She couldnt put the seatbelt on and just hid that fact under her bag rather than ask for a seatbelt extender

https://x.com/phaithmontoya/status/1761576514645000534

So the lowest I got four months ago when I was being really disciplined about my diet was 193 and then I went up and stayed up for four months but I'm finally getting disciplined about my diet again (all credit to God) and managed to burn off all the weight I've gained and finally set a new low today so I wanted to celebrate that.

Also I am officially updating my goal weight from 180 to 160 because why have a goal weight that's still an overweight BMI? Why come all this way and not get to normal?

Edit: my last thread where I hit 196 was 8 days ago so that's 4 pounds in 8 days!

Join me in taking a stand against effort posting.

https://old.reddit.com/r/HomeImprovement/comments/1avy3fv/really_confused_about_whats_wrong_with_my_shower/

Basically the entire washroom has tile floors and walls. It has a drain in the middle of the floor of the washroom.

In addition to this, there is a shower stall with a white bottom that is raised from the rest of the washroom tile floor. There is a drain within the shower stall as well.

Problem is the white floor of the shower stall has cracked, and water seems to flow out of the side of the outside of the shower stall. It also smells like mold. I am assuming there is moisture getting trapped underneath.

I tried duct taping the cracks and the problem is continuing, so somehow water is getting out from the shower stall drain. Also a bunch of gross stuff is coming out that seems like the colour of wood pulp? Maybe it's tiny bits of mold or fiberglass, I have no idea.

My question is, can i somehow replace this shower stall with one that doesn't have a bottom, and just use the bathroom tile as the floor?

Not sure what exactly is going wrong here. I'm worried about it cracking again since my bf weighs a LOT.

In addition, the last few days since duct taping the cracks, it began to smell very sharp in the bathroom exactly like vomit.

https://old.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1agtf2l/my_26f_boyfriend_27m_always_looks_atchecks/

Not sure if I'm overreacting but any time we're outside he always checks out girls that are 16-18 at most.

It makes me feel awful and incredibly insecure. Also the photos he saves on his phone of women are from that age range as well.

I tried pointing it out but he just denies it and I'm starting to think I'm just too sensitive. Does anyone have advice?

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— I,Hypocrite (@lporiginalg) February 20, 2024

They have a really good allegory here where they say if the aquarium is dirty you clean the aquarium you don't drug the fish

He goes on to say things like we have massive subsidies for unhealthy food and 10 billion dollars a year goes from the federal treasury to soda companies through the food stamp program

Long story short, my husband is obese. He always was to be fair, but now he's obese-obese. He looks horrible and I feel zero attraction to him.

I've told him multiple times how I feel and he always says he'll put more effort into losing weight but as of right now he is the biggest he's ever been. I almost want to cry when I look at him. He's almost grotesque now. I cringe when he touches me. Kissing is hard because he can't help but breathe heavily and smother me. S*x is a nightmare.

I told him this morning that if he doesn't lose at least 50 lbs by the end of the year I'm filing for divorce. I don't think I'm great or anything but I at least deserve to be with a man I'm attracted to. He also deserves a woman who's attracted to him. Honestly, even if I never find anyone else and die alone, I think I'll be happier than I am now. It's torturous to be with someone you feel disgust looking at.

He was very hurt and called me shallow and selfish. I may be, but I don't think it's crazy to not be happy with someone who's knocking on death's door. At 6 ft 330 lbs he is in the danger zone. I met him at 280 lbs. I'm so fricking unhappy.

Was I wrong?

Your post history is public. Everyone can see that you're already pining for someone else. Do your husband a favor and be honest.

Also it takes a real trashy person to get on here talking about your husband like that when you're obsessed with another dude. May karma be ever creative when she visits you.

The dildo of consequences rarely arrives lubed so I have been led to believe.

I am stealing this.

You're wrong for picking out your husbands “flaws” on the internet while you're posting under the same account how you're in love/limerence with somebody else. You're looking for excuses and/or reasons to blame your husband for what you're doing! YTA!

