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KinoBushido im/just/ken :kenjak: irl  10mo ago (reddit.com) Edited 10mo ago 1245 thread views #176126

I used to spend my god darn days smoking weed and tanning my hot body on different costa rican beaches and now I'm a depressed overweight shell of my old self that cries everyday wishing she could crawl back to her old life.

https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/14139k9/ruined_my_life?sort=controversial

That sub is a goldmine

OP is a trainwreck, good writeup here

I've been lurking this sub since I found out I was pregnant. Long story short, IUD baby.. husband pressured to birth baby even when I sobbed for an abortion.. gave in to exterior pressure from family and friends that "I would fall in love once it was here" FRICK NO. And frick every person who blamed hormones for my feelings. Anyways I was 27, had already graduated college, lived abroad a few different times, fresh into my new logistics career and I loved my husband. I was always a generally happy person, bubbly and excited about living every morning.

I lost everything after having a baby.. it started with my body, then my friends, then my autonomy, then my sleep, then my happiness and with that I lost my marriage, my sanity and my will to live.

I never wanted to be a mom. I always thought babies were extremely boring, toddlers were dirty and annoying and I never experienced any type of baby fever. I wake up every morning hearing him cry and all I can do is grit my teeth, here we go again. Endless cycle of crying, feeding, bathing, changing until it's bedtime and I'm to drained to eat anything after eating half a banana the whole day. I used to spend my god darn days smoking weed and tanning my hot body on different costa rican beaches and now I'm a depressed overweight shell of my old self that cries everyday wishing she could crawl back to her old life.

My advice to anybody on the fence or currently pregnant, just don't do it. Stay child less and enjoy your life please.

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baby is 11 months old for context

but three months ago, she's happily living the pampered life of a new mother / social discount code slinger with the hubby: https://old.reddit.com/r/starbucks/comments/10y3nf8/the_hostile_change_towards_star_rewards_may_be/j7z7rxh/?sort=controversial

My husband got me the Vertuo Next to stop my starbucks addiction and it worked 😂😂 If you decide to purchase from the Nespresso site, the machines are on sale right now and you can stack my code for an additional $40 off and a free pod dispenser! my code is 5TAE4T 🫶🏼☕️

and then she gets salty that she's not getting a new car, even though she's a stay at home mom with a loaded husband who pays everything for her https://old.reddit.com/r/askcarsales/comments/1146z5t/how_to_buy_a_car_in_february_2023/j8wispk/?sort=controversial

My husband was in an accident in his paid off GMC Sierra, he got about $15K from insurance so we finished paying off my Ford Escape ($8K) and after some catching up we had about $6K left to play with. This man went with a 2019 Ram Limited 2500 needless to say it was very expensive. $72K ($110K after financing) Point being this is exactly how our process went, almost scary accurate! I wish I would have read this about two weeks ago because now I'm getting major buyers remorse.. he makes pretty good money to the point where I don't work and we still have flexibility for fun stuff but our payments are about $1200 which seems crazy high to me. Things are getting paid but I don't know if I should bring up to my husband that I wish he would have gotten something cheaper? Even in the $30K range would have been fine 🙃 I'm also salty because my Escape is a piece of junk and was hoping we could upgrade both cars to something decent instead of just him to a super truck. Am I being selfish and should I just let him enjoy/worry about it?

she even dunks on the doors a month ago in a deleted /r/childfree comment https://old.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/13a7k1k/kids_on_my_street_making_my_life_miserable/?sort=controversial:

get your money up and move somewhere where they don't allow kids, brokey

then 2 days ago, the truth comes out that her friends have had enough of her... https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/13yqfcw/what_do_you_do_when_its_particularly_difficult/jmya1sh/?sort=controversial

love that you're doing this! unfortunately I lost all my friends, even the ones I had since 4th grade after becoming a mom so it's nice to see that maybe I just need to find new friends that are supportive. Oh and they don't need anything, they just need YOU.

10 hours ago is publicly admitting she wishes her husbands son were aborted https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/13wyi67/how_old_is_everyone_is_waiting_later_in_life/jmyad0a/?sort=controversial

27 graduated college, lived abroad a few years, well into my new career and thought I was ready. Boy was I wrong, I miss my pre-baby life more than anything. He's 11 months and I still wish I would have aborted him every waking day.

and then finally her husband has had enough, too:

I lost everything after having a baby.. it started with my body, then my friends, then my autonomy, then my sleep, then my happiness and with that I lost my marriage, my sanity and my will to live.

great find OP

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I love reading these posts by (narcissistic) stay-at-home moms who think their lives are so hard and challenging. Like obviously caring for a child full time isn't easy, but it's definitely better than working that 9-5 grind. Like if I was a trophy husband with nothing to do other than stay home and take care of the kids, I'd be going down on my b-word every single morning simply as a way to say thank you. But some of these ungrateful foids, you can give them a house and they'll still be bitching about why you didn't give them two

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but it's definitely better than working that 9-5 grind

It really depends on the job. It sounds like the work she did before she got pregnant was white-collar remote work. A lot of those jobs require expertise but are not necessarily stressful (and definitely not physically exhausting). Taking care of a kid full time is much harder in comparison. It's still "better" to take care of your own child full-time because you get to spend more time with them, but it's also a lot more tiring and requires real physical labor.

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>72k, 110 after financing

Jesus, on a 5 year loan that's 15% interest. Not surprised it's a Dodge

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That sub is full of terrible :marseyyinzer: people but this was a good deeper dive. Added to post :marseythumbsup:

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>avoiding the pizzashill award I gave you for being illiterate

:marseydisagree:

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/16857425099610343.webp

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Thank you for your service

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Lmao it's the first time I see this workaround for the pizza award.

I like seeing drama from these kind of subs but I'm never willing to browse them because it's just crab bucket all the way except the crabs are willingly asking to get inside the bucket. Makes me sad because I know someone like this

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yinzers btfo

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He's 11 months and I still wish I would have aborted him every waking day.

What a massive piece of shit. I hope her husband can get full custody of the kid. I'm worried this lady is gonna kill her son

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Honestly can't imagine being that selfish wtf is wrong with this foid

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https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/uhu7av/frick_autism/?sort=controversial i found this in the top posts and i'm honestly shocked the undoubtedly neurodivergent mods there would allow this one through lol. overall the most depressing sub i think i've ever seen

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fetch new snappy quote please:

I’m tired of all the extravagant accommodations and never ending extra shit that goes into autism. We’re supposed to bend over backwards to children who only care about their immediate needs and themselves no matter what the frick anyone else’s needs are - and then we get blamed for churning out entitled buttholes.

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:!marsey#beandizzy:

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