https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/1ap4jr6/maybe_the_reason_that_ive_never_had_a_boyfriend/
a rare moment of self-awareness
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Maybe the reason that I've never had a boyfriend and don't have friends irl is because I've been overestimating my looks this entire time. : r/ForeverAloneWomen
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I originally posted this on the other sub and started getting invalidated by men about my FA-status and also gender
war type of comments (which are both against the rules 
there, oh well) and DMs so I deleted my post there. It was my first 
post there 
and it's a real shame how they perceive 
FA women. Thanks to everyone 
here for being lovely and inclusive. โค๏ธ
I never
really 
thought 
I looked attractive, just ...decent, forgettable. That's my standards...that's "attractive" to me and what I considered to be good enough. This entire time. I'm 28F and don't have the beauty 
standard "hourglass" body type (small tits and butt, just no curves lol) either but I thought 
I could do my hair, nails, wear makeup 
(basic/natural makeup 
not the full face kind) etc to make up for it. But no. I also have a big nose.
I realise now that my looks are shite. Ugly. People do look at me in public but NOT "oh look at her she's so pretty" but more like "oh...yuck". I'd describe myself
as a friendly woman, and not outgoing but I really 
do open up if people talk to me. I can clean 
up and put effort 
into my appearance but I'll never 
be the attractive woman 
in the room.
My bff basically dumped me like 4 years ago (she accused me of some stupidity that I DIDN'T do and I couldn't prove something I didn't do so yeah off she went) and I've struggled so bad to make friends
irl since. I got lucky, I met her during school. And a love life? Forget it ya'll! I'm undateable and for the past few years I've had to attend people's weddings with a fake smile. I do have a couple 
friends 
online 
who I really 
am grateful 
for. But I really 
struggle in reality.
I really
yearn for a loving 
relationship or even proper friends. I have neither and a horrible abusive family 
to boot. Go figure.
My uncle
also once told me no one will marry 
me. So yeah.
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This is a really long way of saying you don't frick.
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I mean, yeah
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So basically has the bodyshape of a coke can with a big ugly schnozz. And she thinks she's average.
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If she's not fat she's right.
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