So, I have been seeing this guy four weeks now. Everything seemed great at first, and this was the first guy I met in a while who I felt a strong connection with. That all took a turn yesterday.
I had recently bought some leather leggings that I thought looked great on my figure. When I wore them on our date, I thought he would give me a compliment. He didn't. He's never given me a compliment on any of our dates, which I thought strange at first because normally guys will say something along the lines of I look nice, but he's never said anything like that to me, even though I have given him compliments.
Later, I asked him what he thought of my outfit and he said he didn't like it. I asked him if he liked any of the outfits I have worn. He said no. Mildly annoyed now, I asked him well what outfits does he find attractive.
He proceeded to send pictures of women with hourglass figures wearing bodycon dresses. It felt like he was telling me that my body and the way I dress wasn't good enough for him so I should completely change myself for him.
I have also grown up constantly hearing people tell me how less attractive I am than my sister. So, I am highly sensitive to people telling me they don't like the way I dress, my physical features and body.
I felt pissed off with him and asked him if I don't meet his standard of female beauty why is he even bothering with me then because I don't plan to change how I dress or style myself for him. He responded with a facepalm emoji.
Now I have conflicting feelings. On the one hand, I really did like him but I feel so hurt that he doesn't seem accept me for who I am and wants me to change and conform to the Instagram model standard of beauty.
She seems pretty insecure, I feel bad for her tbh. Let's continue:
You aren't overreacting but you are kinda projecting onto him. He might not be a fan of your outfits but that doesn't he wants you to change who you are to accomadate his taste. Just because the outfits he sent you had women with body types that are different from yours didn't mean he doesn't like your body type. You asked him a question and he answered but you didn't like his answer. He could have been more careful with your feelings but this whole situation blew up quick af. You can drop him if you want but is this actually an issue? Is him being a great guy up to this point suddenly not matter because of your contrasting taste in women clothing?
Dude sounds like kind of an r-slur tbh. Is he a catch? 
I think he's only seeing me because he can't get dates with women more attractive than me.
What the frick is going on here? She's fit and got style, and wears leather leggings. She wears classy dresses, too:
I thought I do wear classy dresses. This is the type of dresses I usually wear.
The dress:
Classy! 
Honestly, I'm sort of on the foids side here as insane as she is. Or, more accurately, I'm on the side that this dude must be even more r-slurred than her. Still, in summation:
I already have one.
Marsey wins again! 
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That is a hideous outfit but I respect her for not being fat or a slut and am irrevocably on her side because of it.
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i assumed she was a fatty from her post but no her fit was just shit lmfao
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very goosed
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Is goosed a good thing to be
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...yeah
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I don't know what that marsey means either
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I drive
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Gosling from Drive.
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Goosed is good man, don't worry about it!
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He's part of the scorpion clan, an infamous rdrama street gang.
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Are you not on the spectrum? It should be pretty clear to you
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I wonder how much a good Drive jacket costs and where to buy them. The shitty Chinese fast fashion ones are like under $100.
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You don't want to get a drive jacket. You want to get a jacket like a drive jacket, but with a different animal/symbol on the back. A good one would be one that has this Marsey on it.
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If there was a Marsey Drive jacket I would get it.
I think most animals that would be like the drive jacket are cringy. Dragons, tigers, and whatnot. So fricking twink.
Scorpion is inoffensive.
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Aevann never takes my opinions on what should be in the shop.
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How about an ant? Industrious, strong, secure.
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Ants are war criminals.
I'll settle for an egret. Or a Goose. Maybe one of those fancy Chink Ducks.
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It means you're Kenough.
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goosed? goosed on what?
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Goosed on Kenergy.
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When being normal is being something to be applauded, you know that the West has fallen.
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Billions must diet
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White people did this
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lol you openly lust after r-slurs, no one of any taste givers a frick what you think
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Carp always has the best take.
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I thought the dress was cute
though she has a big nose
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jesus christ can a foid really not go a month without getting complimented
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It's their weakness, the longer they go without a compliment the more shriveled they become.
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I have never complimented a woman and I never will.
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That's a good idea, for your own best interest the women around you should perceive themselves to be as low value as possible.
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Only soys are nice to women.
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I don't seek compliments or validation, I don't post on social media at all for dopamine hits (I don't post on social media at all), my only "feel good" dopamine hits come from self-achievements such as running, gym, making music, and academic accolades. I feel like the odd one out, but at the same time, it feels like how it should be to be mentally healthy.
