Rice-cels absolutely seething at White Chads marrying Noodle-whores

It makes me sad to see so many AF date and marry WM.

I know it's not my business what people do in their personal life but it feels sad to see so many reject their own culture, especially among my own friends/ family. I had a friend that told me they preferred WM because they found them more attractive. If the reason is just physical attraction, it seems like a lot of it is due to media brainwashing. A lot of us grew up with mostly whites until college and probably consume a lot of western media. I didn't know many Asians until college and I felt such relief to be around my own people. I felt a closeness and security with my Asian friends that I never felt with my white friends. I finally appreciated Asian beauty in college (after feeling ugly my whole life) because I was finally exposed to Asian guys and my friends introduced me to Asian media.

Also, as I grow older, Asian guys just keep getting better looking and white guys just look really pale and old next to their Asian wives. A lot of the AF I know also married loser WM who don't work or can't get jobs. One of my cousins has to pay alimony to her loser ex-husband because he never worked. All the AF I know that married AM have good husbands that work hard and look good for their age. I don't understand the love for WM, especially if it's only about looks. They peak in their teens/ early 20s and then they age rapidly, balding by 30.

Ironically for me the girl I love living in Japan who is Chinese had many guys to choose from, white, asian, indian, etc... among her local and expat friends. Can you Guess which guy chose? out of all the people she chose an Asian American like myself except this guy was a more successful version of myself.

I have mixed feelings about it, it could have been much worse but at the end of the day someone else gets the girl anyway and the result is the same.

Everyone needs to de-personalize the situation with wm/af before looking seriously at this issue. I mean really even if the world were perfect and almost all asian females were with asian guys. This isn't going to change everything. At the end of the day women are women and most guys don't understand how they think and you will still have to compete with other guys in order to get her.