EFFORTPOST Husband and Wife both working 80 hours a week to pay colossal debts they've taken on in the last year and a half

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Ariel 30 and David 35, Louisville TX

Personal Lives:

  • No kids

  • Married for a year

Education: timestamp

  • Husband

    • No college

    • Current career plan is becoming a dominoes guy? I'm so confused timestamp

      • Sounds like he's being sold down the river tbh but I'm paranoid
  • Wife

    • BS in Rehabilitation and Concentration of Orientational Ability (not sure I heard this right)

    • Had to pass a test to work in the field but failed it and they wanted her to take it again so she tried to get a job in the process while studying for the test so she went for another area of work and never took the test a second time?

      • Salary for this is between 55k (average) and a 104k (top)
    • Started college for nursing but she couldn't handle vomit

Careers:

  • Both have 80 hour work weeks :marseydoomer:

  • Ariel -

    • Both jobs remote

    • Payment processing for an auto company

    • Second job at a comtech company helping build websites?

    • 40k salary from each job

  • David -

    • Amazon Warehouse forklift driver

      • 39 hours 17.20 a week. Flex hours
    • Dominoes Pizza Delivery Driver

      • 40 hours

      • Around 260 biweekly and 600 a week in tips?

    • Donates plasma twice a week

      • around 120 a week

Debt:

  • Why are you guys working so much timestamp

    • Claim they've already started trying to get rid of debt, almost gotten rid of husband's then dealing with the wife's after
  • Didn't save money for their wedding, some of their debt is from that

  • "Are you guys completely on the same page when it comes to personal finances?" timestamp

    • Wife wants to do things, husband wants to get rid of debt
  • Wedding expenses discussions timestamp

  • 2019 Toyota Highlander 44'332 => 32'806

    • $725 minimum monthly payment

    • 5.4%, 5 year

    • Thinking about selling it. Believes it's not upside down

    • At the time he'd purchased this, a year or two ago, he'd paid off ALL their debt except her student loans

  • "I got all those credit cards because I was taught that.. you know... umm.. I guess... if you have higher I mean cards with higher limits on it you have I don't remember the technical term for it but I heard it's supposed to be better for your credit if you have a higher spending limit or something like that"

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  • (Card 1) FNBA Visa $3475: timestamp

    • Paid for Best Man of the wedding's travel expenses

    • 0% but not sure how long it will be

    • $70 minimum payment

    • "It's so low, we can definitely get that paid off" :marseyxd:

  • (Card 2) Navy Federal $11'714: timestamp

    • Wife tried to get into e-commerce "I took a course" :marseywomanmoment:

    • Two $5'000 courses, she got taken for a ride

  • (Card 3) Navy Federal $3'378: timestamp

    • For wife's everyday purchasing

    • Made 116 payment, Bought $544 in new purchases

  • (Card 4) Discover Card ($6'000)

    • Husband's

    • Two sections, 1 accruing interest, 1 not. Already paid off one that was

    • 0% interest ends on September 4th

    • Part of the wedding debt

  • (Card 5) Amazon $1400 timestamp

    • $7.86 interest, $39 late fees, she thought she had auto pay on

    • 400 payments, 360 in new purchases :marseyxd:

  • Other credit cards all paid off now?

    • They said this after card 1 but there were so many more :marseythinkorino:

---Intermission while she pulls up student loans---

Caleb (to the husband): "can you say something upsetting so I can verbally so I can get some equal treatment over here"

Husband: "I just wanted to stay out of it, I've talked to her enough I need somebody else to say something..." [he goes on but it's just filler]

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  • Student Loans (51'000)

    • Around 600 a month minimum payments when it starts up again

    • She thinks payments start back up in June 2024 timestamp

  • Car 2 Around 16'097(?)

    • $366

    • 4.39%

    • 72 month term

Savings:

  • Retirement Fund $1'000

  • A collection of small checking/savings, none higher than 500 I think

Living Situation:

  • $1600 a month 1 bedroom, thinking about a new lease or acquiring house? Wife burned down the kitchen? timestamp
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At least they have a good work ethic

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>works at Amazon fulfillment center

>owes Money to Amazon

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:marseycountry: i owe my soul to the company store

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IS THIS THE REAL LIFE

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Wow thats some real life right there. At least walmart gives a 10% discount

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Grapes of Wrath

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Lmao

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Wife tried to get into e-commerce "I took a course" :marseywomanmoment:

she should sue, they took advantage of someone under the legal age of consent

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:stab#ler:

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Stabler!

:#marseylove:

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I thought that kind of scam was targeted at men?

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Making 17.25 driving a forklift in a warehouse is hilarious. You could make over twice that.

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And he felt so well-off with that wage that he bought a $44k car :marseylaughwith:

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i feel like nothing more american than working 2x as hard so you can drive a car you cant afford

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I know a american. That didn't have enough money for food would still go buy multiple coffees from Starbucks everyday.

