that you can't get a better life if you don't try to find one.
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I am still trying everyday. I haven't given up yet. But I am aware that the "normal" path is probably not going to work and that I will need to take drastic measures. I will likely need to acquire xanax and other drugs, as well as start spending time understanding psychology.
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well you might as well start doing something you actually enjoy rather than waiting for something which never comes.
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That was the first thing I did. I do have hobbies at least. As strange as some of them may be. And some odd part of me enjoys going against the odds. Even if I fail in the end at least I tried, and at least when I die the pain will end.
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