She picked a real winner with this one

Sexpats are expatriates who move to foreign countries primarily for sexual tourism or to engage in romantic relationships with local residents. They are often drawn to the perceived exoticism, lower sexual consent age, and less stringent laws in their destination countries. Sexpats typically focus on countries in Southeast Asia, Latin America, and Eastern Europe, where they believe they can find more permissive societies and more accessible partners.

Passport Bros, on the other hand, are a group of individuals who seek to acquire multiple passports and citizenships to enhance their global mobility, freedom, and financial opportunities. They are often digital nomads, entrepreneurs, or investors who take advantage of various citizenship by investment programs, residency by investment schemes, or ancestry-based citizenship options. Passport Bros are motivated by the desire to optimize their tax obligations, access better business opportunities, and enjoy a higher quality of life in various countries around the world.

Passport Bros may be interested in moving to a country where their values align with that of the society, including attitudes towards gender roles and women's behavior.

!moidmoment

She did the Helen keller and talked with her hips. With another man.

Dear Prudence,

I am a straight man in a marriage with a wonderful woman whom I love dearly. I would never dream of being unfaithful, either physically or emotionally. However, she has discovered my secret.

I sometimes write gay erotica anonymously on the internet. It is complete fiction and just something I do for fun and to blow off steam, and because for some reason I find it very fascinating (my stories are really focused more on the cerebral/power balance dynamic and less on the physical acts). My wife is extremely hurt and convinced that I am writing about actual experiences I have had or am currently having. I feel awful that she is believing the worst, and I don't know how to make her understand. What should I do?

—Speed Kills

Dear Speed Kills,

You have to start by explaining why you kept this hobby a secret. I mean, really think about it, maybe even write down some notes for yourself over a period of days and weeks, and bring her a full and thoughtful explanation. Whatever you express needs to be more compelling than her assumption, which is "Because it's an expression of a secret life." And it sounds like you can come up with a meaningful narrative about how you got here, while being totally honest. I'm sure there may be many factors contributing to your choice to keep your writing private. Perhaps these include things like your keen awareness of society's homophobia, a history of being made fun or criticized for interests or behaviors that fall outside the norm, a deep fear of being rejected or misunderstood, the thrill of having a secret, a preference for avoiding hard conversations, or maybe even some of your own (unnecessary, but real) shame and embarrassment. Perhaps you're generally conflict-avoidant. And if you simply were being a bit lazy by avoiding a conversation that you knew would take a lot out of you, own that, too!

Whatever you say, the more reflective and detailed and raw you can be, the better. It will also help to reassure her that her concerns aren't unreasonable or invalid, and that if you stumbled upon her secret body of work about something that sounded like it could be her fantasy life, you'd have concerns too! Acknowledge that it is unusual to keep an entire hobby from a spouse, and be clear that, while the writing itself was not wrong or bad, you did set yourself up for this scrutiny. Ask her what she might need to rebuild trust. If she can't come up with anything, offer couples counseling and a lot of patience, and the willingness to answer all of her questions multiple times as she continues to process everything.

IMPD: Uber driver admits to raping, killing Indy woman before dumping her body

INDIANAPOLIS — Police say an Uber driver recently arrested in the death of Chanti Dixon admitted he r*ped, shot and killed the woman after picking her up from work Sunday morning.

Francisco Valadez, 29, was arrested Tuesday morning by IMPD homicide detectives and preliminarily charged with murder.

Valadez reportedly admitted to police that he shot and killed the 30-year-old Dixon in a fit of rage after picking her up as an Uber driver and attempting to r*pe her in the back of his car. He then said he dumped her body in an alleyway in a wooded area near the victim's home.

"This is just disgusting all around and it did not have to happen," said IMPD chief Chris Bailey.

Court documents filed Tuesday in Marion County Court detail how officers were called around 1 p.m. Monday to the 1800 block of Wagner Lane after a woman's body was found in a nearby wooded area. IMPD arrived to find a woman naked, unresponsive and lying on her stomach.