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I told a foid that she was wearing a nice skirt, and where she got it so I could get it for my girlfriend; and she went from
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I don't acknowledge what women wear now.
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Femcel reaction lmao, and it's acceptable because she's a foid
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Your hair looks great today king
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That dress looks awful. Leather leggings look good on no one but Carmen Electra
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It's bizarre that she thinks it's classy. Not even knocking the style itself, it just... isn't classy. And isn't supposed to be, either, I would say. But I'm no fashionista.
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Absolutely
Classy would be silken or at least form accenting. She's literally wearing a house BIPOC dress
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With jeans underneath and terrible cheap shoes.
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You should. It's terrible
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goomblebot trying to save me from myself. Not gonna work.\
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I don't like it at all, just saying that even if I did I wouldn't think it was "classy".
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Right. But you should shit on that 'style' at every opportunity. Lack of bullying is what's killing modern society
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It's up to other women to bully it out of them imo. I'll just stay away.
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That's sexist tho
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Women deserve responsibilities chud
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accountability is violence
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Sneakers with suits for guys and sneakers with dresses with girls has been an awful thing to happen to fashion and it needs to go away soon.
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HOW ELSE WILL EVERYONE KNOW I'M FROM PORTLAND AND KEEPING IT WEIRD???
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And David Cross
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She dresses like a math teacher
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Carp must be lusting after her or something, I can't imagine how you can look at that fit and think 'yea I'm on the foids side, the guy shouldn't have pointed out her awful taste'
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I've actually dated a ton of chicks like this. One was so bad that I sent her an Etsy link of a cute dress with an overweight blonde model that looked like a fricking pig compared to her and I heard about how I wanted her to bleach her hair or was going to leave her for random blondes we saw for months afterwards.
Insecure foids will always make their insecurities your problem and they're absolutely exhausting to deal with.
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The problem you made was sticking your peepee in gussy. Bussy is uncomplicated, a hole is a hole and there are enough slut bottoms you don't ever need to touch a peepee that isn't yours.
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But you should touch the peepee cause its the best part
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I once dated a girl with a Jack Skellington tattoo. Probably the lowest point of my life.
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how fat was she? be honest
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She had an eating disorder and a coke addiction so she was skinny. This was like 5 years ago and she has overcome her (good) eating disorder and kicked her cocaine habit. so she has really ballooned.
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knew it. some travel different roads, but they all end up in the same place.
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I burp finally learned how to wheeze love myself
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That does sound exhausting lmao. I dated one girl who didn't know how to dress "classy", either. She was hot, and her normal clothes didn't bother me at all but we went to a wedding once and she wore a dress that made her look like shit. I never said anything about it, but it did bother me that she seemingly had no formal clothes. Not as bad as what you're saying, though.
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how do people live like this? Who the frick keeps track of this bullshit? It adds up to frickall in the long term. Straightforwardsly neurodivergent behavior - fetishizing a signal as reality.
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She is just ridiculously insecure. She thinks she's dating down seeing this guy, so the fact he isn't showering her with compliments is destroying her I think. What a world!
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Ooooh there it is. She's projecting lmfaoooo
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I agree but as an average fella I've dated some from dating apps I felt were pretty solidly equal to or below my league who I could tell were withholding compliments and doing some kind of female version of theredpill negging. They were texting me all the time and always bugging me about our next date and so on even when I was okay just ghosting so I knew they were interested but they couldn't admit it to themself because they thought they deserved a total chad or something. She's not great herself, but it can be kind of infuriating when you are dating someone who is a withholding jerk.
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Going on a date with a woman and not complimenting her is the real autism. I mean how do you pull that off even if you're trying to? I probably couldn't be around a moid for a couple hours without complimenting him.
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With all due respect sir, not all of us are old school gentlemen
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My reaction
stopped reading there. that OP is a dumb hoe, should never see each other again
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I dont think he would have shown her pics of "hotter women" per say. Just that if you google 'bodycon' dresses which are form fitting, youre bound to get imges of hotter women. This would be the case with most style of clothing. Nobody posts pictures of uggos to highlight a dress style.
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You are never allowed to complement other women even when you are explicitly complementing their clothes. He should have shown pictures of the clothes without anyone in it, or learnt the straggy words fashion designers use to decribe whatever style those people were wearing.
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Not sure she's a hoe, I think she's just a little bit r-slurred. The moid is dumber than her here imo, but she sounds extremely annoying herself.
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Every woman does this tho. Foids are incapable of ever believing that a man could like them better than their sister.
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