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i really don't get it. what's the point of dating when you're like 50?
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It's not like you lose the ability to feel lonely as you age
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married people are lonely though. only thing that gives purpose to them is kids. my uncle never married, he's still fit and passes for a 30 year old. i never seen him lonely or not happy.
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Your uncle is just being stoic. He goes to bed alone every night and probably cries sometimes to sleep
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Most people on the internet have depression as their default state but it goes the other way too, some people are happy enough whatever they're doing.
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There’s unfair. We need equity in happiness, through government regulated moods. Exceed the recommended amount and you’ll be shocked at random intervals.
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i don't think he does. he always surrounds himself with people and he's very likeable. there's no point in getting married if you live in USA, especially if you're a man.
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Bro most people losing their friends in their mid 30s. It’s pretty unlikely he’s as surrounded by people as you think, unless he’s gay or something
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i think you're just projecting lol. not everyone is a redditor with no social skills.
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You’re in for a rude awakening zoomer if you think you’re just gonna keep chilling with your bros into middle age
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sure
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I know plenty of 50yrs (rural ppl) who just chill with the same bros in their 50s. They are married too and it seems perfectly viable for well adjusted ppl
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Both men and women hit 40 and go through a life crisis if they don't have what they want in life. Lots of men and women don't have what they want out of life and go crazy. If you are happy (like your uncle) with your life choices, you give off that vibe. It goes both ways where I've known couples who are miserable and married just to stay married and people who are blissfully happy single and blissfully happy married.
A lot of people seem to think they will find happiness just having a warm body next to them and it's always a disaster. The TwoXX people are just desperate for a man, any man, and it's why they are always crying about men. Happy people just date and enjoy people and their lives and understand that not everyone is a fit.
To add to that, most happy people easily find relationships easily because people want to be around happy fun people and that's why the incels on here and terminally online cry about nobody wanting them. You need to find happiness in yourself or nobody wants to be around your miserable butt.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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that's a nice take. i think most of the crisis comes from a "grass-is-greener" mentality. we're all miserable and we're always comparing with others instead of being satisfied with what we have.
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Xoomers don't usually put much stock in social media and what people say they have, but that's usually for people who didn't start internet on Facebook. But we didn't have the zoomer shit where we had to compare ourselves to tik tok hoes. I agree that it's a "grass is greener" phenomenon. I had a client get married and want to have kids right away when he turned 50 because he suddenly had a crisis that he is missing out and already had the business/career thing down. It happens to both men and women.
People like your uncle just made the choices that he's happy with and I bet he has no problems meeting women and dating because those types of people are enjoyable being around.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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As it turns out, happiness is our true nature. We uncover happiness; it's not something we can go seeking to find.
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Well put.
So are you blissfully happy or the other thing?
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I'm blissfully happy and don't hate men at all despite my rdrama persona. I love men.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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Sharpie in pooper
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GENUINELY WHOLESOME, GLAD YOU'RE DOING WELL QUEEN!
ALSO IT'S NICE TOO HEAR A WOMAN SAY SOMETHING NICE ABOUT MEN TBH, DON'T TELL ANYONE THIS BUT
@Swish ACTUALLY THINK WOMEN ARE KINDA GREAT
TRANS LIVES MATTER
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How old is he actually?
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he's 45
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Bro. Your uncle is gay. That's why he is happy
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gays are not happy though. they can't produce kids and they are mentally ill.
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Maybe he's just gay?
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lots of normal guys don't get married. even strags marry women and they're still gay.
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Redditors have no purpose in their lives, or else they wouldnt be redditors
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good point.
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Delusions hits their limits if you do not have anybody else playing along as well.
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the whole thing is weird to me. she doesn't have kids and she's heavily involved in her career. what's the point of dating when she's the type of woman who chose career and need no man.
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She wants to frick without ordering a gigolo.
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She realized she chose wrong?
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Too late b-word
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Her post history shows a lot of traveling and staying in Paris/etc so maybe she thought she'd snag a hot foreign man?
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her post history is weird. posting on /r/antinatalism, /r/aita, /r/childfree & /r/lonely. i think she's just mentally ill and looking for internet attention.
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/zwxyvl/aita_for_throwing_at_tantrum_at_a_date
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Jeez sounds like her career isn’t the real issue here
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What I don't get is why someone that age needs to go to Reddit for advice.
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she's still a foid. they always look for that validation.
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/zwxyvl/aita_for_throwing_at_tantrum_at_a_date
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S*x
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