Not a dress, but behold! My newly-altered Wedding Jumpsuit! (They/Them/Theirs pronouns pls, I am nonbinary)

Thread full of people with downmarsey trauma and moppings for transphobia or saying it looks tacky.

You look fantastic, and congrats on escaping the binary! Well done all around!

I don't know why this got downmarseyd. I meant this from the heart, but that doesn't mean it was received well. If I've worded things in a way that was hurtful, I'm happy to adjust my language and perspective.

Rad!

Why did I get downmarseyd?

Edit 2: I don't think people know what the word "rad" means and that makes me sad

AMAZING!! And you wear it so well! I hope this is one of the most wonderful and memorable events of your life 🥰

Edit: if I accidentally said something offensive, can someone let me know? I was really surprised to see how aggressively downmarseyd this comment was so I'm thinking I may have a blind spot and said something stupid. If so, I'm sorry and please let me know.

[jannied]

Yeah what's up with that? This is this person's wedding attire, it looks great on them, are people mad bc it doesn't look like every other generic white wedding dress ever?

I'm guessing this is it 100%. And presumably since they chose this outfit, this isn't going to look like most "generic" weddings either. Presumably the jump suit fits the style of the wedding. My friend married his partner on Halloween and they had wedding outfits and reception outfits. The wedding outfits were really sharp suits, but they wore costumes to the reception and the reception was a vibe. There were drag queens and glitter and glow sticks everywhere. Their attire fit perfectly with the mood for their party. I'd guess that's the case here- this wedding isn't going to he your traditional church wedding and formal reception, it's going to be it's own scene, and in that case this jumpsuit is a showstopper

Elvis would be proud of you.

i feel like i cant even say it doesnt look good

Then why wouldn't it be "our" Jumpsuit?

what?

[jannied]

they them pronouns don't necessarily only imply plurality. the pronouns can also be used to refer to some who doesn't use she or he pronouns. it would still be correct to say my instead of our because they're only one person.

[jannied]

Maybe because people like you misgender them?

But the post is about a dress and not the person wearing it. I wouldn't look at this pic and say "(pronoun) looks great in this dress!" I'd say YOU.

But I digress.

I can see that as it's something I would say too. But there are people out there who aren't supportive and OP was just stating their preferences. Obviously needed since the person I replied to used the wrong pronouns despite relying to a comment about pronouns and them being in the title.

AMAZING!!!! As an NB person I am in awe of this wedding outfit!! Gender euphoria for the win!! Congratulations!!!