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911roofer he/him Always a wallflower, never a wall 7mo ago (reddit.com) 627 thread views #259419

Wife stopped putting out

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bxbuov/i_would_not_have_married_my_40m_wife_40f_if_i_had/

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arseupwrongo lors/lara bark brölölö 7mo ago #6226198

You can talk to her about your needs being met, if you tell her that you wouldn't have married her if you knew this would happen, there is no coming back from that.

It's HOW you have this conversation that will make it a useful conversation with maybe a chance at moving forward, or destroy any chance of it being useful.

>men need to communicate more
>also lie to us if you're going to do it

While many women are responsive desire compared to most men having spontaneous desire, there are often other contributing factors to why women aren't initiating and/or are rejecting s*x. For example….hormones, pain from childbirth, birth control, antidepressants, exhaustion from parenting, a partner who is doing/not doing things that make them unfrickable.

Women have no idea about how their own sexuality works. Women use sexuality in order to stabilise a relationship and then switch it off when it's stable. You just need to be assertive and make it known that you could leave her any time if you so choose and suddenly she'll become a sexual initiator again.

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Patriarch-ristmas Land/lord Patriarch of Dramastan arseupwrongo 7mo ago #6226325

Disagree on the leave her bit, women brains have the caveman ooga booga and once you realize that it becomes a lot easier. Provided your wife isn't a :marseychonkerfoid: doing stuff like picking her up over your head, flipping her with ease and general shows of strength will turn her on.

Another good thing to do is stand up to her, if a girl is being ridiculous or unreasonable just say no. Standing up to ridiculous foid requests will get you far

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arseupwrongo lors/lara bark brölölö Patriarch-ristmas 7mo ago #6226336

I'd say they're still activating that same area of the brain. You're doing things that make her feel like she's not entirely in control and thus less secure.