I've told him multiple times how I feel and he always says he'll put more effort into losing weight but as of right now he is the biggest he's ever been. I almost want to cry when I look at him. He's almost grotesque now. I cringe when he touches me. Kissing is hard because he can't help but breathe heavily and smother me. S*x is a nightmare.
I told him this morning that if he doesn't lose at least 50 lbs by the end of the year I'm filing for divorce. I don't think I'm great or anything but I at least deserve to be with a man I'm attracted to. He also deserves a woman who's attracted to him. Honestly, even if I never find anyone else and die alone, I think I'll be happier than I am now. It's torturous to be with someone you feel disgust looking at.
He was very hurt and called me shallow and selfish. I may be, but I don't think it's crazy to not be happy with someone who's knocking on death's door. At 6 ft 330 lbs he is in the danger zone. I met him at 280 lbs. I'm so fricking unhappy.
Was I wrong?
The dildo of consequences rarely arrives lubed so I have been led to believe.
I am stealing this.
I'm literally going back and checking out previous posts right now 😂😂
She's nuts, “he was holding hands with a woman that looks like me” is she the villain in a lifetime movie in 1995?
LMAO first thing I thought after reading this was “she needs therapy. And lots of it before she gets arrested for stalking”….. suffice it to say she should totally divorce or leave her partner because he would be better off.
Lifetime movie? You're giving OP too much credit, that is telenovela level bullshit.
True true! Her thinking her Adonis married a woman that looked like her on purpose is very telenovela, my Abuela would've eaten that shit up.
I hope he loses weight and that helps him finds someone that's not such a sad horrible person.
After some googling for reference, 330lb at 6ft isn't even that bad! Sure not super healthy but not the grotesque monster OP created in her post! The way she's described him is cruel and dramatically ott.
What? It's fricking huge
I was picturing mobility scooter, needs help to wash kinda huge, he's nowhere near that big.
mate anywhere outside the US that is extremely fat
I'm in the UK and have met and worked alongside plenty of people who are 20st +, it's really not that uncommon. I'm not advocating by any means as he is clearly unhealthy but 23st at 6ft is not horrendously obese.
He's a big boy for sure but at same time I have seen rugby forwards who are larger relative to size.
No it's not uncommon but most still consider it extremely fat. I wouldn't necessarily say ‘horrendously obese', but it's very unhealthy
Check the other posts she has. Its just a scumbag trying to find an excuse to leave her husband
Ok... She's married and in love with someone else... Yikes... The husband's definitely a problem though. But her motivation is questionable.
Have you actually seen her other post? She's absolutely an butthole. She's looking for validation from strangers so she can cheat or leave her husband with a clear conscience. She's obsessed with her toxic ex.
Yes somebody else mentioned that as well. She definitely has questionable motivation. I'm new to reddit so I didnt think she was malicious. But I can definitely see where she's coming from now. Pretty sad
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is this women on drugs or mentally challenged in some way? those stats are a BMI of 45. he's class 3 obese and at least 150 pounds from a healthy weight.
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What if he's a professional rugby player??? Hrm, I bet you feel pretty dumb now.
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Is there a space on the roster for a guy who just blocks 25% of the field without moving?
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330 would be pretty mad even for a rugby player, that's 20lbs over anyone in the New Zealand squad and he's 6'5
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This guy is 330 lbs 6ft
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If you aren't Rich Piana status, anything over about 220 at 6ft just looks fat. At that height I've been as high as 210 with an active lifestyle (muh beer lmao
) and that looks noticeably pudgy. Even 190 at 6ft is a heavier frame even if you are in shape.
330 is comically fat
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An adult male who lifts should be over 200lbs at 6' or they don't have enough muscle mass.
I bulked for 8 months and I'm aiming for 255lbs after my cut but I'm also 6'5”
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(this one fat fingered the keyboard)
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never divorced his fat slob of a husband.
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Maybe it's all
I'm going to invite her here.
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Facts
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wow that post history
I think she's a real person
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I sent her a link to this thread (with a url-shortener to avoid reddit filters) so I hope she'll come pay a visit.
She's either
An effective troll
A woman with a life worthy of /h/personal
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Frick the physical aspect. Not trying is unattractive. It doesn't matter if it's in looks or money, or even folding laundry. Don't take your wife for granted.
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as always, alliteration acts as an assault and attack against any arrangement authored; also, any artless author availing alliteration an aught: an anal assailant augured.
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So this is ragebait.
OOP posts about breaking up with her bf for incest in a previous post, is "limerant" over some other neighbor from her past and now has this ridiculous post.
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Yeah, I just messaged her/him/it. I'm going to see if they want to join here. We could use more good baiters.
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I don't think I've ever worked with someone over 280lbs/130kg, it absolutely is incredibly uncommon
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It's normal if you work on a farm.
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That's not that big though? https://heightline.com/20-heaviest-nfl-players-in-history-and-how-much-they-weigh/
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43 BMIs attacking their 109 BMI brethren (very common in the Amberlynn "community")
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My posts are demand-influenced. People feel the need to positively influence themselfes from others. The idiot is a part of the social system and as such has a vital part to play in society as he provides the chance for others to look down on him as he's doing such idiotic things. The internet has desensitised the general public. Someone whos erratically yelling things isn't as off-putting as it used to be when the village idiot was doing that job. People demand weird content that is crossing the boarders of social norms. People putting their bathroom usage on social media seem to be what people want to see. Actually, they are weird, much weirder than most of the other content here. As you can see, this content gets upmarseyd. You may not like it, but this content is satisfying the need for which people come to this subreddit.
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Your post history is public. Everyone can see that you're already pining for someone else. Do your husband a favor and be honest.:
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Also it takes a real trashy person to get on here talking about your husband like that when you're obsessed with another dude. May karma be ever creative when she visits you.:
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You're wrong for picking out your husbands “flaws” on the internet while you're posting under the same account how you're in love/limerence with somebody else. You're looking for excuses and/or reasons to blame your husband for what you're doing! YTA!:
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I hope he loses weight and that helps him finds someone that's not such a sad horrible person.:
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