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I recently went to a queer/sapphic event. I had to go out of town for it, there's so very few wlw events in my area, if any at all.
The amount of cishet men who showed up, had the event explained to them, and still paid cover to stand awkwardly in the corners or tried in vain to hit on attendees was baffling.
One guy just stood uncomfortably close to a couple who were dancing and kissing, and he just stared.
The people working the door did their best to explain that maybe this event isn't the best one for them but nope. They wanted to come invade a feminine and queer space even though they were none of these things.
I used to run these types of events and we were never able to explicitly say cishet men weren't welcome because they'd get us shut down for being exclusionary.
Why? Why do they do this. Well. I know why. But on what fricking planet is this acceptable?
Just let us have this one thing.
the OP is 38 AFAB, homoromantic and omnisexual
A person who is homoromantic is romantically attracted to people who are the same or a similar gender as them.
People who identify as omnisexual are attracted to those of all gender identities and sexual orientations.
also this:
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This must be what men feel when we invade their golf clubs.
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YES THANK YOU
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There ARE WOMEN IN THE GOLF CLUBS?!
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Omg it was a big scandal at this super fancy golf club where I grew up. They were forced to admit women/let women play. I'm a feminist/equalist but darn just let the men escape their wives for an afternoon.
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Thank god for ice hockey. Women hate that
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Women's hockey is being shoved down leafs throats. It's awful. Sportsnet is considering putting women's highlights during NHL intermissions.
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Women's hockey is at least entertaining to watch. Sure the lack of hits is dumb ("What if they might be pregnant?!?") and they skate slower, shoot softer, have worse coordination and awareness, and frick up elementary skills all the time, but hockey is just so fricking good of a sport that it's still worth watching when there's a big competition.
Plus unlike a few notable female sports the women hockey players are often total babes under that full suit of armour.
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Like usual, you don't fully understand the situation because you have 4 holes with your brain being the bonus hole. The argument about the country clubs specifically is that many business meetings and deals are made in exclusionary clubs and that this put women at a disadvantage in the business world. This may or may not change your opinion (it doesn't for me) but it's a lot more complicated than "hurr durr getting away from nagging front holes"
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Yet you are pro-forced-birth. Curious.
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Birth control isn't exactly hard to figure out.
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Just because I like to get raw dawged with NO protection does NOT mean I want baby
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You are such a pickmeisha
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I'm just pro-life holy shit
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Actually, this is what we feel like when you vote.
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Foids
: Nooooooo men can't have their own clubs because that's sexist nooooooo
Mentally ill men in dresses
: We are wimminz too
Foids
: Yes of course welcome to the club, sister!
Men
: Yeah we're non-binary or whatever, idfc.
Foids
: Why can't we have our own spaces?
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It's (D)ifferent
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Sounds like a skill issue, famalam.
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Lol, most women only events are to promotemore women in position of power like corporate or STEM.
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That's the stated purpose.
What they're actually for is b-wording about moids and tearing other women down
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Feminism is about female empowerment, and what constitutes of it and how much it should be pushed is pretty much completely undefined.
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And yet the split tails are still fricking losing lmao
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Feminists are one of the following: degenerate scrotes that needs his degeneracy normalized, self-hating cute twinks, and bitter femoids who fetishize weakness as morality.
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You don't understand, when women have clubs it's magical fairy unicorn rainbows but when men have clubs it's stinky dirty no-good poo poo.
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Foids once again whining about the consequences of their own actions and blaming it on men.
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It was always implicitly understood that social constructs had to be deconstructed with female empowerment as the only goal. This means that moids going into female spaces is technically counterrevolutionary but women can't say that openly because it would make them look like self serving hypocrites.
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Most feminists are not feminists because they find the notions of discrimination wrong, but because they are the recipients of it. The moment others are the focus of bigotry they scarcely care.
This influences every facet of their behaviour
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They certainly won't miss a chance to say feminism helps men and the patriarchy hurts them (in order to use it as a cudgel to discredit any legitimate grievances)
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Girl math
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Every minority is like this btw.