The victim's family said they tracked her phone to the woods behind her home where they found her body and called police.

The woman – later identified by the Marion County Coroner's Office as Dixon – was pronounced dead on scene. After the crime scene was processed for evidence, it was discovered that Dixon had suffered a gunshot wound to the left side of her head.

Chanti Dixon/Photo provided by family

A woman near the scene told police that the dead woman was her daughter who had been missing since early Sunday morning. The woman told officers her daughter had gotten off work around 3:30 a.m. and ordered an Uber to get home. No one had talked to her since.

IMPD crews reportedly found two cell phones in the wooded area near Dixon's body. Both phones were identified as belonging to Dixon. The victim's mother gave police the passcodes for both phones, which would eventually lead them to Valadez.

Investigation into Valadez

Once back at the homicide office, detectives found that Dixon had ordered an Uber at 3:34 a.m. from the 2300 block of W. 16th Street. She reportedly made one stop along Washington Street in the Uber before being taken in the same car to her home address on Earhart Street.

According to data stored in the Uber app, Dixon's driver drove a BMW with an Indiana license plate. Detectives searched further into the driver and identified him as Valadez, coming up with an address on Aristocrat Circle.

Detectives then went to Valadez's home and began questioning him about Dixon. He told police that he did pick up Dixon on Sunday but then began to tell a story of how an armed Black man came up to his car and tried to rob Dixon.

"[Valadez] added that the suspect shot [Dixon] in the thigh and that she kicked herself out of his car and he fled the scene," police wrote. "He also said that he had cleaned the blood out of his car."

Police also reportedly spoke with Valadez's mother, who told them that her son owned a gun that he regularly carries. She added that he had recently cleaned out his car and that the items were still inside. After seizing the items for evidence, police took Valadez in for interrogation.

Admission and arrest

Detectives took Valadez to the IMPD homicide office where he was reportedly read his Miranda Rights and signed a waiver agreeing to speak with police.

After telling several stories about what happened to Dixon, Valadez reportedly admitted what actually happened.

"Mr. Valadez told two different stories as to what happened with Ms. Dixon," police wrote.

Detectives said Valadez admitted to raping the woman in the back of his car. While raping the woman, Valadez said she insulted his body. This reportedly caused him to become enraged and shoot Dixon in the head.

Valadez told police that after the shooting, he drug Dixon out of his car and placed her lifeless body behind a concrete barrier at the dead end of Wagner Lane. The Uber driver also admitted to trying to have s*x with Dixon's dead body, police said.

The dead end of Wagner Lane where Dixon was found (via IMPD)

Valadez was then taken into custody by IMPD and later booked into the Marion County Jail on a felony murder charge. IMPD officials said Tuesday that more charges can be expected in the case. An initial court hearing has not yet been scheduled in his case.

'Disgusting, disturbing': IMPD reaction

Indianapolis police officials held a news conference Tuesday afternoon discussing Dixon's murder and the arrest of Valadez.

"This is disgusting, it's disturbing," IMPD Chief Chris Bailey said during the conference. "No one deserves to be treated this way in our community and I am so sorry to her family that we're here today."

Bailey then touched on the effect this has on the victim's family.

"This is a family that's been ripped apart," he said. "This woman is gone from the world unnecessarily by an evil act, and I'm glad that we were able to find this individual as quickly as we did so that he didn't have an opportunity to perpetuate violence further in our community."

IMPD's social media accounts posted a photo of a gun seized in relation to the case, shown below.

Gun seized in Dixon murder case (via IMPD)

Bailey indicated that more charges were forthcoming in the case and stressed that the Marion County Prosecutor's Office would make the final charging decision.

"Women, girls, mothers…they have a right to exist freely in our community without fear of something heinous happening to them," said IMPD Assistant Chief Catherine Cummings. "They have a right to walk, bike, order a rideshare without fearing something bad will happen to them."

While they insist the murder is an isolated incident, IMPD said ride-share users can always share their location with friends and family and that women should trust their instincts if things feel dangerous.