Jesus Christ dude. Frickin buy that cheap arse instant coffee

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Truly insane

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What do you mean? Explain? Like twice that for doing the same job at a different company?

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Yeah.

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All of these people make me feel way better about my debts.

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>He buys miniatures for tabletop gaming

>But he also has debts

:#marseypathetic:

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I'm a poorcel :#marseypoor:

All my debt is for land and a house I own so it's not random CC debt at least.

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>not inheriting and estate with serfs tied to the land

They just let anyone in here nowadays...

:#marseyneet:

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Glad to hear you are investing in land King

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Seriously. I let things get a little out of hand and ran up about $20k on one of my cards last year. Paid it all off in 90 days and have been carrying $0 balances since. Now my only debt is a mortgage and a car loan totaling about $300k.

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Shouldn't they be able to pay that all off in like a year easily?


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:marseycoin::marseycoin::marseycoin:
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If they spontaneously become financially literate and learn to live frugally? Yeah, they could pay it all off in a year or two. The moid might have a shot (financing a new car at anything other than 0% is pretty dumb, but he's at least trying to be less r-slurred), but the foid got scammed out of $10,000 and somehow still hasn't realized it. She's likely beyond saving. :marseywomanmoment2:

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I'd give it a solid maybe. I'm pessimistic, personally, I don't think they'll be able to keep their collective finances on the straight and narrow that long.

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No theyre definitely lying about their incomes for 1. Those positions arent salaried and i also guarantee they dont work 80 hours/week. If she had that kind of work ethic she wouldnt have failed her test. If he had that kind of work ethic it would be trivially easy to become a fast food manager.

Theyre also probably pulling in much less than they claim. Do you think the kind of r-slur that fails the qualification exam for her career or is a dominoes driver is actually contributing anything to websites. Shes doing one of those scam data entry jobs and quoting the advertised pay.

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I thought this guy gets W2s too though?

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Idk theyre obviously lying no matter what the dude says

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Retirement Fund $1'000

I had more in my retirement when i was 21

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ikr they really need 2 get richer parents

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They are living in heck.

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Honestly, good on them. If they pull through this together their marriage is gonna work out

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These are some of my favorite posts.

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They raise my blood pressure, idk how someone can watch these without getting second-hand stress

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I once went on a date with this chick :marseybikini: who spent $50k on a new car instead of finishing her degree :marseygrad: and the whole time I was thinking :marseythinkorino: of telling her that I'm gay because whenever she told me about her ridiculous spending habits I felt like I was watching :marseyilluminati2: a horror :marseyaugust: movie.

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It honestly makes me feel a lot better about my life lol.

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Why would anyone stay with this woman lmao

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Scrotes are loyal to a fault.

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BS in Rehabilitation and Concentration of Orientational Ability

:marseywoman#moment2:

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A more practical choice than a lot of other stuff she could have tried :marseyshrug:

If she'd actually passed that test she'd be pulling at least 60k in Texas from what I could find

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$725 minimum monthly payment

always the fricking car but go off i guess

um thats so much money

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She's planning on just not making student loan payments until the penalties kick in even though she is automatically enrolled in the SAVE plan and probably only pay $200 a month.

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You'd have to be insane to own an suv right now. They cost so much more than a car.

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Especially the premium he paid for a Highlander. What does he need it to do that a used Edge can't do for half the price


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But an SUV is a car :marseyspecial:

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I agree, but i was using the other definition of car.

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WHY WON'T THEY MAKE HATCHBACKS OR WAGONS INSTEAD OF FRICKING SEDANS REEEEEEEEEEEE

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Hatchbacks are gay.

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Maybe, but they're far less gay than a sedan

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BS in Rehabilitation and Concentration of Orientational Ability (not sure I heard this right)

Rehabilitation with a concentration on Orientation and mobility

Teaching the blind to walk and use the cane

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They should teach the blind to suck peepee for money instead

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These debts aren't even crazy. The Highlander sort of sucks because of the high payment and the student loans aren't nothing, but they should be able to get out of all of this in 3 years if they stop being tards.

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if they stop being tards.

:#marseysurejan:

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Plasma twice a week and working 80 hours is kinda nuts. It's not as exhausting as doing whole blood but I can't imagine going to work right after

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Great post King

$725 minimum monthly payment

:marseywtf2:

(Card 2) Navy Federal $11'714:

Guess that's why Navycels have all that mando financial classes :marseysailor:

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Current career plan is becoming a dominoes guy? I'm so confused

He basically wants to run his own Dominoes shop. Which depending on location, etc an owner can make from 50k to 200k a year.

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The wages of straggotry.

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Caleb's channel is a gold mine. The audit with the 41 year old guy who buys 7/11 taqyitos every day is wild

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I've climbed out of worse. If they work hard and pay it off then TAGMI.

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That actually looks like a doable way to unfrick this situation... Best of luck

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it's kinda amusing but can't stand that smug fattie know-it-all with his super smug voice

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Is David black ?

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