what happened to the good guys?

There is always an unspoken implication with posts like this that things used to be better and men have only recently gotten this bad.

So let's be brutally honest about this: for the last few hundred years, in much of the world there has been the expectation that people should find a way to exist in a lifelong monogamous pair bond. This has never actually worked for a majority of those people. Domestic violence, spousal r*pe, unequal division of domestic labour and cheating are not a deviation from the otherwise perfect concept of marriage, they are what marriage is for.

Modern women with the lifestyle of a mean greek godess hide their spite behind christian women who had to bury 5 out of her 9 children.