I'm a 31-yo guy, and a week ago I had my first sexual experience (never too late for success I guess!)
It was really nice, my partner was great, and I am proud to report that I gave her an orgasm
However I couldn't come myself, despite being very aroused and my partner really wanting to help. What's weirder is that later I tried to masturbate and still couldn't.
Two days later, we saw each other again, and we couldn't have s*x for logistical reasons but there was a lot of flirting and heavy petting. By the end my testicles were extremely painful (though still a lovely afternoon all things considered). And yet afterwards, nothing.
That was 5 days ago! Still nothing to date.
Since then whe has been traveling pretty far away. We've been exchanging some suggestive texts, I regularly fantasize about her, I have trouble focusing on anything complicated, and I have erections galore.
I initially speculated that it was stress (even though I felt relatively calm), but I've been sleeping well, and despite the distraction and the occasional testicular pain I feel quite good emotionally.
I tried watching porn etc, no effect, I just get bored. I've never experienced this state before.
I asked Claude what it thought but it gave me boilerplate "oh you just need to get used to the new situation, or maybe you're too stressed, if nothing changes a week from now you should see a Professional"
But this seems more like psychology than urology (otherwise why would it occur at this precise moment?), so any intervention is likely to have a small effect size. Besides, I know LLMs have their faults but how is a random doctor going to help if Claude has no idea?
We're planning to meet again this weekend, if I'm still in the same state then I guess I'll be a very altruistic partner again lol
But at some point she's gonna wonder what's wrong (even more than she did the first time I mean). I'm happy to tell her the facts but I'd also like to be able to explain them.
Does anyone know about this phenomenon, or have any idea what could be going on?
Or maybe you know someone I could get in touch with
Thank you!
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asking AI for s*x advice
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still better than asking acx
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Who? trans lives matter
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website in the op
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What website? trans lives matter.
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this one ffs https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/open-thread-369/comment/94099732
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Oh, where's that from? trans lives matter.
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the op dumb BIPOC
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Oh, cool. Meowspect. Trans lives matter.
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You let a foid steal you're sexual essence. Simple as
Trans lives matter
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You should get on HRT
Nah, jk lol
butt for real though you should have your 
partner 
peg you and give you a prostate orgasm. Ask 
@BussyBoy if you need any 
tips 
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Make sure you rip the condom off at the end because you're going to fire off the biggest nut of your life after blue balling this long. She will respect you so much more afterwards
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You were nervous, plain and simple. You're still going to be nervous the next time. Just be somewhat honest about it, but don't overshare and freak her out. Also, stop jacking it so much if you're doing that a lot.
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Peepee broke? trans lives matter
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put a straw
in ur urethra and suck you have a piece of rock that's in ur testicles 
that blocks 
the way for semen 
when you nut
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Just keep doing it, if she's cumming who cares for now, also don't jerk off or watch porn. When I first started fricking I couldn't c*m because I only jerked off in weird positions. I stopped doing that and was fine after. Maybe you're the same and never really noticed, I didn't.
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!incels how would you help this failed wizard?
I'd recommend suicide
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You are going to die soon.
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This dude death grips when jerking off.
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You have to keep fricking her until you can develop trust with her
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