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my new friend got cold feet over coming to my birthday party :marseyitsover: guess it was too weird inviting someone i just met to a party with just my fam

Idk we've known each other for a few months and hang out multiple times a week so I thought it was normal but I guess I just dont understand social boundaries :marseyautism:. I also asked my trans girl friend if she also wanted to come too but she kept stressing that on weekends is when she hangs with her bf :marseytrans2: took me a few days to realize she was prob telling me off lmao :marseyaware: and i thought i was doing so well socially :marseyteehee: :marseybrainlet: dunning kruger reddit moment !cuteandvalid make fun of me haha

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Have you considered that maybe two people in a relationship who don't see each other that often would prefer to spend the weekend fricking rather than having their lives revolve around you?

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Have you considered actually reading the post?

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If I didn't read the post then how would I know that weekends are when her friend hangs with her BF?

:#marseybigbrain:

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Im not angry over her im more face palming because im afraid it came off as asking on a date and i dont wanna be a creep im not even angry at him. Im just a little sad cause i was happy to have a friend come with me but yeah if ppl are busy or dont wanna go then its their life

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Fair enough. Just remember that everybody perceives the world from themselves outwards, and while you may perceive yourself as the central character of your story and ask yourself why they didn't show up for your birthday, they perceive themselves as the central characters and their narrative is about their passionate weekend together. And to make things even more complex, this whole time neither you or them are aware that the central character of this narrative is secretly me and you're all just minor side characters in my story.

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