Actual womxn: I wish more young men realised that many (if not most) women don't give a frick about whether or not they "look masculine" or "act masculine"

Women hate men who put on a forced, see-through façade of masculinity but they also hate effeminate men

This person, who I am assuming is , posts in /r/gifted

I went to see a therapist specialised in giftedness a few weeks ago because I identified with a lot of the issues they have too. I'm 20 - I was a smart child but never got tested because my parents didn't see the need for it; until my mother brought up maybe half a year ago that I'm probably gifted I never even considered it, but then when I started reading books about it some things kind of "fell into place" and it explained several issues I had.

After the intake conversation with the therapist she told me it was very likely that I was gifted and that my profile was textbook. I asked her if I had to take an IQ test then, to make sure, but she said it wasn't really necessary because it won't change anything; I still have the same issues and I have to solve them either way, and knowing my IQ won't change anything about that. Honestly, I was quite relieved, because if I knew my IQ, I would probably obsess over it for the rest of my life! I really, really don't want to know!

I don't call myself gifted, especially not in front of other people, but I do read a lot about it because I can really relate to it and it helps to know about the solutions those scientists or whatever offer to the issues. That's why I sometimes check out this sub too. It's just nice to read about people experiencing the same thing you are, and you're not a big faker or something for reading it and relating to it.

lmao

https://old.reddit.com/r/Gifted/comments/16ckvil/deleted_by_user/

She's also VERY talented in basically everything. Reminds me of a certain xomeone

I say "artists" but I mean everyone who is doing something creative. Writers or painters or musicians, ...

I'm asking because I probably could've done anything if I only wanted to. At 18, I started studying something that would make me a lot of money, but I soon found out that I was missing all the history/humanities/language/art things I had to study in high school, and I "felt my soul dying" without those.

I study literature now. It's just as easy as the economy thing I did. I think I maybe want to write because I'm good at it - I'd like to be an artist but can't really paint or draw. I just have this need to express myself creatively I guess. And I thought doing that next to having a normal job would be enough, but it really wasn't. I need to LIVE it. Not having enough time for art made me depressed. (Sometimes I feel I still don't have enough freedom in this course, and I think about quitting uni altogether. That would probably be stupid.)

It's absurd because I have this gift for maths and everyone thought I'd do something with that, because it was so effortless for me. But I was good at playing music too. And language/spelling. Latin. Ironically, the only things that I wasn't good at (AKA as good as my classmates) were drawing and English. I'm studying English now. I NEVER do maths anymore, and sometimes it hurts that I'm forgetting things like formulas after being so good at it. But on the other hand I know that I would feel empty if I dedicated more time to it. Like I'm doomed to waste this "potential".

Sometimes I'm scared I'll grow up and realise that being a writer or artist is impossible and that the "lack of money" isn't worth it, and will in fact lower my quality of life.

What's your story?

https://old.reddit.com/r/Gifted/comments/185fjqf/comment/kb1l425/?context=8

In my personal opinion the hottest men are actually those women cosplaying as anime boys. Lmao 🤣. They look so clean and well groomed.

Sorry foids. This is real life. The homosexual gets the femboy

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1crbzyk/men_should_stop_asking_women_for_advice/

My foid is like this. When I had my midlife crisis I was worried I wasn't masculine enough and she just said she couldn't possibly give less of a peepee about that.

But she does care about muscles so I doubled down on lifting

There's a few of my friends I see occasionally where I do subtly check their biceps - they have long term health issues and so it's an easy way of knowing if they are doing relatively OK without it looking like I am doing so. Apart from that, I generally don't notice unless it's something really extreme.

Women, how many of you regularly check your friends for bicep-related diseases?

It's a paradox. Worrying about how masculine you appear is vanity and vanity is feminine. Like, shit, if I want to sip wine in a bubble bath that's what I'm gonna do, cause I'm a man and I do what I want. Foids seek validation through the acceptance of the external world. The true ascendant moid makes the world bend to his internal will

There was a post here on reddit the other day asking if it's too feminine for a man to go to a concert for a band with a female singer/front-person. Lol. It's so pathetic

If you tell a chick that's slightly into you that you enjoyed an Adele or Florence and the Machine concert that you weren't dragged to by another woman, you can actually feel the moisture get sucked out of the air as her kitty immediately dries up.

Foids are so used to being able to find partners just by possessing a kitty that they seem to forget that men don't have that luxury, even as they whine about how abundant mediocre peepee is.

They'll compile pages and pages of what gives them the ick with their fellow foids and then act surprised when lonely men actively try to minimize what they do that might give them the ick.

sub promotes male feminity

The ones I met who didn't care usually had bad experiences with men before.

Moid dating advice is much better than foid dating advice but still 99% of moid dating advice is just cope for having an ugly face and being uninteresting/weird.

Foid dating advice is “the guy I already am attracted to should marry me”

You're totally right, thanks for explaining so clearly. But alas, the amount of people on here who are unable to follow this logic is baffling. It's pretty basic empathy. But no, everyone wants to have a person to hate. A person to point their stinky gnarled fingers at so they can say “At least I'm better than you!” in some pathetic attempt to justify their own failures and misery.

Very funny coming from a twoxer

My LiVeD eXpErIeNcE dictates otherwise

>Yep. I see the male grooming and male fashion advice Reddits and they are way more concerned with what "the boys" think than what women think. It's kinda funny cause dudes think everything is "gay" except for asking other dudes if they're pretty enough 🤨

Men are super pathetic

Entire threads and nobody mentioned height

Snapshots:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d2mzs4/i_wish_more_young_men_realised_that_many_if_not/?sort=controversial:

• undelete.pullpush.io

• ghostarchive.org

• archive.org

• archive.ph (click to archive)