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911roofer he/him Always a wallflower, never a wall 7mo ago (reddit.com) 627 thread views #259419

Wife stopped putting out

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bxbuov/i_would_not_have_married_my_40m_wife_40f_if_i_had/

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SaharaForceIndia77 they/them 7mo ago #6226244

So maybe, instead:

"This marriage is so, so important to me. But I really need to feel sexually desired. Please help me figure out how we can better connect sexually. I miss that feeling with you so much. What can we do, as a couple, to work on this? It would mean so much to me if you'd try with me."

Like, centering the love and commitment, without minimising how much you want to change this?

These sorts of lines sound like a joke when it's workplace advice from askamanager, let alone about talking to your wife.

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arseupwrongo lors/lara bark brölölö SaharaForceIndia77 7mo ago #6226313

That's such a bad way to ask too. She'll respond with some emotional but substanceless bullshit and maybe you'll get a single night of pity s*x before it reverts back to how it was.

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Allende trussy/rate arseupwrongo 7mo ago #6226331

That's such a bad way to ask too. She'll respond with some emotional but substanceless bullshit

That is any discussion with a woman.

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arseupwrongo lors/lara bark brölölö Allende 7mo ago #6226350

Women assume by default that you just wanna vent some bad emotions and then you're done. Then when it's over you realise that nothing actually got solved at all. You need to make it clear that there's a real problem that will have real consequences if it's not addressed.