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Foid asks her boyfriend to buy her a cake, but he buys the wrong one :marseyscream:

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My birthday is in a couple of days. I've been looking for a baker in my city whose quite skilled at cake calligraphy because I want a specific, aesthetic bento cake. I don't really like cake but I'm making a life scrap book hence the priority on aesthetics.

After searching for weeks and not finding any baker whose work I liked, I decided to make a post about what i wanted, incase one of my followers knows someone good. And thankfully I got a good recommendation.

On the phone with my bf hours later, I mentioned how happy I was that I'd finally found a baker for the cake I want. He replied with “oh. so I did a thing”, and proceeded to tell me how he saw my post and decided to surprise me.

The thing is I wish he didn't, because I looked through the IG page of the baker he chose and none of the cakes on display is pretty. And their writing looks like the work of a toddler.

Ngl, it upset me and i didn't do a good job of concealing my feelings. It's not like I yelled, I just said “I wish you'd talked to me before you placed the order”. Plus he ordered a 6inch cake, red velvet and vanilla flavors, while I what I want is a 4inch chocolate cake.

One of the reasons I'm upset (in addition to the fact that the cake is going to be ugly (or at least not at all what I want)) is because going ahead to book with the baker I want means there'll be wastage. We both don't like cake, and I'll be spending the day alone at home so who's going to eat the cake he ordered?

It's been a couple of hours and I feel bad, like maybe I could've just pretended? It's really not a big deal and I think I made him unhappy so idk. Did I overreact?

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I want a specific, aesthetic bento cake. I don't really like cake but I'm making a life scrap book hence the priority on aesthetics.

I try to be charitable when I hear a woman say stupid shit because I know we don't have the same interests and sensibilities but this is so fricking stupid.

How are you making a life scrapbook and not putting in it things that you like! If you don't like cake buy something that is both pretty and suitable to your tastes. How does aesthetics take precedence over authenticity in a scrapbook about your life, you vacuous piece of human garbage.

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because going ahead to book with the baker I want means there'll be wastage. We both don't like cake, and I'll be spending the day alone at home so who's going to eat the cake he ordered?

>doesn't want "wastage"

>both don't like cake

Honestly, I felt a little :marseyoverseether: flare up. I'm either getting trolled, or this is the dumbest woman moment I've ever seen. :derpwhy:

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Same. If you don't like cake; Why put it in the scrapbook?

Or, isn't the buying two cakes the kind of story you want in a life scrapbook? So, years from now, you have a funny story to look back on?

:marseywise: This is the fault of social media, isn't it? The purpose of the life scrapbook is to show other people how great you are, even if it's all a lie.

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Stop fricking GATEKEEPING ART YOU BUMPKIN

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Unironically tho

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Foids aren't people

:#marseypizzashilltalking:

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The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Heck-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, "I have never received any good from you."

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Islam is right about women.

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360 no scope from 1500 years ago

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Jesus, this hits too close to home. I bought her everything she wanted, always tried to support her, knew her triggers, and walked on eggshells. I always tried surprised her with gifts, but she never gave me anything but complaints and baseless accusations, while she could do whatever she wanted cuz I never owned her. She just fricking wasted my time.

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You're supposed to be the one leveling the baseless accusations and acting completely unhinged so she knows in advance that she'd be putting her life on the line by crossing you.

:#taysmart:

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I know you're joking, but this is unironically what she did. She would do and say fricked up and vile shit and then accuse me of cheating on her, not loving her, and controlling her. She would also project her insecurities onto me so that she wouldn't feel guilty about what she did and said to me.

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:#marseycheerup:

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I was a LVM and my goddess GF saw through my charade :marseycry:

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Lol

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Get bent scrote

Trans women are women

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Just keep sucking that shenis, sweetie. You're doing great. :marseyblowkiss:

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>foids have always been cancer

Color me surprised :marseysipping:

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Takbir

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What the frick was he thinking helping out with the cake she isn't even going to eat. How did he think it would turn out


Putting the :e: in spookie

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Back it up a little further, what was he thinking getting in a relatioship with a scrapbooker

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>Be instagrammer

>Decide its toxic for my mental health

>Make a scrapbook

>Continue my toxic behavior for a scrapbook that no one will see anyways

:marseywomanmoment2:

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How did he know she wasn't going to eat it? He probably thought quite reasonably that a person who buys a cake wants to eat a cake

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When rdrama finally achieves our socialist utopia compound can I be the one who puts redditors like this in the gulag

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Deleted because I have my answer now.

:#marseyhammersnoo:

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>My birthday :marseywithcake: is in a couple :marseycupid: of days. I've been looking :marseyinsane: for a baker in my city whose quite skilled at cake calligraphy because I want a specific, aesthetic bento cake. I don't really :marseythinkorino2: like cake but I'm making a life scrap book hence the priority on aesthetics.

Nope. Stop. Kill her.

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Ungrateful bitches like this one are one of the reasons men don't want to do nice shit for us! Stfu and accept the cake you fricking dumbass!

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This is literally getting me worked up again

He plugged rdrama.net

THEY PLUGGED RDRAMA.NET

Snapshots:

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Snappy is the OG OP in that story LOL

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