Nobody actually cares about "empowering the oppressed", they just want more power themselves.
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"expose them as"
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https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/florence_nightingale_159066
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I didn't realise that women use the phrase "sapphic".
Also what's up with Reddit being basically pro-STD at the moment? Covid will kill you if you don't mask up but feel free to rawdog as many strangers as you want?
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A bunch of them already have herpes so they're trying to normalize it. Their order of events was:
Be anti-std -> contract herpes -> be pro-std
It's not like they're just pro-std out of some principle. It's just self-serving/cope.
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Yep lol
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Principled support for STDs is what separates us from them.
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scott weiner would like to know your location
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God, what an ugly son of a b-word.
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He's ugly in a soy, not a manly way.
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Woker than lesbian, which has problematic TEFF adjacency.
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Rules for thee not for me
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women have been invading, no DEMANDING to be let into, mens spaces and hobbies since forever and ruining them. Now its happening to them its a problem???
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I only wanted to play video games
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The circle of autism.
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Hobby spaces for nerd shit have been completely ruined, TCGs, Warhammer etc. All infected by foids and wokeshitters. They claim to be fans or have always been fans, but come into the space, shit it up, and demand hard changes to the lores, rules, etc. They were never fans, their goal is to just shit up the place with their narcissism.
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Nerds obsessed with consoomerism deserve everything bad and you can't change my mind
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It's really not any different from taking on the Star Wars franchise, other movie fandoms, or invading video games. They simply seek a new theater for the culture war and they know how to win it. Just look at how many 20 year olds will talk about how "actually nerd hobby I got into 1 year ago was always about spreading my personal favorite fringe left ideology."
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And that's how you end up with Black Aragorn and no racial traits.
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Stunning display of transphobia from TwoX right here.
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Be sure to search new comments for reportmaxxable content
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Under what crime?
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Eating a succulent Chinese meal
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Dog pilled
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Hate. Transphobia specifically. I get the best results reporting terfs with my reportmaxxing.
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R-slurred bait. They don't have to because straggots don't really care about gay events.
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eww she got herpes trans lives matter
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I wonder why cishet men don't like these people that want to specifically exclude them, and no one else, out of pure seething hatred, while lying about their intentions and disguising themselves as being open to all. It must be because of the widespread LGBTQophobia and sexism in cishet men.
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Snapshots:
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38 AFAB, homoromantic and omnisexual:
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Hot take - if herpes or HPV are life-alteringly terrifying for you, nonmonogamy probably isn't for you:
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I love that the first reply is some foid (possibly male) going to a gay bar with a bunch of girls. Not even gay men can have their own space
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I guess the McDonald's ball pit counts as a club now? like wtf what scenario would make this happen
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In the US, there are some cases in which discrimination is legal. It would be legal in this case if this qualifies as a "private club."
Personally, @transb-word went too a sapphic event (people were saying that @transb-word should go). @transb-word say this as a feminist ally: @transb-word came late and left early. When @transb-word arrived, one group was doing a DnD oneshot and the other was playing a game called thirsty sword lesbians. That's cool @transb-word guess, but @transb-word just didn't click with the people there. @transb-word don't play DnD, and the lesbian game seemed kind of weird too me.
This wasn't a romantic event btw, and there was no kissing or anything. There also weren't any straight men there, even though it was advertised quite indiscriminately. The women also weren't conventionally attractive by the standards of the male gaze; @transb-word doubt a man would get anything out of gawking.
@transb-word is inclined too say that this is all fake because it just seems so unlikely.
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Since you cant define woman and you cant be specific enough to dilineate all the acceptable 100 gender-shades of queer, why not just make these things a "
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I immediately did a CTRL-F for “trans” and was not disappointed
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Best friend is ACA with 86 mentions
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Women continue to get the world they ask for instead of the one they want, don't understand why they're unhappy
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