Married at 22, divorcing at 23
He can't stop spending, he doesn't help with the finances timestamp
Why a divorce? timestamp
Went to therapy, decided they weren't compatible
Soy keeps talking about "trauma" while based wife talks facts and cold analysis
"He's a crier and I'm not"
"It happens so often that instead of consoling him I roll my eyes, here we go again"
- She's perfect bros
Wife wanted to come on the show
Finances:
Three bedroom house with a roommate
Will continue living together post-divorce, different rooms
"What about dating other people won't it get awkward and stuff?" timestamp
- "That... I'm probably not gonna get into that until later until I actually get out of therapy personally"
Just moved into that house, decided to divorce slightly after the move
a year left on the lease
"He could probably burst into tears at any moment" timestamp
Scores
- She says 0/10, he thinks 3/10
He's cut off his mother because she's "narcissistic" timestamp
Spending
- Tiktok marketplace timestamp
Card 1 ($6969) timestamp
410 minimum payment
She didn't know about this card until after marriage
171 interest, 250 in new purchases
lot of useless shit on here
Card 2 (3'233) timestamp
3'200 limit
Over the limit at the time of the statement, made payments since?
"After I gave him my emergency fund to buy his new car I then had to go fix my car which was $2'500"
- Stick insect freak didn't have an emergency fund of his own
Had to replace the "arms" on all four of her tires
Gym membership that neither doesn't uses
Gollum takes pot shots at her from behind Caleb during this segment, little freak sitting there all smug
New Car (16'207) timestamp
6ish percent interest
$326 minimum payment
2022 Chevy Spark
The Freak tries to explain his financial reasoning and upbringing, I don't understand it because he doesn't understand it. It's a inhuman thing trying to masquerade as one of us.
His father cosigned for it
She has a Chevy Trailblazer 2006, no debt on it
230k miles?
[Midge tries to gloat calling the van a shitheap] "He thinks he knows a lot about cars"
She nearly beaned him with a box when he started questioning if she really loved him timestamp
- He deserved it. NTA. This woman is a queen.
Checking account deets timestamp
- The creature tries to speak and is immediately slapped back into into reality
Some Loans
1200 - to family friend
Friend owns a furniture store, no minimum monthly
She wants to keep the bed but is open to selling it to him
800 - to father in law
- His father in law, bills from old apartment?
5000 - to parents for wedding
- This was a gift but she feels obligated to pay them back since they are divorcing so soon
1900 - financing an appliance
Spending Graph - timestamp
Careers:
He's a front desk guy at a hospital timestamp
The dynamic here is really interesting, she's got a better idea of his income than he does
Just started full time, part time for the last year, 1400 then, around $16.00 an hour now?
She also has the same desk job kind of thing, I assume paid the same?
He is trying to start a graphics art design thing?
- Both went to school for graphic design
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!biofoids, smash or pass on this guy?
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Like 50% of biofoids dated this exact guy as their first bf. Women online will talk about the dreaded "bf using you as therapy" and guys will read it and think that means like "so I can't cry if my mom dies without getting dumped?? BITCHES" because men don't even know that guys who cry every single day exist and in large numbers. First boyfriend syndrome is a very misunderstood diagnosis
!biofoids are any of your friends still dating this guy? I have one who keeps dating this guy and I wish she would move onto the next phase of terrible bf so bad 😩
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!fellas the foids are crying out for the emotionally damaged, intermittent contact, aloof to the point of indifference kind of "love" that we can provide. Time to ascend
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I already learned this from watching k-dramas.
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A partner who cries over nothing and is bad with finances? That sounds kind of familiar (like 50% of women is like this)
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My friend goes EXLUSIVELY for these type of dudes and it drives me up a fricking wall. The palest most insectoid manipulative little stickman is like her dream guy I do not understand it. She dumps one and the next one is even more pathetic. They must be packing or something because I cant come up with any other explanation
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When they separate the genders for s*x ed they should add a section about therapyspeak guys and manipulation
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Don't forget 25 year olds with booze,weed and a sweet van
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I had to learn that one the hard way was kinda fun but took me way too long to figure out that 24 yo dudes interested in 16 yos are fricking losers
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how dare u insult !chuds like this
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Too old
"Don't you know that 13 is postwall?"
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Absolutely, its an epidemic. If a dude knows what gaslamping is RUN
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Yeah, cause he'll be wise to your manipulative tricks.
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Hey just so you know, its actually called gaslamping
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Yes, stickmen have huge hogs (source: me, sample size 1)
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Birth control explains it best. I'd be jealous if the relationships went anywhere, but they don't.
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Are they taller than average? Being a lanklet isn't a big issue
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They're all taller than her but not taller than average.
I guess its more their demeanor than body type. She definitely dates down and instead of feeling lucky/appreciating her they treat her like she's on their level and act weirdly superior for no reason. Like aren't you the same 30yo dude who just said you were gonna quit your part time restaurant host job because it gave you "anxiety"?
I would get it (i wouldn't like it, but I'd get it) if they were like crazy hot skinny alt dudes instead of birdchested slam poetry motherlovers in flannel.
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Oh, yeah, sometimes I forget that art hoe and other subtipes of BPD woman are so fricking easy and manipulable. Guess my problem is interacting mostly with post-HS band nerds and neurodivergent STEMlord types.
Last certified art hoe I interacted with was one of those "I'm finding myself" thot expats that made an uncommon amount of eye contact with me. She had that "bad kitty smell" face
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None of my foid friends ended up marrying that type.
I think I got lucky to avoid it - though I've always been joked at as being the man in the relationship for each one for being more vested in male-dominated hobbies/household skills and being aesthetically r-slurred.
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I consider my tool collection to be a gauntlet at this point, you can only marry me if you have a superior one . How TF do we not have a Rosie the riveter marsey btw
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Because the artists on this site are mostly scrotes. See all the weird pornographic Marseys
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Fiscal responsibility is hot. A good partnership is a team, not being someone's mom and having to control the purse.
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What if they live in their car and shower at the gym, but have millions in the bank? Get the budget down to $100 a month.
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Living in your car is a great cost-cutting measure in dire times (I did it myself immediately after moving out of my parents' house for about six months before I could afford my own apartment), but isn't feasible long term both for hygiene (see: texas heat) and mental health.
I'd imagine he'd probably end up like a bewildered animal living in my house if he'd have been doing it for any extended period of time.
It'd be more feasible to just have a cheap studio apartment at that point.
It's one of those cheap vs frugal sort of things.
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Especially now that wouldn't be viable. It costs so goddarn much to buy food at restaurants that you're not even saving money.
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I lived off of pb&j sandwiches
It did end up giving me a weird complex about wasting food though.
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Thats a DOOD
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