foid upset her actions have consequences

why would strangers judge me for having no integrity?

Found the cheater

Does anyone think it's kinda weird how absolutely feral people get about cheaters?

!fellas frozen is for the streets confirmed 2022

Literally the only people I know who ever defend cheaters are cheaters themselves, so I assume they're doing it to assuage some guilt. I guess ultimately it amounts to "just" a lie but it's a pretty big one and it completely annihilates any trust you could have in the person. It's obviously a really two-faced thing to do.

I've heard plenty of excuses like "well he's an butthole anyways" etc. but you always have the option to just break up with them (inb4 weird edge cases where the woman can't live on her own, but imo that's a minority of cheaters). In OP's case if she felt he was ignoring/neglecting her and not giving her the attention she wants, be it emotional or sexual, she could break up with him and pursue someone else. But she didn't do that because she's selfish and wanted to have whatever fling she wants while also maintaining a stable relationship with her finance.

Obviously people aren't going to respect someone who showcases that they're both untrustworthy and selfish. I mean those are two universally recognized "red flags".

I cheated once like 10 years ago and my boyfriend deserved it. I still don't feel bad about it.

!christians this is your Babylonian Queen

!foidmoment !incels

The foid cries out as she cheats on you

Part of the reason people get feral about it is that it's so common. And also people (foids especially) are feral in general and cheating is one of the few times that it's socially acceptable to show that.

1. People get really passionate about things with no moral grey area. Cheating is bad. There's really no two ways about it. People get so animated with their hatred for cheating because they don't have to worry about getting finger-wagged by moral busybodies. It's a free ticket to go feral about something, anything and people love showing off what a good person they are for hating the bad thing.

2. Personal fear. Nobody wants to be cheated on so if they vigorously condemn the act then they do their small part to increase the chances that other people will hear the message and not cheat. Or, less rationally, it reduces their chance of being cheated on because their condemnation means they are less deserving of cheating.

CHEATERS ARE FRICKING AWFUL AND DESERVE TO BE STRUNG UP BY THEIR BALLS

That's why I participate in what's called "ethical non-monogamy" There is absolutely NO cognitive dissonance here whatsoever!

Not really, tbh. It's in the running for one of the worst things you can do to someone that isn't actually illegal, and there's no defense against it. The betrayal itself is one thing, but the fallout of it in a long relationship blows up the victim's whole world and worldview.

Your high powered executive and mostly distant father did a number on your brain

People having a strong reaction to things is a sign that culture still has some teeth. Cheating is corrosive to a good society. It can cause real lasting damage to family units and a healthy society should have strong norms enforced around it. These norms are often most strongly created using shaming. These are all good things, cheaters are scumbags.

>omg it's people judge me for bad things i do, whyyy

You have BPD, try to see if you can frick the answers out of your therapist?

I'm not even taking a moral position on cheating, but the second I started reading this comment I thought "oh, so she's probably cheated before" and 2 sentences later it was confirmed lmao. I don't even disagree that reddit can get so feral about cheating but opening a comment with that has like a 100% correlation with having cheated in the past

A foid who is performatively religious but still acts in a selfish r-slurred manner

You will burn in Catholic heck

Is it really cheating if you're planning to exit the relationship anyway and are just waiting for a tactful time to do so

I say no.

Lol, you're a slut

So big a slut in fact that this does not hurt my chances of engaging in sexual activities with you in the slightest lol

God I hope this is bait because otherwise @pizzashill was right

> foid cheater logic.

Cheaters are all dishonorable cowards. There is simply no valid justification for this behavior.

Most morally upright PCUSA Presbyterian

Full disclosure if you cheat on me i will be hanging myself the moment i find out

people don't like when people are disloyal and don't really need to know much else. "That b-word can't even be trusted by someone who cares about her, what is she going do to someone who just met her?

I wouldn't even be that mad if it was just a one night stand*

*as long as I'm prettier than her

Theres definitely justified cheating but I think people usually get big mad about the unjustified. Nobody gets upset of a wifebeater gets cuckolded its when good ppl get cucked theres a problem

It's a little thing called empathy.

Post tits.

I hope the cancer comes back

Total cheater death

I think cheating is shitty. Even in a bad situation, just fricking end the relationship first, but it's also none of my business. I'm not gonna lose sleep over some actor I like being outed as a cheater. Unless I have a personal connection with one or more parties involved I don't really care.

Cheaters deserve to burn in heck, OP. You should disappear for everyone's benefit.

redditors are treating her like she murdered a child

This is the biggest L you've posted so far and that's saying a lot

For real, if you get cheated on, you're a loser.

That's the scientific consensus. So maybe don't take your shortcomings out on others

@pizzashill was right about women

you're so good at baiting honey