Just as it's unfair that men can reproduce longer than women, here's something else that's unfair: women simply don't crave sex and relationships as much as men do. For many men, their love rival isn't Chad--it's a happy life alone. Link in replies. pic.twitter.com/T4ORU3ki3Z
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Of course, plenty of men will say—either directly or indirectly—that the solution to all our problems (read: their problems) is to somehow "return" to a time when women couldn't earn their own incomes, and thus, were forced to settle. This is the reason they didn't freak out about porn so much until Onlyfans came around—they will reliably seethe over an Onlyfans model being able to buy a luxury car as a result of s*x work, but don't seem bothered by the luxurious life of porn producers, or Andrew Tate's sprawling and dimly-lit man cave. These men might mask their agenda with concern for birth rates or veneration of homeschool moms, but a lot of it is just about maximizing their own sexual options, or the sexual options of the men who listen to them. It's the male version of decreeing that any forty-year-old man who dates a twenty-five-year-old woman is a libertarian.
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Amusingly CHH seems to be backtracking a bit today:
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Is this a backtrack? She's just agreeing that "be a decent person, you scum!" isn't actually useful advice. Being interesting/attractive isn't the same thing as being "nice".
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That's why I said "a bit". Both you and she seemed pretty hung up on the idea that all the lonely men are misogynists who deserve to be lonely yesterday. https://rdrama.net/h/femaledatingstrategy/post/349060/average-men-dont-have-the-cards/7914145#context
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no, no - you misunderstand! It's not the lonely men who are misogynists (well, I mean, some of them are) but it's the ones who are all over twitter and rdrama like, "Those women who say they're happy to be single are obviously lying, they're all sad SSRI-addicted postwall alcoholics"
It's like the mirror of the women who freak out about sexbots: there's a lot of men who are viscerally threatened by the idea that women don't need their peepee.
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