It is literally impossible for me not to frick every guy who swipes right on me. It's exhausting. Why are men doing this to me? How come I can't get married?

It's something I'm challenged with as a guy. I don't aggressively try to have s*x with women I'm dating and often they take this as me not being interested or simply don't feel the spark. Well, that spark you've been trained to believe is real passion, by life, is actually just some douche trying to frick. What I'm saying is it's easy for women to pick the aggressive guy, thinking he's really into her and totally ignore the guy trying to actually get to know her at a normal pace. Even if that guy doesn't have s*x with you for weeks or months he probably has some other girls. Find a guy really looking for you, your personality, in a partner. Not someone complimenting your looks, having a fun time, taking you on fun dates and thinking that is a foundation for a relationship - this is what women and men find important when dating for some reason, but none of it should be a priority for a relationship compared to shared values and goals.

Were all trapped in a bullshit game of fun and lust and because everyone has 100 options they jump from spark to spark hoping one catches fire. But one should build a fire pit, gather the sticks, start a fire... good luck, and I hope you can reframe how you choose who to date so you find someone on the same page, not pretending to be.

Lmao

>Dont go out with the guy who makes you complements, go out with me who plays video games 16 hours a day.