I saw someone on here saying people who've never actively sought out dates aren't incels. Is this true? How hard so you have to seek out relationships?
I've never asked anyone out before (modulo your definition of what 'asking someone out' means), but I'm also khhv and depressed because of it. Do I not could as an incel because of my own autism/cowardice?
How many girls do you have to ask about (on what is explicitly a date), then fail to enter a relationship (they say no, they say yes and ghost you, they say yes but it doesn't go anywhere, etc.) before you're an incel:
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It's not about number of times you do one thing, it's whether or not you are voluntarily doing anything to not be celibate. Most incels are volcels. Bitching online and making excuses doesn't count as doing something to not be celibate. You could go a bar, church, concert, or anywhere else with single women and eventually you will meet someone. Probably pretty fast. You could go online and probably set something up with a chick on reddit this week despite crippling autism if you can drive to a city. Getting your peepee wet is not hard. Wear a wedding ring you get for $5 off amazon and dress like you are successful somewhat and chicks will want to be homewreckers. Some dudes are super ugly and
but you can still do something to improve yourself and chicks will still frick you.
Just get an escort if all you care about is s*x. So much cheaper just to pay them to leave when you are done with them
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What counts as 'voluntarily doing anything to not be celibate'? If I do go to a bar or weekly gathering, do I have to be actively asking people out? Trying to be their friend? Is just being there enough?
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