Ron, 33, Nashville TN
Self-rated 3/10 situation
Personal Life:
Falling out with his parents
Says father was emotionally abusive/manipulative
Has since mended bridges with them somewhat?
Asked if he could move back in after getting a remote job, they said no
Good relationship with his mother, bad with his father, they are still married?
- Mother makes 200'000?
Debt from early 20s moving out of his parents house
Story time about being a boozer - timestamp
Was van living for a little while so more money to party
- Stopped in late 2019 early 2020
Addicted to Mountain Dew timestamp
Goes through 2 a day, doesn't buy from stores, just from gas stations or dunkin donuts?
"If it's a bad day I will go and get more"
"Do you have diabetes?" timestamp
"Not that I know of, I haven't been to a doctor in 5 years"
Blood sugar test timestamp
"I don't have diabetes by the way I just have all medical equipment possible because I'm afraid of something going.. bad"
New Caleb lore - he is terrified of needles and blood plus is some sort of paranoid
Apparently he does not have diabetes?
Brother had addiction stuff as well? (marijuana and alchy)
Career:
Tried to apply for real jobs out of school, never got callbacks
Call center 40 hour week
- $18 an hour
Starting a second job in a couple weeks
Variable, $18.50 after 5, $20 weekends
Also 40 hours?
Call center stuff but different from the other call center
Some online stuff
Runs DnD games online
3 hours a piece depending on how much he needs to prep
$600 a month or so
- 1 game ended
Using some site for this that pimps out DMs
Made 10k last year from this
Runs these games through his phone? "Only reason I bought it"
uses Fiverr people to do stuff for it?
Got a cat recently, photo shown to camera timestamp
His mother gave him 1'300 total last month
Expenses:
Mountain Dew:
- Unreal amounts of mountain dew more than $400 a month
Rent $1230
- Low end, not a great neighborhood, pays for laundry not within complex?
Debts:
Discover Card (Card 1) Around $3000: timestamp
Had to put car repairs on it?
4 tires and some maintenance stuff
Minimum monthly maybe $30? He's not certain
25% interest
Had paid off the card with a personal loan years prior to the car repairs
Dunkin Donuts - 2 Dews for $4 "That's how they get you"
USAA (Card 2) $7712:
20% interest, $631 lost on interest this year
Did not spend anything on there
Costco (Card 3) $908:
Paid 218 but made 185 in purchases 14 in interest
Credit limit of 750
Thinks the purchases were all unnecessary
30% interest
Car: 2010 Toyota Camry
130'000 miles
$5438 left on it
4.99% interest rate
Bought right before the pandemic hit
Personal Loan $18'173 timestamp:
2 or 3 cards, and the rest of the loan balance of the van he had, has since sold Van
$584 min payment
originally 25'000
Student Loans:
Majored in Business?
Southern Hampshire University?
$38'900 federal student loans, Probably 470 minimum payment
These are why he decided to get a second job
Savings:
Checking
Gets money from his mother?
26.76 => 5132 - 3918 => 1247
Business Checking account for his DnD thing:
- "Cloak & Dagger LLC"?
Budget Section timestamp:
- -$1231 between minimum budget and basic survival currently without the second job
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