I'm literally going back and checking out previous posts right now 😂😂

She's nuts, “he was holding hands with a woman that looks like me” is she the villain in a lifetime movie in 1995?

LMAO first thing I thought after reading this was “she needs therapy. And lots of it before she gets arrested for stalking”….. suffice it to say she should totally divorce or leave her partner because he would be better off.

Lifetime movie? You're giving OP too much credit, that is telenovela level bullshit.

True true! Her thinking her Adonis married a woman that looked like her on purpose is very telenovela, my Abuela would've eaten that shit up.

I hope he loses weight and that helps him finds someone that's not such a sad horrible person.

After some googling for reference, 330lb at 6ft isn't even that bad! Sure not super healthy but not the grotesque monster OP created in her post! The way she's described him is cruel and dramatically ott.

What? It's fricking huge

I was picturing mobility scooter, needs help to wash kinda huge, he's nowhere near that big.

mate anywhere outside the US that is extremely fat

I'm in the UK and have met and worked alongside plenty of people who are 20st +, it's really not that uncommon. I'm not advocating by any means as he is clearly unhealthy but 23st at 6ft is not horrendously obese.

He's a big boy for sure but at same time I have seen rugby forwards who are larger relative to size.

No it's not uncommon but most still consider it extremely fat. I wouldn't necessarily say ‘horrendously obese', but it's very unhealthy

People act like YTA talking about him like this isn't an anonymous platform. That's how she feels people. She's being honest and yall are getting in your feelings. NTA for wanting to be attracted to your spouse. You might wanna find out why he's gaining. He may need a therapist or docto

Check the other posts she has. Its just a scumbag trying to find an excuse to leave her husband

Ok... She's married and in love with someone else... Yikes... The husband's definitely a problem though. But her motivation is questionable.

Have you actually seen her other post? She's absolutely an butthole. She's looking for validation from strangers so she can cheat or leave her husband with a clear conscience. She's obsessed with her toxic ex.

Yes somebody else mentioned that as well. She definitely has questionable motivation. I'm new to reddit so I didnt think she was malicious. But I can definitely see where she's coming from now. Pretty sad

I had three healthy pregnancies during my late twenties/early thirties. I was completely sober, I ate nutritious food, exercised, tried to eliminate stress, and delivered three beautiful babies. Despite trying to be as careful as I've ever been in my life about what I put in my body, I gained a lot of weight during those years of pregnancy/breast feeding/staying home to raise babies. I then fell into the "wine mom" trap. I ended up drinking to cope with anxiety and depression, which never really worked, and piled the pounds on even more. When my youngest started school, I was determined to focus on losing the weight and cutting back on alcohol. I started off by going to my doctor and having blood work done. She discovered I was pre-diabetic, she prescribed Metformin, and really helped me as far as being supportive and understanding. I did OMAD (a huge salad around noon) but continued preparing meals my husband and kids enjoy. I started moving more. The more weight I lost, the more I felt like exercising and eating right. Over the course of two years, I lost between sixty five and seventy pounds, and I've maintained that weight loss. I look better and I feel better, both physically and mentally. My husband can't keep his hands off me, and I love it! I can be more active with my kids. I can wear real clothes instead of stretch pants and baggy tops. I don't have to drink in excess to feel capable of getting through my evening routine.

Problem is, my two closest girl friends have all but completely ghosted me, and last week I found out my sister-in-laws have started a rumor that I accomplished this by using methamphetamine. It is the most hurtful, disgusting thing to me. I prioritized my children for many years before taking the time and effort it required to drop an enormous amount of weight, and the other women in my life, who I loved, who should have understood how badly I needed to do this for myself and my kids, have turned on me. Out of what...jealousy? Or did they just never care about me in the first darn place? These are the women who threw my baby showers, attended by children's christenings and birthday parties, that I eat Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner with every year! Its making me question so many things about the relationships that I thought made up my life. I'm so sad that they hate me for something they should have been proud of me for. I don't know if I should call them out on their behavior, or just try to forget about them.

This is why I prefer trans women