"Rideshares continue to be an excellent and safe option to use when you're out in our community," said Cummings. "This is a family's worst nightmare. We're disgusted by these allegations."

Bailey said IMPD wants to know if Indy residents have had other suspicious interactions with Valadez as a rideshare driver or in any other capacity. He urged people to contact the IMPD Homicide Office at (317) 327-3475. To remain anonymous, call Crime Stoppers at (317) 262-TIPS.

In a statement sent to FOX59/CBS4 on Tuesday, an Uber spokesperson confirmed that Valadez has been banned as a driver from the Uber platform.

"Our hearts break for Ms. Dixon's family and loved ones in the midst of this tragedy," Uber said. "The details of this act of violence are atrocious and we will assist Indianapolis police however we can as they continue to investigate."

Uber went on to say that the company is deeply committed to safety and has invested heavily in making its platform safer for customers. These safety measures include hiring teams of law enforcement pros around the globe and adding an emergency button for in-app users, Uber said.

In addition to adding the emergency button feature, Uber also said that users have the option to record audio during their trip to ensure safety, can share their trip information with family or friends and can seek "live help" from a safety agent in the app.

https://fox59.com/news/indycrime/impd-uber-driver-admits-to-raping-killing-indy-woman-before-dumping-her-body-in-an-alleyway/

Which isnt to be confused with Scaphism, aka the final solution for the scrote problem

https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scaphism

also this is fricking totally not another indicator of the fricking crazy inflation lately

In what world does the fricking Bachelorette herwelf have to do the fricking proposing, b-word? The fricking same one where the fricking sigma scrote whe proposed to dumps her before the fricking finale. Then the fricking producers totally mogged her at the fricking finale

!moidmoment er, moidalmost-a-decade

A husband who allegedly drugged his wife and invited more than 80 strangers to r*pe her at their home for almost a decade went on trial on Monday in a case that has shocked France.

Fifty men accused of taking part in the abuse of the woman are also on trial at the court in Avignon. More than a dozen feminists dressed in black protested outside the courthouse as the trial opened.

Police say Dominique Pélicot crushed sleeping tablets and anti-anxiety medication and mixed it into his wife Gisèle's evening meal or in her wine at their home in Mazan, near Carpentras in Provence. The father of three recruited men to r*pe and sexually abuse her from a online chatroom, where members fantasised about performing sexual acts on non-consenting partners.

The presiding judge, Roger Arata, announced that all hearings would be public, granting Gisèle Pélicot her wish for "complete publicity until the end" of the court case, according to one of her lawyers, Stéphane Babonneau.

The trial would nonetheless be "a horrible ordeal" for her, said another of her lawyers, Antoine Camus.

"For the first time, she will have to live through the r*pes that she endured over 10 years," he told Agence France-Presse, adding that his client had "no recollection" of the abuse that she discovered only in 2020.

Gisèle Pélicot, who arrived at the court supported by her three children, did not want a trial behind closed doors because "that's what her attackers would have wanted", Camus said.

>did not want a trial behind closed doors because "that's what her attackers would have wanted"

/u/Aresisadick stop being a kitty. No woman wants to be with a weak butt kitty moid.

dont tell her she dropped something tho

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1b4bo45/you_dropped_something_harassment/

additional reading:

Why fewer young scrotes are choosing to pursue college degrees

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/why-fewer-young-men-are-choosing-to-pursue-college-degrees

Why Do Colleges Dislike Scrotes? The Disappearing Collegiate LVM

https://www.forbes.com/sites/richardvedder/2021/06/14/why-do-colleges-dislike-men-the-disappearing-collegiate-male/

reminder that this primarily hurts womxn:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/nov/10/dating-gap-hook-up-culture-female-graduates

https://www.businessinsider.com/growing-trend-fewer-men-in-college-leading-to-mating-crisis-2021-9

https://www.vice.com/en/article/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253/

https://www.deseret.com/2022/6/20/23172767/perspective-where-have-all-the-good-men-gone-marriage-college-university-of-virginia-dating/