Not a dress, but behold! My newly-altered Wedding Jumpsuit! (They/Them/Theirs pronouns pls, I am nonbinary) 
Thread full of people with downmarsey trauma and moppings for transphobia or saying it looks tacky. 
You look fantastic, and congrats on escaping the binary! Well done all around!
I don't know why this got downmarseyd. I meant this from the heart, but that doesn't mean it was received well. If I've worded things in a way that was hurtful, I'm happy to adjust my language and perspective.
Rad!
Why did I get downmarseyd?
Edit 2: I don't think people know what the word "rad" means and that makes me sad
AMAZING!! And you wear it so well! I hope this is one of the most wonderful and memorable events of your life 🥰
Edit: if I accidentally said something offensive, can someone let me know? I was really surprised to see how aggressively downmarseyd this comment was so I'm thinking I may have a blind spot and said something stupid. If so, I'm sorry and please let me know.
[jannied]
Yeah what's up with that? This is this person's wedding attire, it looks great on them, are people mad bc it doesn't look like every other generic white wedding dress ever?
I'm guessing this is it 100%. And presumably since they chose this outfit, this isn't going to look like most "generic" weddings either. Presumably the jump suit fits the style of the wedding. My friend married his partner on Halloween and they had wedding outfits and reception outfits. The wedding outfits were really sharp suits, but they wore costumes to the reception and the reception was a vibe. There were drag queens and glitter and glow sticks everywhere. Their attire fit perfectly with the mood for their party. I'd guess that's the case here- this wedding isn't going to he your traditional church wedding and formal reception, it's going to be it's own scene, and in that case this jumpsuit is a showstopper
Elvis would be proud of you.
i feel like i cant even say it doesnt look good
Then why wouldn't it be "our" Jumpsuit?
what?
[jannied]
they them pronouns don't necessarily only imply plurality. the pronouns can also be used to refer to some who doesn't use she or he pronouns. it would still be correct to say my instead of our because they're only one person.
[jannied]
Maybe because people like you misgender them?
But the post is about a dress and not the person wearing it. I wouldn't look at this pic and say "(pronoun) looks great in this dress!" I'd say YOU.
But I digress.
I can see that as it's something I would say too. But there are people out there who aren't supportive and OP was just stating their preferences. Obviously needed since the person I replied to used the wrong pronouns despite relying to a comment about pronouns and them being in the title.
AMAZING!!!! As an NB person I am in awe of this wedding outfit!! Gender euphoria for the win!! Congratulations!!!
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Never run into that subreddit before. If you sort by controversial, there are some other pretty good posts:
This subreddit only likes small//thin brides
Whatever is going on here:
I am a 30 year old male and I want to go to a bridal shop and have the experience of a dress fitting
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I was initially going to make a post based on the first fatphobia one but I was looking for more arguments/comments.
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Thing is, nobody cares what you were "going to make."
I'm going to shit my pants later. You don't see me crowing about it like a little girl, do you?
Have some respect for yourself.
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but this happened
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I have visions of newports doused in the remains of a shitty long drink, black "+1" guests, and a drunken brawl caused by infidelity that spills into the streets and ends with the cops arresting someone's mother (and potentially shooting the aforementioned black "+1"s).
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Yeah thats about what I thought. And I'll add that there's gonna be lifted trucks and dip.
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God I hate redditors
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It's so fricking fake. Like the performative niceness is so disingenuous to the point it feels like veiled ridicule.
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Oof
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Where do women get off saying stuff like this? Why are they so mean?
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nobody hates women as much as other women
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But they are not a w*man they are non-binary
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Woman be lying to be socially accepted since ever
They will literally vote for Sharia law if it makes them look woke to other shit libs
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"Boy, I sure do hate convention! Any asspats to be had here for it?"
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'I'm not a woman with short hair, I'm nonbinary. There's a difference, you have to believe me.'
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i hate theyfabs so much it's unreal
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this one is truly no binary i cannot tell the biological s_x of this person
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The tits give it away.
Also "NB" if its not accompanied by danger hair and loads of tattoos/piercings is a strong foid indicator
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NB males usually have facial hair.
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NB but with foid hobby? It's a foid
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Jesus that's hideous
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I can already vividly imagine the mother of the bride or groom leaning over to whisper in her husbands ear "I told them we shouldn't invite HER"
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dang, well lets see what this attention seeking lesbian is up too now.
Oh wow she err THEY'RE medicated, what are the odds.
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God I hate modern culture sometimes. She looks like a even more flaming Elton John.
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Wedding shit is gay and woman oriented but I'd legit call off the wedding if my foid tried to wear this
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That's because she's a foid. OOP is 🌈nonbinary🌈
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IT'S A SPEED SUIT!
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kek
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Ah yes, mourning black to ones own wedding. A classic.
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Zhey look like their about lose a figure skating contest in 1983
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The dress is pretty cool. @KongsburyDonkboy's only real criticism is that she has a terrible body and shouldn't be wearing it
and what the heck is nonbinary gender euphoria? How does that even work? Trans lives matter. Nonbinary lives don't
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nonbinaries are just ugly people trying to feel special and unique for victimization points
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enbys are just cishets with personality disorders
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@KongsburyDonkboy know that! @KongsburyDonkboy just don't know how you could have gender euphoria when you're not even a gender. Make it make sense! Trans lives matter
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literally not even trying to be anything but a pooner
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whoever marries someone like this deserves what he gets
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*xhe
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!fashion, it looks like a terrible figure skating outfit. Except even the worst costume isn't baggy.
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as soon as i saw it, i thought "lesbian elvis"
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The absolute state of reddit foids lol
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This is so ugly holy shit
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Looks like a mentally ill r-slur to me.
Par for the course.
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I may get a lot of flak for this, but
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I think it's pretty cool tbh.
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Not for a wedding. Unless the theme is 'sheer disco'.
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If it's they/them's wedding they can wear whatever weird bullshit they want
If it's someone else's wedding, then this is a very based and dramapilled outfit.
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You're right. I think this looks terrible but it's their wedding, they can wear what they want and if the he/she/they getting married to them doesn't mind, it's none of our business.
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She looks like an r-slur
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you should grill yourself NOW
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