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911roofer he/him Always a Wallflower, never a Wall  28d ago (reddit.com) 513 thread views #259419

Wife stopped putting out

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So maybe, instead:

"This marriage is so, so important to me. But I really need to feel sexually desired. Please help me figure out how we can better connect sexually. I miss that feeling with you so much. What can we do, as a couple, to work on this? It would mean so much to me if you'd try with me."

Like, centering the love and commitment, without minimising how much you want to change this?

These sorts of lines sound like a joke when it's workplace advice from askamanager, let alone about talking to your wife.

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That's such a bad way to ask too. She'll respond with some emotional but substanceless bullshit and maybe you'll get a single night of pity s*x before it reverts back to how it was.

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That's such a bad way to ask too. She'll respond with some emotional but substanceless bullshit

That is any discussion with a woman.

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Women assume by default that you just wanna vent some bad emotions and then you're done. Then when it's over you realise that nothing actually got solved at all. You need to make it clear that there's a real problem that will have real consequences if it's not addressed.

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ur right he should give an ultimatum

:chad!: gib s*x b-word or I'll cheat on you.

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nonironically

like you don't need to be a peepee for no reason but it must be made known that it's not a negotiable thing

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You can talk to her about your needs being met, if you tell her that you wouldn't have married her if you knew this would happen, there is no coming back from that.

It's HOW you have this conversation that will make it a useful conversation with maybe a chance at moving forward, or destroy any chance of it being useful.

>men need to communicate more
>also lie to us if you're going to do it

While many women are responsive desire compared to most men having spontaneous desire, there are often other contributing factors to why women aren't initiating and/or are rejecting s*x. For example….hormones, pain from childbirth, birth control, antidepressants, exhaustion from parenting, a partner who is doing/not doing things that make them unfrickable.

Women have no idea about how their own sexuality works. Women use sexuality in order to stabilise a relationship and then switch it off when it's stable. You just need to be assertive and make it known that you could leave her any time if you so choose and suddenly she'll become a sexual initiator again.

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Disagree on the leave her bit, women brains have the caveman ooga booga and once you realize that it becomes a lot easier. Provided your wife isn't a :marseychonkerfoid: doing stuff like picking her up over your head, flipping her with ease and general shows of strength will turn her on.

Another good thing to do is stand up to her, if a girl is being ridiculous or unreasonable just say no. Standing up to ridiculous foid requests will get you far

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i will add: calling her mean names, getting drunk and hitting her, all good ways of turning her on :marseytroll:

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I'd say they're still activating that same area of the brain. You're doing things that make her feel like she's not entirely in control and thus less secure.

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>My wife doesn't want my stinky peepee. How can I emotionally blackmail her so she pretends to want it?

:marseymoidmomenttalking: !moidmoment

I have not gotten fat, Im 40 though, so it's not Like I am athletic anymore. And when I was athletic this situation was present, but went unnoticed.

:marseyobesescaletalking#:

Granted- I am going to watch my 600 lb life while eating a whole bag of Cheetos and not feel guilty about it for once!

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17146493335425022.webp In the grizzly darkness of the far future, there is only moid seethe.

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Im 40 though, so it's not Like I am athletic anymore

lol is 40 too old to exercise for redditors

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Redditors start falling apart when they hit 30, after that everything hurts all the time according to them.

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Yep! My hubs and I are now morning sexers

:#marseytrollgun:

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>hubs

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17125133610732696.webp

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obvious bait to

a) make heavily woman userbase of that sub mad

b) to use as a comparison with similar posts when OP is a woman and get completely different answers

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https://media.giphy.com/media/gpaSbqXBpou9NTwiml/giphy.webp

!slots106

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!slots1000

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!slots100

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:#funkykongdrunk:

Snapshots:

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bxbuov/i_would_not_have_married_my_40m_wife_40f_if_i_had/?sort=controversial:

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Gonna hang out with the bros. See ya, babe!

:#funkykongdrunktalking:

Sounds like an easy solution to me. :marseycitrusshrug:

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Posts like this are the only reason I might accept that I experience same s*x attraction

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