EFFORTPOST Bipolar delivery driver in 57'000 of debt

https://youtube.com/watch?v=MkUjeb7Jg60

Duncan 26, San Antonio TX

$57'303 total debt

$880 minimum monthly payments, 41% of his current income

At least $400 interest accruing each month ignoring student loans and stuff in collections

First truly mentally ill person on the show, he weirds me out a little but I might be just paranoid. I don't trust people who cry on camera. I've timestamped some of the oddness, not in chronological order

Self-rated 3/10 financially

Has been watching Caleb for "a couple months" hasn't started budgeting

  • cries from stress of his situation? Tries to explain his failures in past attempts to budget timestamp

Diagnosed with "Bipolar II Disorder" plus some backstory, only recently got meds

Career:

  • Delivery for Tiff's Treats and somtimes on-duty manager on weekends, does Grubhub/Doordash on the side

  • "I got deactivated from Grubhub for some reason" timestamp

  • Drives company car so his gas payments aren't bad

  • Currently making $23 an hour and $18 as the stand-in manager

  • hours cut, losing insurance in July (sales down year after year)

  • nervous laughter here timestamp

  • financially struggling

  • only 6 stores in his district

Personal Life:

  • Lost his last credt for film grad because Covid and classes/grades fell apart afterwards near beginning of covid?

  • timestamp

  • Was taking classes last semester? timestamp

  • Not this semester though so Student Loans are active now

  • Sudden jump from verge of tears to recitation of the canned youtube comment line about finance needing to be taught in high school timestamp

  • "I think that's a big detriment to the American education system, nobody gets taught finances, ever"

  • Wants to go back to school for a business degree but can't because of his current situation

Savings/Expenses:

  • Nothing in retirement

  • USAA checking

  • Monthly balance $225 -> 281

  • Spent money on Uber Eats, overly self-deprecating statement to dodge timestamp

  • Same dodge trips to coffee shop/donuts/general eating out timestamp

  • Shared checking with him and his girlfriend

  • Pays to do gig work? Not sure if I understood that right

  • $766 last month just on fast food/eating out (36% of income)

  • Swipe savings

  • $7 -> $161.85

  • $224 car insurance payment since he got into an accident uninsured

Debt:

  • Says he has a terrible credit score (551)

  • Was at 630 3 months ago

  • Found a credit repair company he's been thinking of reaching out to

  • Student loans (paying interest only) Variable Interest Rates

  • $13'316 14% interest

  • 10% interest

  • 10% interest

  • Car Max Loan

  • $16'584 remaining, 421 minimum monthly payment (he's got another 400 past due with a 21 late fee)

  • 10.45 interest rate

  • "All three of the credit cards I emailed you are in collections" timestamp

  • USAA credit card

  • Some old Visa

  • Coles Card

  • Owes $63.23 on "Afterpay"

  • Also on Paypal, Affirm and Klarna "I made a series of really really bad decisions"

    • Affirm is 1k
  • "And it's just this stupid stupid anxiety of not knowing what I'm gonna have left" timestamp

  • Personal Loan

  • took it out a year ago because he was "freaking out about money" at the time

  • 1'400 balance

  • Personal Loan

  • $986 "one of those finance app where you pay a certain amount and you get the rest of the loan back"

  • Not paying this one?

  • Owes Grandpa $4'500

  • "terrible situation"

  • First car he bought died, grandpa co-signed for a new car

    • got t-boned and did not have insurance
  • Has had 2 cars get totaled while on job?

  • $10 monthly payments, it's informal

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So thankful I'm crazy paranoid about finances and always underspend

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Same. I think it was because growing up, it seemed like the family not having enough money was the source of all of our problems. Looking back I now understand it wasn't all that simple, but it still left me a very stingy person.

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Coming to the realization that I'm just that much better with money than my parents was rough :marseyitsover:

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I would underspend what my parents gave me so I could buy things they didn't approve of. This has helped me in my career as an embezzler at Credit Suisse.

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Lmao sounds like my foid. Both my foid and I make good money, but she is still so frugal that her work shoes are falling apart and she refuses to buy a replacement because she can still wear the old ones. She is worried about how expensive homes are and is convinced we’ll never own one, but I frequently have to remind her that we probably could afford a home in just a couple years.

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My wife () recently got bumped up to $29/hr and said she wants me to teach her how to budget.

You don't need a budget. You owe $600/month on your car. $80/month on cable. That's it. If you aren't ending every month with more money than you started, it should be pretty obvious where your money is going.

I paid off my car and my house on a lower wage without budgeting. She doesn't need a budget.


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