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asshole there/then (>^.^(>O.○)>  3mo ago (reddit.com) 762 thread views #291995

I am SO TIRED :tiredfemjak: of the dating culture :marseycosmopolitan:these days. Rant + Advice : TwoXChromosomes

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eq0rkz/i_am_so_tired_of_the_dating_culture_these_days/ 

								

								

									
									
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So they are literally friends with benefits and she does not want a long term relationship but is mad they he isn't focusing solely on her despite her not wanting a long term relationship?  I don't blame the guy in that situation there's no reason to invest in that relationship at the end of the day.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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But the thing is she clearly does want a long term relationship, she's just coping so she doesn't have to accept that he has all the power in their relationship

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I was also telling him how insane the idea of really long situationships was to me because it just feels uncertain and awful.
Yeah I read that part wrong and thought she said relationship instead of "situationship".  I realize that she does not like the idea of friends with benefits being all they have and she wants to actually be with him.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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