Bigger guys- how do you make sure your tdick is clean

I am nearly a week on T and I can already feel my junk being a bit weird meaning growth is probably imminent. But the absolute horror stories of trans guys discovering smegma keeps me up at night fellas not gonna lie. I have stomach fat and FUPA in the way and no mirror so I have no idea how to make sure my junk is clean when I can't see what I'm doing please help I don't want cheese peen 😭

Edit: There's been several suggestions for a handheld mirror but I just don't have the dexterity required to hold a mirror, hold my fat out of the way, and clean my stuff all at once. Thank you though!

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>I am nearly a week on T and I can already feel my junk being a bit weird meaning growth is probably imminent. But the absolute horror stories of trans guys discovering smegma keeps me up at night fellas not gonna lie. I have stomach fat and FUPA in the way and no mirror so I have no idea how to make sure my junk is clean when I can't see what I'm doing please help I don't want cheese peen 😭

Don't sweat it brotha, a cheese peepee is a passing peepee!

>Edit: There's been several suggestions for a handheld mirror but I just don't have the dexterity required to hold a mirror, hold my fat out of the way, and clean my stuff all at once. Thank you though!

I was buying food for a party, so I had chips and sodas in my cart at the grocery store but some skinny lady didn't approve. She literally started taking things out of my cart telling me how I don't need all that fat and sugar. Like, right out of my cart, who does that?! I don't even like potato chips, fwiw.

Holy based. I think we have all been tempted to do that before

Being denied treatment of my eating disorder initially because I'm “too fat” for my diagnosis.

You don't need very expensive psychiatric treatment for a crash diet.

I lost about 50lbs and treated myself to a cute workout outfit. The very first time I went out for a jog, a pickup truck full of guys mooed at me, and then threw a milkshake on me. It was on of the most devastating, humiliating moments of my life.

Like for real, if that's the most devastating moo-ment of your life you have been very coddled

Was asked to say my weight/get on scales when selecting skis first time ever. Was embarrassed in front of a line of super fit buttholes.

I hope it was like a carnival where they try to guess the weight first

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This is really also a moid L since she apparently had a bodybuilder boyfriend

Had a really good business year and decided to treat myself to my most extravagant clothing wish ever — a pair of custom made vegan cowboy boots. Emailed the maker and said “hey I have wide calves is this a problem” and she said no, no problem at all, just send your measurements. Waited months to get the boots and couldn't get my calf in them. Measured them and they were a full inch smaller than my measurements. She apologized, said she'd fix it — shipped them back, waited another eight weeks, got them — still didn't fit over my calves. At this point I asked for a refund and she said no, no, just send them back and let me fix them. I did and they finally fit but I never wear them because they make me feel shitty. I can't look at them without feeling bad about my calves! I wish I'd just insisted on the refund.

How many cows were killed to make one pair of boots which fit her enormous cankles?

Not being able to fit In Texas Roadhouse booths. It traumatized me so much I literally refuse to sit at a booth now.

As a burger, I can let the leafs and europoors here know that this is a major feat given the size of an average chain restaurant patron

https://old.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/1b70t83/body_positivity_bias/

rant incoming

I find myself getting more and more frustrated about the kind of ‘plus size' or ‘curve appreciation' audios available. Why do all of them have exact same storyline: listener gets sad about her body bc of something, speaker gets shocked that she has insecurities, speaker generously reassures her that he does in fact like her, they frick. They are always always always some narrative about being “reassured” that you're attractive.

Now I understand that this is a big fantasy, it has been for me as well. But I find it really frustrating and kind of telling that this seems to be the only kind of story people want to tell about fricking fat women (that isn't straight up fetishistic). For one, I feel like this narrative makes it seem like finding fat women attractive is still a novelty or rare/unlikely, like the speaker is oh so special for wanting to frick you. Some audios reference the speaker experiencing really triggering fatphobic abuse up top, in a way that feels like overkill. Also, I think fat women should be allowed to feel desired all the time, not just when they're in a bad mood about feeling undesirable! If I want to listen to an audio where someone says they love my fat fricking butt, why does the audio always have to start with me crying bro???? It's giving “you're insecure, that's what makes you beautiful”…

Also, not to get too serious about audio porn, but I feel concerned that the popularity of this trope sends a bad message. I feel like it tells fat people that the only way to love/care is through victimhood: If I want someone to tell me I'm hot, I need to feel ugly (If I want someone to care for me, I need to be hurt).

Fat people are HOT and there are droves of people who are ready and willing to love, kiss, frick, worship, obsess over them. Fat people deserve to feel hot in ALL CONTEXTS. Not just when they're sad. Do better.

Fellow fat girlies, pls recommend audios you've liked. I would love to believe that I am wrong and have just seen the wrong selection of audios.

Fifteen fricking bakeries...15! All serving sweet shit like cannoli and cakes. How disgusting do have to be to eat that much sweet food?

Omad makes westerners so mad it's funny.

This gotta be one of the most disgusting things I have ever seen and what more disgusting is that he does this everywhere pic.twitter.com/uJvC5qWJqw

— ` (@nocapfelix) February 26, 2024

bros

So I was sitting in the middle then came black fat woman she pushed me with her fat to other side she took almost 3 sits

My real weight at time of post: 537 lbs

Her real weight at time of post: 292 lbs

https://imginn.com/p/C3ymTWaJP8_/

I swear it bothers me so much the fixation on being as tiny as possible these days. I saw a video of a girl on TikTok with a perfectly normal looking body saying she needed a breast reduction because her boobs were “too big and ruined her outfits.” The girl was a double d. I have boobs about that size and never once have I felt like my boobs were ugly, enormous, or ruined an outfit. Why are clothing designers and men so insistent on making women feel bad for having body types that a lot of women have that are perfectly normal? Why is there such an emphasis now on having a super tiny waist and small boobs? Not every woman is built that way and it's ridiculous how we're being made to feel bad about it.

Additional sneed about how she's “not fat” but still being told that she's too big to have people interested in her.

An anorexic hand to prove her point

They're easy to manipulate, kidnap, harm and dominate. I'm 5ft11 with a wide and solid build and I struggled with feeling inadequate and big for long before I realized that this makes me special and also is an advantage in this predatory world.

Fatphobia (which started as an extension of racism) and misogyny. It would be naive of me to state men don't also face fatphobia, because they do. But I think the added pressure women have around it is due to misogyny. Society has decided being fat is bad.

Men want women to be small and weak. Notice the discomfort they feel when they see assertive and/or muscular women. Many of them see this as a threat. Plus pedophilia.

I've always felt like it was the most literal manifestation of how men don't want women to take up space in any meaningful way. If we are big enough to take up physical space it's only so that we can titillate them sexually.